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Best of 2022 on Sugarbutch
January 10th, 2023 •
7
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Best of 2021 on Sugarbutch
December 31st, 2021 •
7
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Happy 14th Anniversary, Sugarbutch
April 29th, 2020 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Resiliance and Rebuilding: 2013 in Books, Music, and Writings
January 6th, 2014 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Best Things I Wrote About Sex, Gender, & Relationships in 2012
December 30th, 2012 •
10
minute read • by
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Anal Week Wrap-Up
June 15th, 2010 •
< 1
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“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity
September 17th, 2009 •
5
minute read • by
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Holiday Ideas for Butches
December 16th, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
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“I’m kind of … insatiable.” My First Date with Kristen
December 15th, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
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My Father’s Son
December 3rd, 2008 •
3
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A girl: my future wife
November 28th, 2008 •
3
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Letter to myself: enough moping
November 7th, 2008 •
5
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On Love, Post-Election
November 5th, 2008 •
7
minute read • by
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Marriage is so gay*
October 24th, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
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Vote NO on Prop 8
October 20th, 2008 •
< 1
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Protected: image, exposed
October 16th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Matthew Shepard, and Not Getting Eaten Alive
October 11th, 2008 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On being a (gender) freak in New York City
October 8th, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
about the calendar photo shoot
October 1st, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Her Best Line
September 25th, 2008 •
11
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
upon returning, a small complaint
September 24th, 2008 •
3
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Sinclair Sexsmith
On Pronouns, Mine
September 16th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
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In Praise of Femmes: The Architecture of Identity
September 5th, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
In Praise of Femmes: Hair & Shaving
August 28th, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Butches: Hair
August 26th, 2008 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Suspension of Heterosexual Belief (1 of 3)
August 19th, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Difference Between Romance and Chivalry
August 11th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Sugarbutch Star Contest 2008: launch!
August 8th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Choice feminism & compulsory gender roles
August 1st, 2008 •
10
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Butch Style: Briefs
July 23rd, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Creating Conscious Gender
July 18th, 2008 •
7
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Packing Cocks 101
July 14th, 2008 •
7
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Intentional vs ‘Natural’ Gender
July 7th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Lesbian stereotypes, reclaiming language, and activism
July 1st, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
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June 30th, 2008 •
5
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Sinclair Sexsmith
More on Butch Bras
June 24th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Butch Breasts, Binders, & Bras
June 24th, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
In Praise of Femmes: Trust
June 9th, 2008 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On misperceiving someone as femme or butch
May 8th, 2008 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Revised: Music To Fuck To
April 30th, 2008 •
< 1
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Sinclair Sexsmith
The Red Tie Night, Six Years Ago
April 17th, 2008 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
How to take butch cock seriously
April 8th, 2008 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Tips for Dating via Personal Ads
March 15th, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
In Response to a Rant Against Female Masculinity
March 14th, 2008 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Femininity & Heterosexism
March 4th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Nostalgia for the Butch/Femme Dynamic
February 26th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Privilege & Gender (Part Two)
February 22nd, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Passing, Privilege, & Butch/Femme
February 22nd, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
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ask for what you want
September 7th, 2007 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
if that’s what you’re into
September 3rd, 2007 •
< 1
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