Thanksgiving in Texas

I’ve been in Dallas with Kristen’s family for the last few days for the Thanksgiving holiday. We did a Dirty Queer Sex Tour reading on…

The Pink Dress

Do y’all remember the Sugarbutch Star stories? It was a series where readers sent in a scenario and I wrote up the story. This is…

Review: Taxi Volume I (DVD)

Syd Blakovich & Justine Joli in Taxi Volume I Finally getting around to telling you about Taxi, which is a web series as well as…

What’s Happening in August

Holy crap, there’s a lot going on this month. Events with Mr. Sexsmith Tuesday, August 16th, 8-10pm Cock Confidence workshop Camouflage sex toy shop in…

Tomcat’s Barber Shop

It’s been a long time coming, this ode to my favorite barber shop in New York City. It took a while to find it, but…

Angie Evans: Mini-Interview

“[Butch] represents the way I walk in the world and represents the sisters and brothers who have come before me. It is a part of my herstory. By owning my female masculinity I own the word butch, thus, I own myself.”

It’s That Calendar Time of Year

It’s the calendar time of year, where activists, artists, and photographers come out with annual affordable wall art to decorate your lovely walls. And here…

Define: Outsider Complex

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being.” —Hafiz I haven’t found an…

elust #5: Quiet Holiday Version

Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy…

The Sugarbutch 2009 Holiday Gift Guide

There are some standard gendered gifts – belt buckles, cuff links, handkerchiefs, pocket or wrist watches, ties & tie accessories, makeup, perfume, jewelry, lingerie –…

On Getting Girls Off

There’s something I want to clear up, especially for those folks who have only been reading Sugarbutch for the last eight or so months that…

How To Begin Playing with BDSM

Recently, this came into my inbox: I’m in a relationship now with a wonderful person and I’m really intrigued and turned on by BDSM, but…

A Butch Roadmap

Ivan Coyote (#6 in the Top Hot Butches list), has just released a piece on his column for xtra.ca called A Butch Roadmap, and it…