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- Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026)
- Just Be A Hole: Guest Story by Jezebel Jett
- Video! Tasting Menu: A Queer Erotica Reading
- Sinclair's 2026 Calendar: Online & In Person Workshops, Conferences, & More
- Call for Submissions: Gender Ever After (Gender-Affirming Sapphic Romance Stories)
- You'll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out
- Elust 188 includes my story "Did I Say You Could Touch Me?"
- Theo Reads Presents: Writing Spicy Showcase 2024 [Video]
- Did I Say You Could Touch Me?
- Dee’s Big Daddies Really Are Big: New High Quality XXXL Silicone Toys
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- Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026)
- You'll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out
- Did I Say You Could Touch Me?
- 8 Ways To Support Sugarbutch & Sinclair (Please)
- You'll Get What's Coming
- Show Me How Bad You Want Me
- Don't Swallow
- The Bradley Shower Pole
- Best of 2022 on Sugarbutch
- Best of 2021 on Sugarbutch
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Dirty Stories
- Just Be A Hole: Guest Story by Jezebel Jett
- You'll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out
- Did I Say You Could Touch Me?
- Milk: Part Three
- What I Will Call You, Guest Post by Macsen K. Rhaff
- You'll Get What's Coming
- Beg For It: A Collaborative Quickie Guest Post by Writing Spicy authors
- Show Me How Bad You Want Me
- Don't Swallow
- The Bradley Shower Pole
- Switch
- At Daddy's Feet, Guest Post by rife
- Best Lesbian Erotica - Queer Kink Erotica Reading Video
- All Villain, All Bully, Guest Post by Kel Hardy
- All Of This, Guest Erotica by A. L. Brooks
- The Golden Hour, by Anna Sansom
- Titrate My Urges, Chapter 1 (continued)
- Titrate My Urges: Chapter 1 (Untitled, Unpublished Novel Excerpt)
- This Isn't New
- Milk, Part Two
- Cinnamon Breakfast, Guest Post by Callie Gibson
- Milk, Part One
- Could I Get A Ride, Guest Post by Betty Shade
- Climax, Guest Post by rife
- Listen To Your Skin: Erotica Reading [Recording]
- Let’s Watch a Porno, Guest Post by Louise Kane
- Meeting Jason, Guest Post by Marcel Yeung
- Ode, Part 1
- First Time With Daddy, Guest Post by Kimberly Dark (Excerpt from The Daddies)
- Take My Whip: Fantasy Date Night, Guest Post by rife
Essays
- [Video] Sugar & Spice: Spicy Queer Kink Erotica Showcase
- [Video] Spicy Showcase at Drunken! Careening! Writers!
- [Video] Spicy Showcase at Smut Peddlers
- "Positivity! Support! Honesty! Gusto!": What People Say About the Writing Spicy Online Erotica Writing Group
- 10 Days of Writing Spicy Prompts
- Is Kink (Ever) Wholesome?
- How Are Daddy/boy and Daddy/girl Different?
- The Lineage & Ancestry of Queer Kinky Erotica
- On Developing A Writing Habit
- Some Core Writing Spicy Philosophies
- Write the Erotica You Want to Read In the World
- Three Ways to Improve Your Erotic Stories
- Poll: Which one of these erotica stories would you most want to read?
- Writing Erotica Is Activism: An Interview With Me on Erotica Writing
- The Relationship Smorgasbord
- Nonbinary Honorific Terms for a Dominant
- Lex Isn't Just For Dating, It's Also For Tenderqueers (and Me, and Maybe You)
- Five Steps To Getting Your Erotica Published
- Five Great Kink Podcasts You Should Be Listening To Already
- D/s Protocol Ideas For You To Try
- How To Use Check Ins In Your D/s Relationship
- Tools For Stepping Up D/s
- Someone Else Writes Worse Erotica Than You, I Promise
- The Aftermath
- Creating a D/s Training Wheel
- Fearless Relationship Inventory, Guest Post by rife
- 9 Ideas to Support Your D/s During Hard Times
- Is "Butch" A Nonbinary Identity?
- DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo
- Happy #InternationalPronounDay!
Poetry
- The Right One
- Sun-Baked Deck
- Sea Water
- Preparation
- Sobriety Sestina During COVID-19
- Sixteen
- The First Time With A Girl
- Poem for My Name
- A Poem About Worship & Worth
- I Want to Tell You
- Trauma Is Your Teacher
- She Is There In the Bed
- A Poem for the Closing of Workshops
- king of disks
- instructions on not giving up
- Liquid Smoke
- Advice to Myself
- That Moment When My Dad Reaches Out His Hand For Me To Grasp
- 14 ways of looking at New York
- Vortex Poem, Or: What I learned these last 15 years of studying embodiment
Reviews
- Dee’s Big Daddies Really Are Big: New High Quality XXXL Silicone Toys
- [Video] Sugar & Spice: Spicy Queer Kink Erotica Showcase
- [Video] Spicy Showcase at Smut Peddlers
- Check out the new queer porn site, QueerCrush
- Announcing: The Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6
- Cover Reveal: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6
- Monogamous People Should Read This, Too: Polysecure by Jessica Fern (Review)
- Try This Sex Toy Combo: Clit Pump + Transthetics Joystick
- Cock Confidence: The RodeoH Slyder (Review)
- Kink 101: Books, Websites, and Other Resources for Someone New to Kink
- Ten Erotic Films Better Than 50 Shades of Grey
- What I'm Reading, including Felix Ever After
- Best Lesbian Erotica Volume 5 is a Lammy Finalist!
- 6 Kink Books by Black Authors
- In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy
- Content Notes for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (Warning: Spoilers)
- Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!
- DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo
- Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine
- Announcing: Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (2021)