Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

I Have Things To Tell You!

August 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Want to Hear Some Erotica Tonight? Come to Sideshow!

August 10th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Stories from My Youth

August 9th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Countdown to the Femme Conference: Two Weeks

August 6th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

E[lust] #18: Summer Sexblog Reads

August 4th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: It’s Official

August 4th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by

Butch Brunch in New York City

August 3rd, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

August is Heat Wave / Erotica at Sideshow

August 3rd, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Mentor Series #2: Free Will Astrology by Rob Brezny

August 3rd, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

The Ongoing Quest to be Sexually Fulfilled

August 2nd, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Countdown to the Femme Conference: Three Weeks

July 30th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Define: Outsider Complex

July 29th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Live Tweeting Porn: “Fluid” Tomorrow

July 27th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Heart 2 Heart Blindfold

July 26th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

My Take on “The Kids Are All Right”

July 21st, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Oh Hello, City of Roses

July 21st, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Sweat & Summer

July 20th, 2010 • 8 minute read • by

Sideshow’s Erotica Show is August 10th

July 19th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Sober Stories at Queer Memoir 7/24

July 19th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Snapshot: Sideshow’s Freak Flag

July 15th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Get a Dominant to Dominate

July 13th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Tonight! Freak Flag at Sideshow

July 13th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Slick G Harness by Aslan Leather

July 13th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Review: Heart 2 Heart Cuffs

July 9th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Laid: Young People’s Experiences with Sex in an Easy-Access Culture (Seal Press)

July 9th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

a new “I believe” poem

July 7th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Nominations Open For the 2010 Top Sex Bloggers

July 7th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Sideshow’s Freak Flag is One Week Away

July 6th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Things I’m Doing

July 6th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Review: Good Porn: A Woman’s Guide by Erika Lust (Seal Press)

July 6th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Classes in Portland, OR in Late July

July 5th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

On Masculinity, Mine

July 5th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

“There’s a Man in the Woman’s Room NOT” by Kelli Dunham

July 4th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Lesbian Cowboys Erotica Giveaway … The Winner Is:

July 2nd, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Consuming Porn of Other Orientations

July 1st, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Mentor Series #1: Dan Savage & the Savage Love Podcast

June 30th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Giveaway! Lesbian Cowboys Erotica

June 29th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Reconciling Feminism & Sadism

June 29th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by

Sideshow Promo Images by Syd London

June 28th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Wave Your Freak Flag at SIDESHOW! July 13th

June 28th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

I’ve Returned From the Rainy Pacific Northwest!

June 27th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Lesbian Cowboys (Book)

June 18th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Deluxe Packing Pouch

June 16th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Anal Week Wrap-Up

June 15th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Silk

June 14th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

BDSM is Not Abuse

June 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

e[lust] #15 includes my “Waking Up”

June 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

The Great LGBTQ Photo Show Opens Next Week

June 11th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

From Not Stone to Stone-ish

June 11th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Sideshow’s Butch/Femme Pride Show TONIGHT!

June 8th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by