Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

e[lust] #27 includes “Strapping On for the First Time”

July 12th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Queering Power Dynamics Workshop in Seattle Tonight!

July 7th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Hello From Vacation

July 6th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Best Lesbian Erotica 2012, selected & introduced by Sinclair Sexsmith

June 28th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Friday Reads: Better

June 24th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

The Last Sideshow, July 12th

June 23rd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

For Cheryl

June 23rd, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Cheryl B.

June 19th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Piercing, Waxing, & Other Body Modifications as Sex Toys

June 18th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by

Quick Things for Your Weekend

June 17th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Unsolicited Advice to a New Butch (aka The Butch Poem)

June 14th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Tonight! Butch/Femme Pride at Sideshow

June 14th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Must See Porn: Roulette Toronto & Crash Pad #6

June 13th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Does Your Family Read Your Blog?

June 10th, 2011 • 4 minute read • by

Mini Interview: Just Jess

June 10th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

My Favorite Binder (More On Butch Bras)

June 10th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

When “Gender Expression” Means “Masculine”

June 9th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: What To Do With Old Sex Toys?

June 7th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Going on in June

June 2nd, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

“You’re Into That?” and Another Photo of Me

June 2nd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Strapping On For the First Time

June 1st, 2011 • 4 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: My Favorite Spanking

June 1st, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship

May 31st, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Cock Confidence: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On

May 24th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Second Annual Butch/Femme Pride Sideshow! June 14th

May 23rd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller

May 23rd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Happy 28th Birthday, Kristen!

May 20th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Mini Interview: Jiz Lee

May 18th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Babeland’s New Gender Expression Category

May 18th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Returning from the Power, Surrender, and Intimacy Retreat

May 18th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Confidence & Getting Girls Off

May 10th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by

Biggest Sideshow Yet! Genderqueer Tantra! So Much To Do

May 9th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

What Are Some Sex Positive Words for Women?

May 7th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: “The Champion Within”

May 6th, 2011 • 4 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: My Favorite Smut

May 6th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

K-Daddy Lang on Her Place in the Top Hot Butches list

May 3rd, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Origins of ‘Sugarbutch’, and Butch Identity Advice

May 3rd, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Lesbian Sex Mafia Presents: Genderqueer Tantra May 12th

May 3rd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Happening in May

May 2nd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Poetry vs Comedy Variety Hour at Sideshow May 10th

May 2nd, 2011 • 5 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Non-Cheesy “Self-Help”

May 2nd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Smut Day

April 29th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Friday Reads: More of This World Or Maybe Another

April 29th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Happy 5th Anniversary, Sugarbutch! And: Ask Me Anything

April 29th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

I’ve returned from the Midwest!

April 25th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

UW Madison tonight!

April 20th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

“Doing to me just what sugar does:” k.d. lang in New York City

April 18th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

In Your Dreams …

April 12th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

One More Birthday Shoe Photo

April 11th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Butch Lab’s Symposium #2 is Up!

April 11th, 2011 • 7 minute read • by