eye candy: bedroom eyes

June 12th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


eye candy: lauren

May 28th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


pink & bent: queer women art exhibit in nyc

May 19th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


eye candy: extra dirty

May 15th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch (again)

May 8th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by


On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

May 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


eye candy: triple scorpio

May 7th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Butch Identity & Misogyny

April 29th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


eye candy: “Womyn in Construction” series

April 28th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


eye candy: pharoah

April 24th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


Protected: such a beautiful submissive impulse

April 22nd, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


eye candy: butchlalis

April 21st, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


The Red Tie Night, Six Years Ago

April 17th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


The personal ad I’m not posting

April 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


eye candy: ho hum

April 1st, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


portrait: aversiĆ³n

March 25th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


I like to pack

March 21st, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


march masthead: bringing butch back

March 20th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


couple, in b&w

March 18th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


suit & tie

March 17th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


jack: portrait

March 15th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


more butch eye candy

March 14th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


momentary celebration

March 12th, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


In Response to a Rant Against Female Masculinity, Guest Post by Jesse James

March 12th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


“Lesbian Does Not = Butch”

March 12th, 2008 • 8 minute read • by


On Privilege & Gender (Part Two)

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Passing, Privilege, & Butch/Femme

February 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by


Re-Valuing Masculinity

February 1st, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


licking pussy is chivalry without pants

January 31st, 2008 • 1 minute read • by


under my radar

January 2nd, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


poll results: my ass is hers

December 23rd, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


Do I pack daily?

December 19th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


butch/femme holiday guide

December 19th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


I like submitting, but that’s a secret

December 19th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


whatever you want

December 17th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


a little butch trick

December 16th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


a queer symbol, a pagan symbol

December 11th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


what is it you … want?

November 26th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


will my cock get sucked?

November 20th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


Motivations behind my butch identity development process

November 2nd, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


Butch Stoicism

October 31st, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


“Femme is Pure Strength”

October 12th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


further workshop revelations

October 8th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by


More on Butch Identity, Mine

September 19th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


broken, breaking

September 16th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


Butch & Trans In Conversation: Interview with Cody

September 10th, 2007 • 13 minute read • by


I top on the third date

September 5th, 2007 • 6 minute read • by


Why we need to examine our lives

August 30th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


thank you ladies. you didn’t have to say that*

August 27th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by


Top 10 things I love about being butch

August 24th, 2007 • 1 minute read • by