Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

March Book Roundup: Sex, sex, and more sex

April 3rd, 2014 • 8 minute read • by

Protected: This week in photos: That green spring color

March 26th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

The Beautiful Permission

March 25th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: How Do I Use My Girlfriend for My Pleasure?

March 19th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

Counting Down

March 17th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: This week in photos: Playing tourist in SF

March 10th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Aneros Evi G-Spot Massager

March 9th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: “And bowing not knowing to what”

March 5th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by

Ready to explore “embodiment”? Three workshop offerings in Seattle & San Francisco in March & April

March 4th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

When I’m getting off

March 3rd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

February 25th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

Protected: This week in photos: Yosemite & back

February 24th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: This week in photos: Snow, mostly

February 13th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

It’s Valentine’s Day, so here’s some Desert Island Toys

February 12th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

February Feature: Crash Pad Series & strap-on queer porn scenes you gotta see

February 11th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by

On the road again … Portland + Princeton

February 4th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?

February 3rd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by

Protected: This week in photos: freakish Bay Area winter

February 1st, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup

January 31st, 2014 • 4 minute read • by

Why A Wrestler Will Beat A Boxer Every Time

January 28th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

How I make my boy do the dishes

January 27th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, Part Eight: Creating an Active Fantasy Life, It’s Okay to Be Butch, and “You’re Fucking Gay”

January 24th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: The Threat of Folding In

January 22nd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Didn’t you mention a marketing or business ecourse recently?

January 8th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Resiliance and Rebuilding: 2013 in Books, Music, and Writings

January 6th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, Part Seven: The Journey, Smut, and Black Tee Shirts

December 28th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Masocast podcast features … me! Also: Fancy Package on #subplay!

December 23rd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

eLust #53 includes my “Pick a Hole. You Know What Happens Next.”

December 17th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Gender, Poetry, and Smut: Current Recommended Reads

December 17th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview of 2013, Part Six: Stay for the Smut

December 16th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Fragments

December 10th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Why Lesbian Erotica is Activism

December 10th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by

What’s in our sex den? Books, of course.

December 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Jiz Lee masturbating + a copy of Best Lesbian Erotica + snacks + wine + reading smut aloud + YOU = Queer Smut at the CSC next week ($20 cover)

December 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now

December 4th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Hole Hunger

December 2nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Do you like queer smut? Next week, I bet we can make you blush.

December 2nd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?

November 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Coming Out Genderqueer: An Open Letter to My Family & Friends

November 26th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy

November 22nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview of 2013, Part 5: In which you recommend Stone Butch Blues & Fried Green Tomatoes, and give good advice

November 21st, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Video: Sinclair reads Five Blow Jobs (And oh yeah, hi)

November 21st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: A poem I’ve been writing for eighteen months

November 20th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Bondage cuff and bow tie by Rand Leather

November 19th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

How things start to melt open

November 12th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Love Bump, aka Shilo’s Balls by New York Toy Collective

November 11th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Free eBook Download: BDSM murder mystery about dogs & neighbors

November 11th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Big Book of Orgasms: Blog Tour!

November 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Your Body Remembers

November 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Dirty Queer Sex Workshops in Seattle November 14-17

November 5th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by