A friend of mine emailed me this week asking for recommendations for other queer erotica online. I emailed her back with some links off the top of my head, but I’ve been pondering this question since then … where ARE all the queer sex bloggers? The ones who write erotica, I mean, not the ones who are writing sex commentary (because there are certainly some of those) or about butch/femme culture (ditto some of those) or who are reviewing toys (also some good ones) or are actual video/photographic porn (yay, but not erotica) or who aren’t writing anymore (there are a few who haven’t updated in years).
Kinkly has a top sex bloggers ranked list, but they don’t specify if they’re queer or not, or what kind of sex blog it is—and most of the ones at the top are sex toy blogs.
So here’s some recommendations of my personal favorite places to go read smutty erotica words written by and about queers. Am I missing anyone? Leave comments with recommendations, please!
1. BD Swain, www.bdswain.com
From the micro-stories on her Instagram to the longer works on her blog, BD Swain has written some of my favorite smut ever. Mostly butch/femme, but switchy, and includes some other pairings occasionally.
Also, if you like BD’s dirty photos, pick up her custom deck of poker cards. So hot.
2. Xan West, xanwest.wordpress.com
Mostly they write about writing erotica, and there are not as many actual erotic stories on their site, but there are excerpts from their upcoming novel “Shocking Violet.” Definitely check out his new book Show Yourself To Me (there’s one story from that book on Sugarbutch, called “The Tender Sweet Young Thing”).
Excerpt from A Tease from Shocking Violet:
“Don’t forget to breathe, honey,” she drawled.
She was right. He wasn’t fucking breathing. He licked dry lips and tipped his glass to her before taking a swallow of cool water.
3. Words Can Be Sexy, wordscanbesexy.com
Written by non-monogamous, trans, queer femme Olivia Dromen, hir work is incredibly sexy and detailed and well-written and full of genderqueerness. This is a new link for me, so I’m excited to dive into the archives and devour it all.
Excerpt from [Short] Overwhelmed:
Ze pats zir knees with both hands.
4. Kyle, www.butchtastic.net
Butch/femme, butch/butch, writings about gender … Kyle has been one of my favorite bloggers since he started Butchtastic.
Excerpt from I Know What You Been Doing:
“Daddy… I’m sorry… what… what are you going to do to me?” The mixture of anticipation and fear in your voice makes my clit pulse.
5. Trans Fag Sex Journals, transfagssexjournals.blogspot.com
From the description: “two transfags of color living in a big city, exploring safe anonymous play with bio-boys.” This is new to me, and doesn’t have updates since 2014, but the archives are rich and interesting.
67. Rebekah Weatherspoon, www.rebekahweatherspoon.com/blog
Rebekah doesn’t have a lot of stories online, but she has tons of ebooks and they’re fantastic. Her book “At Her Feet” is a Mommy/girl story, and it’s fantastic. She’s also an avid erotica reader and has tons of recommendations of other titles, and also runs WOC in Romance, highlighting romance written by women of color (not queer, but important!).
7. Kiki Delovely, kikidelovely.wordpress.com
Kiki’s work is mostly in erotica anthologies, but she does have some excerpts on her blog.
“NO, Daddi!” I cry out before I can catch myself. Your free hand lands severely on my ass, harder this time, my body uncontrollably releasing a violent jerk as I swallow the pain.
“You will take your punishment like a good grrl.”
8. Jen Cross, writingourselveswhole.org
Jen has run Writing Ourselves Whole, writing workshops “at the intersection of sex and trauma,” for a decade, and her work is phenomenal. She doesn’t have a lot of her erotic writing online, but she did undertake a masturbation May project, We Can Come Home, a few years back and that is fascinating to read. Her work explores the very complicated intersection of desire and healing, and much of it is explicit.
Excerpt from Opening the Throat:
9. Jack Stratton, www.writingdirty.com
Jack writes mostly m/f erotica—and some of my very favorite smut of all time—but he also has a variety of gay erotic pieces, which I find complex and interesting. Not exactly a queer erotica writer, but he’s pretty queer, and you might find things you like in his extensive archives.
Excerpt from The Shaving Lesson:
Henry felt the fear mix with a little anger. It felt like Adam was reading his mind and laughing at him.
“I’ll let you know when I think of an excuse that will keep you straight while you suck my cock.”
10. Benji Bright, Underwear Tales
Benji Bright’s work was recommended to me by Xan West, and I’m very glad to have discovered it. He has many stories in anthologies and, recently, his own short story collection Boy Stories.
From He Doesn’t Want to Call It What It Is:
Giselle Renarde, Donuts and Desires
I adore Giselle Renarde’s work. She is in dozens of anthologies, and has an elaborate page of free smut online at her blog.
From Prude’s Failsafe Advice for Eating Ass:
Gloria made happy noises as she lunged at my ass, fucking me with her tongue. It felt fat inside me, with far more girth than her finger. As she went at me, I reached for my clit and found it engorged, my pussy dripping with juice.
- Also check out the guest post section here on Sugarbutch – mostly the guest posts include the authors I’ve mentioned above, but you still might find something exciting.
- Someone suggested Archive of Our Own, which is primarily fan fiction but includes quite a bit of queer erotica if you’re willing to dig through the archives.
- There are a few internet archive sites of erotica that include queer work, like Nifty, which is exclusively LGBT, Literotica, and Lust Stories, but the quality is very hit-and-miss.
There MUST be other gay boy erotica blogs out there, but I don’t know them. I mean there must be other queer erotica blogs in general—please tell me this list is incomplete! Honestly, I have been looking and asking on Twitter & Facebook and this is the best of the best that I can come up with. Who have I missed? Do you write erotica & share it online?
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Readers are more than welcome to check out my free smut page at Donuts & Desires: http://donutsdesires.blogspot.ca/p/free-smut.html
There’s a wide variety of fiction (and not-entirely-fictitious accounts) listed on that page. I’m every kind of queer. Most of my stories are, too.
Thank you for including me on this list. I appreciate the recognition very much. Your blog was a revelation for me and you were a direct inspiration for creating Butchtastic.
If you sometimes like your queer erotica a little surreal you might enjoy my sapphic stories at llifellove.blogspot.com
Thanks and best wishes, Cody
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I’ve only recently begun compiling erotic fiction on my blog https://lucasboulderguard.blogspot.com/. My selection is thin, but I’m adding more regularly.