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Review: Comparing Two Ejaculating Cocks

I have a confession to make:

I like dirty sex. I mean, you probably already knew that. And by dirty I mean … body fluids. You already know that my girlfriend ejaculates frequently and that I like that very much. But you might not know that sometimes, what occupies my dirty talk is about my own ejaculate, coming inside.

Some of you might be going “ew” right about now, and it wasn’t that long ago that I probably would have been right there with you. But then … I don’t know what happened exactly, but I guess my sex life got a little bit dirtier. And things like that, that before I might have gone “ew” to right away, started getting me kind of hot. And then a lot hot.

I started thinking about what it would be like to have the physical evidence of that kind of coming inside, seeing something, if not me, actually squirt, actually leave a wet spot or a puddle or some moisture on skin. When I mentioned it to Kristen, she was into it. (She’s pretty dirty, too, in case you didn’t know.)

So Eden Fantasys sent us these:

Squirt the Realistic
Squirty Peter

It’s clear right away that neither of these cocks are made to be used in a harness. So that’s the big negative #1. If they’re not made for that, what are they made for? They’re not exactly dyke-marketed, so are they for straight couples? Made to be hand-held? Made for solo use for a (straight) woman? Who uses these? I figured, well, I can try them out hand-held regardless, they’d be more fun with a harness but let’s just try ’em out and see what happens.

When the first, Squirt the Realistic, showed up, as soon as I opened the package it had that plastic chemical stench that permeated the whole room. Not impressed. Usually that smell is indicative of pthalates, or of some other sort of leaking chemically plastic that I’m sure should not actually be in contact with anybody’s skin, let alone be inserted inside of an orifice.

So that is pretty much an automatic out.

Some specifications, though since it’s automatically out that doesn’t matter much: it’s 7″ x 1 7/8″, but it’s got balls and a suction cup, so it’s really only 5″ insertable. Not to be a size king or anything, but that’s a little bit small. It’s especially small if it is strapped on, because you need a bit more length to make sure you don’t pop out, but as we’ve already covered it doesn’t work in a harness, so that matters a little bit less here.

The second, Squirty Peter (really, Doc Johnson? You really use words like “dinger” and “dildo”? Bad choice), is a little better, though still not great. It’s rubber, which does not have leaky plastic materials but is still kind of sticky and annoying, especially when you have pets, because all the dust and hair sticks to it.

This one is 8 1/2″ x 1 3/4″ with 7 3/4″ insertable length. It kind of has a base on it, and I bet I could get it into a harness, but the base is less flared than it looks in the photo, plus it’s got this tube coming out of the end of it which would be a) uncomfortable and b) probably cut off the tube’s pressure and make it harder to actually do the squirting if it had a kink in it—you know, like how a garden hose stops working if the water is blocked. So it’s still not a great harness cock.

Still. I will admit, you know, privately, that I liked it. I liked being able to see the action I sometimes eroticize and fetishize.

Oh, speaking of ejaculate: Mostly I’ve just used water so far, and that’s been fine. I’ve been thinking about picking up a bottle of Liquid Silk lube, because aside from being awesome lube it is a pretty great consistency and thickness and color to mimic come. The packages for both of these cocks suggest using some sort of egg white + sugar recipe, but sugar is actually really bad for the pH of pussy (maybe these are made for gay boys?), so I won’t be doing that. Water’s fine, lube will probably be even better.

It won’t be a frequent toy in rotation, I’m sure—I received it this summer and it’s been infrequent at best—but I’ll be keeping it around. Especially for the affordable $12.99, it’s worth having around.

SPECIAL EXTRA NOTE TO COCK CREATORS & FUTURE COCK CREATORS:

Please make a better one of these. Make one for trans guys, for dykes, for dirty kinksters who actually want it to be able to be strapped on. Why don’t we have a good product like this out on the market? Tantus? Vixen Creations? Who’s gonna be first, hm?

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Squirt the Realistic and Squirty Peter were sent to me for review by Eden Fantasys. Get more cocks or other sex toys over at Eden. Thanks!

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

9 thoughts on “Review: Comparing Two Ejaculating Cocks”

  1. Cindy says:

    Great review. Would love to find a good ejaculating cock for use with my g/f. Sucks that the first one was useless. My biggest concern would be cleaning it out. I saw somewhere that some folks had some health issues with the Peter North ejaculating cock. Still keeping my fingers crossed someone gets it right.

    The Squirty Peter looks like it would be good for getting head though.

    1. Sinclair says:

      Me too—crossing my fingers someone gets it right. There must be some trans guy products made to do this, yeah? I should ask around.

  2. Blue says:

    Something I actually know a little about! The novelty-shaped toys sold at Bad-Dragon can all be modified to squirt. They are not human-esque really, intended for some strange folks indeed (read: me included). I remember when they first opened, and one of the toys was the Drippy Dragon. They even manufacture their own “cum lube” that is safe and looks like cum and, apparently, tastes good too. While you may not be interested in the cocks themselves (though I have heard they fit into harnesses fairly well) you may like the lube. Anyway, without futher ado, the website is http://www.bad-dragon.com –check it out? (There is a forum with reviews, too!)

  3. Jude says:

    I’ve been on the lookout for a good squirting cock too, but I wanted to suggest a great ejaculate–Did you know Liquid Silk has glycerine in it? Try Sliquid Silk. It’s really great lube(part water, part silicone), woman owned, looks like cum and doesn’t have glycerine!

    1. Sinclair says:

      I didn’t know that! I will look out for Sliquid Silk. I like the Sliquid company in general so I’m glad to have another version. Thanks!

  4. rexicon. says:

    i’m glad i’m not the only one who fantasizes about this… hopefully someone will come up with a workable version.

  5. August says:

    I’ve been wondering about these sort of toys for a while. Let us know if you find something good!

  6. What I wouldn’t give to come with the realistic one. I guess it doesn’t fit my role as a submissive in a hetero relationship, but what ever does. Hrrowr.

  7. Estella says:

    I use Yes lube http://www.yesyesyes.org/?gclid=CNSOk4Xk7asCFUJP4QodgWlcIQ which is certified organic and good for even the most sensitive vagina (i should know) and it looks like, and has, the consistency of ejaculate (whether or not this is deliberate, I don’t know).

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