Femmes Needed for PhD Study

UPDATE: Matt has more than enough interviews for his study, thank you for helping! — Why hello femmes, I have a request: One of my…

femme conference countdown!

The Femme Conference is next week! August really came on me fast, I can’t believe the summer’s almost over. Wait, let me rephrase – I…

An Argument For Butch/Femme

Guest post from my best friend The Muse. We were discussing a post I found earlier today called “an argument against butch/femme,” which I may…

butch/femme holiday guide

My Butch/Femme Holiday Gift List is getting out of control. I have four pages of notes in my journal, multiple notepad files with links and…

fluffer femme spy

I got my very own Fluffer Femme Spy this week, a good femme friend of mine in Seattle who has given me all sorts of…

The Best Queer Sex Blogs

A friend of mine emailed me this week asking for recommendations for other queer erotica online. I emailed her back with some links off the…

Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica

Paperback: 232 pages April 17, 2012 ISBN: 1573447854 Lesbian Erotica, BDSM, Fiction: LGBTQ © 2012 Cleis Press “These stories weren’t gentle sweet sixty-nine and cooing….

Thanksgiving in Texas

I’ve been in Dallas with Kristen’s family for the last few days for the Thanksgiving holiday. We did a Dirty Queer Sex Tour reading on…