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Review: Bare As You Dare Harness

My very favorite strap-on harness, reviewed over at Eden Fantasys. It meets my three major requirements for harnesses:

  1. interchangeable O-rings,
  2. thin harness straps that hit my clit, and 
  3. g-string style, also so it hits my clit

I love how small it is, it’s easy to conceal and comfortable under clothing, and it’s nylon so it washes so easily. Plus? It’s only $16.

Have you used this harness, or one similar? What’s your favorite harness style, & why? Leave a comment here or, better yet, over at the Eden review.

My other reviews for Eden:

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

4 thoughts on “Review: Bare As You Dare Harness”

  1. Totally want to get a harness like this one. The last time we were in a sex store was in Provincetown and the lady who owned the store was showing a similar harness to a girl. She told her "honey, I've been fucking girls since before you were born and I know how to do it right" and she put the harness on over her clothes to demonstrate how to properly wear one (sadly without the dildo). Ah, good times. I regret not buying that one.

  2. Zoe says:

    Nice clear review. I'm currently look for a harness, and I can't decide g-string or double strap. I'm curious if you have ever worn g-string underwear? I'm not a big fan of them, which makes me wary of the g-string harness, but I'm not sure if the feeling is similar? I'm also hesitant to get something that would cut off access that much.

    [I'm definitely not a fan of g-string underwear, but I still love the g-string harness. If you want access, though, definitely double-strap is the way to go, g-string really doesn't allow that unless you loosen it – which is possible, but slightly annoying. –ss]

  3. Robin says:

    I prefer the leather double strap with o ring change out due to the stability while stroking – nothing more frustrating than to have everything shift. I am in the market for something for packing which this seems much more doable.

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