Cock Confidence Guide

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Do you want to play with strap-on sex? Do you want to feel more confident strapping on and playing?

You’re in the right place.


Sinclair Sexsmith is an expert in all the aspects of strapping on, from the “hardware” of harnesses and silicone to the “software” of embodiment, confidence, and energy. I offers one-on-one sessions, Cock Confidence Personal Shopping, and group workshops!

Dig in to some of the articles Sinclair has written about Cock Confidence.

Cock Confidence: Pack & Play

Cock Confidence: Pack & Play

See also: My Packing Cocks 101 on Sugarbutch Speaking of pack & play cocks: There just aren't very many available right... more

Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing

Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing

Hi Sinclair, I have a soft packer, which I can carry around in my briefs with no problem. But, when... more

How to take butch cock seriously

How to take butch cock seriously

I often get asked about how to start playing with strap-on sex, how to get your partner to stop laughing... more



Here are some of the things they offer:

Custom One-on-One Sessions

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PERSONAL SHOPPER

Via Skype, in person, or by email

I need this!

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CONFIDENCE COACHING

via Skype

Let’s do it!

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HANDS ON, COCK ON SESSIONS

Sometimes, you need more than a workshop or a session or a guided tour of available materials. Sometimes, you need help troubleshooting something very specific, and it’s more than just talking about it.

I’m curious.


Sinclair tests all the new toys.

It’s a hard job, but someone’s gotta do it.

Tomboi vs. RodeoH: the best briefShilo, the bendable packing wonderAslan leather pleasure harnessHow to pack AND playThe best cocks and harnessesreview: the Outlaw by VixenReview: the Johnny from Babeland Review: Silky aka Mr. Bendy, My Very Favorite Cock Review: Pack & Play Roundup

So many cocks, so little time.

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cocks, cocks, and more cocks

Workshops at Toy Stores, Kink Groups, Community Centers, and More

The hit of your next party, conference, or gathering

Cock Confidence

Many of us have experience with strapping on, packing, and playing, but how confident are you? Need some help making those awkward moves from maybe-I’ll-strap-on to plowing? Plus, there are lots of new products out there on the market that might be exciting and that you haven’t encountered yet. Writer and sex educator Sinclair Sexsmith talks about cocks for packing and playing, which harnesses are the most loved, and which to avoid. Plus, we’ll delve into some cock confidence and cock mindfulness, positions, pegging, how the wearer can have more sensation, and more. Come get the nuts and bolts of strapping it on and fucking. * Open to any sexual orientations, couples or single folks, men women genderqueer folks and beyond.

Advanced Cock Confidence: Graduate Level Strapping On

So you know how to strap on—Great! Are you looking to increase sensation for yourself and your partner? How can you enhance your cock mindfulness? Are there contradictions to receiving penetration as a guy, a butch, or a stud? How does strap on play change as our bodies get older? What size is your cock, and what size should it be? Come learn more about constructing an advanced cock-centric sexuality, and preview some of the more unusual cocks on the market made for packing, pissing, and shooting.

Calendar of upcoming workshops

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Photo by Syd London at BUTCH Voices New York City Regional Conference, 2011

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