Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

How to Chomp: Erotic Biting for Pleasure & Pain

November 5th, 2013 • 10 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, Part Four: “Shut up and get hit,” Communion, and fun erotica

November 3rd, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

The hottest parts of the hottest parts of the stories: The Big Book of Orgasms

November 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Review (& Photos!): Aslan Leather TG Chest Harness

October 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, Part Three: Personal accountability & self reflections, Kink, and Do Your Research

October 24th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

I want more.

October 20th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, part two

October 17th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, part 1: National Fisting Day, embracing gender complexities, and more

October 16th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

To the femmes on whom I’ve crushed this past year

October 5th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months

October 2nd, 2013 • 15 minute read • by

Hey readers! I want to (mini-)interview YOU!

September 26th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #21

September 23rd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #20

September 22nd, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #19

September 20th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: What happens to the stuff on the anal toys when you boil them?

September 20th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Free download of Visible: A Femmethology Volume Two

September 18th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: First time with a girl

September 18th, 2013 • 6 minute read • by

Two years with Rife

September 17th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

“Under the Desk” Featured in eLust #50

September 17th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #17

September 16th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by

I’m about to go back on tour. 2013-2014 workshops! Bring me to your school!

September 13th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #16

September 13th, 2013 • 14 minute read • by

Making Peace #14

September 10th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #13

September 9th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by

Five Blow Jobs

September 9th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack ‘n play cock!

September 8th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #12

September 8th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #11

September 7th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #10

September 6th, 2013 • 6 minute read • by

I quit.

September 6th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

What It Means

September 5th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #7

September 3rd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #6

September 2nd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #5

August 30th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?

August 29th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #4

August 29th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #3

August 28th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: The end of the great northern road trip (aka the end of last month in photos)

August 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #2

August 27th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Making Peace #1

August 26th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: It’s all still disorienting

August 22nd, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: Late July in photos: Albuquerque & Jemez travels

August 22nd, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Jam Body Tank, aka Compression Tank, aka Faux-Binder

August 21st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

BUTCH Voices 2013 conference starts tomorrow! “What are you doing after that, Sinclair?” “I’m going to Disneyland!”

August 15th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Gaping Yawp

July 31st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Want to promote your cool thing at the BUTCH Voices conference?

July 31st, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: The biggest holiday (and the last few days) in Juneau (aka last week in pictures part one)

July 12th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

New workshop in Albuquerque July 21: Pleasure Lab

July 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Want to attend the BUTCH Voices 2013 Conference for free?

July 1st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: The fields of wildflowers were stunning. (aka This week in photos part two)

June 30th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by