Is Kink (Ever) Wholesome?

April 30th, 2022 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: How Are Daddy/boy and Daddy/girl Different?

April 30th, 2022 • 3 minute read • by


The Lineage & Ancestry of Queer Kinky Erotica

February 28th, 2022 • 3 minute read • by


On Developing A Writing Habit

February 15th, 2022 • 10 minute read • by


Some Core Writing Spicy Philosophies

February 5th, 2022 • 4 minute read • by


Write the Erotica You Want to See In the World

January 31st, 2022 • 3 minute read • by


Three Ways to Improve Your Erotic Stories

January 27th, 2022 • 4 minute read • by


Poll: Which one of these erotica stories would you most want to read?

January 27th, 2022 • 2 minute read • by


The Relationship Smorgasbord

October 31st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Nonbinary Honorific Terms for a Dominant

September 30th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by


Lex Isn’t Just For Dating, It’s Also For Tenderqueers (and Me, and Maybe You)

September 30th, 2021 • 3 minute read • by


Five Steps To Getting Your Erotica Published

August 31st, 2021 • 3 minute read • by


Five Great Kink Podcasts You Should Be Listening To Already

August 31st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


D/s Protocol Ideas For You To Try

August 31st, 2021 • 3 minute read • by


How To Use Check Ins In Your D/s Relationship

August 1st, 2021 • 4 minute read • by


Tools For Stepping Up D/s

July 31st, 2021 • 6 minute read • by


Someone Else Writes Worse Erotica Than You, I Promise

June 30th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: The Aftermath

April 30th, 2021 • 5 minute read • by


Creating a D/s Training Wheel

April 30th, 2021 • 4 minute read • by


Fearless Relationship Inventory, Guest Post by rife

February 28th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by


9 Ideas to Support Your D/s During Hard Times

February 27th, 2021 • 5 minute read • by


Is “Butch” A Nonbinary Identity?

October 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo

October 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Happy #InternationalPronounDay!

October 20th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


This Is A Conversation About Duties: On M/s Language

August 29th, 2020 • 5 minute read • by


I’m Voting Biden/Harris, But I Still Want A Dyke For President

August 29th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


On Representing the M/s Title

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


On Stepping Away From M/s Language

July 24th, 2020 • 6 minute read • by


6 Black Educators to Follow & Support on Patreon

June 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Breath as a Healing Tool During COVID-19 with M’kali-Hashiki

June 30th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


Some Notes That May Turn Into A Sex Manifesto

March 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


“There Are Others Like You:” Interview with Rowdy, rife’s Puppy

February 18th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Ready to Make Waves: Two Recent Inspirational Leather Speeches

January 31st, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


Resources For Sex & Chronic Pain

January 20th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


No, You Don’t “Get” Racism Because You Are Oppressed, Too

November 27th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers

October 31st, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Bi-Erasure, Community, and Other Thoughts on Bisexual Visibility Day

September 23rd, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Writing About D/s Online

August 29th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


What Are You Going To Do With That Women, Gender, Sexuality Studies Degree?

August 5th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Methods of Control in Your D/s Relationship: Defining Rules, Tasks, Protocol, and Ritual

July 24th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Decks, Books, & Spreads: Getting Started with a Tarot Practice

July 12th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Kinky Summer Camps You Should Definitely Attend

June 28th, 2019 • 5 minute read • by


The Singular “They” Is Grammatically Correct, Dammit

May 16th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Dear (Cis) People Who Put Your Pronouns On Your “Hello My Name Is” Name Tag

April 20th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Fundamentals of the Protocol Game

April 15th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


The Outermost Bracket™: A Theory on D/s and Non-Monogamy

January 28th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Creating a Submissive Training Plan for Yourself

December 31st, 2018 • 4 minute read • by


Introducing Erotix: Literary Journal of Somatics

July 29th, 2018 • 3 minute read • by