Her Mouth on My Cock
This is an honorable mention Sugarbutch Star submission from the femme top. And yes I know I never posted about our second date … consider…
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Charcoal Portrait in the Art Studio
This is an honorable mention from the Sugarbutch Star contest, from Grey. Written from her perspective. I plan to post a few more honorable mentions…
file under: things to look forward to
Tomorrow will bring the second in the series of five Sugarbutch Star contest entries, and this one will feature a threesome scene from Lady Brett…
active surrender
I spent much of yesterday going over the Sugarbutch Star entires (again & again, some of them) and I am still just overwhelmed, in awe,…
The Diner on the Corner (Part Two)
The first official Sugarbutch Star entry, submitted by Essin’ Em. Part one is here. “Your turn,” she says, crossing the diner floor. Her heels click…
oops
Pardon the diversion. Now back to your regularly scheduled Sugarbutch Star Contest.
The Diner on the Corner (Part One)
It’s officially over, and I’ve got 42 submissions. I will be posting my top picks weekly through the beginning of September, and then I’ll open…
vulnerability and simplicity
It feels … vulnerable, I think, to write anything but sex right now, given the amount of traffic the Sugarbutch Star contest is getting. I’m…
calling all bloggers
If you feel so inspired to put a link on your blog back to the Sugarbutch Star contest, please link to /search/label/sugarbutch%20star – and you’re…
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[Video] Sugar & Spice: Spicy Queer Kink Erotica Showcase
Here’s the replay for the Sugar & Spice Spicy Showcase! Sugar & Spice: Queer Kink Erotica Reading Sunday, December 17, 2023, 10am PT / 1pm…
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[Video] Spicy Showcase at Drunken! Careening! Writers!
Here’s the replay for the Spicy Showcase at Drunken! Careening! Writers! Queer Kink Erotica at Drunken! Careening! Writers! Thursday, December 14, 2023, 4-6pm PT /…
Spicy Showcases: Come Join Me For Writing Spicy Queer Kinky Erotica Readings
You’re Invited! To the Spicy Showcases from the 2023 Writing Spicy erotica writing group’s online readings, on December 6, December 14, and December 17 Here’s…
“If you’re gonna write spicy, you need spicy ink!” Some Writing Spicy Art by @aluminumbrat
In one of the previous Writing Spicy groups, aluminumbrat illustrated this gorgeous lil piece of me adding peppers & eggplants to a blender and making…
Check out the new queer porn site, QueerCrush
Have you seen QueerCrush yet? QueerCrush is “a celebration of authentic lesbian passion and fun brought to you by director Electra Rayne and videograoher Dahlia…
Columns, Guest Posts, & Other Writings
On Autostraddle Constellations is a short series of interconnected erotic stories published on Autostraddle in 2020 as part of their erotica series “Slick.” They are accessible…
Sinclair’s 2023 Calendar
Here’s where I’ll be and what I’ll be teaching — online & in person — in 2023! This page will be updated as things are added….
Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 7
Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 7 Paperback & Ebook Release Date: December 6, 2022 ISBN: 9781627783279 eISBN: Lesbian Erotica, BDSM, Fiction: LGBTQ ©…
Elust #155 includes My Story “Switch”
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism,…
Bring a Friend to D/s Playground
D/s Playground rides again! I started this online course in 2014 with rife, and since then it has evolved and been polished up many different…
Erotica Writing Joy, Protocol Game, D/s, & Other Recent Media
Lots o’ stuff going on over here! Grateful for all the amazing folks who have had me on their podcast lately, who have written about…
On Developing A Writing Habit
“Any tips for developing the time/habit/discipline to write regularly?” This is an age-old question for not only writers, but everyone seeking a creative life. There…
Three Ways to Improve Your Erotic Stories
1: Add More Sensory Detail Adding sensory detail — more sight, sound, taste, smell, and feel — heightens the impact of the descriptions, especially in…
Writing Spicy: Online Erotica Writing Group
Writing Spicy runs approximately once a year. Add your email to the list (below) to be the first to be notified when registration opens again!…
Announcing: Writing Spicier: Online Erotica Writing Group
Write the erotica you want to read in the world. Part two of the erotica class that began as Pen Play! Writing Spicier builds on…
Elust #144 includes “Titrate My Urges (Chapter One, Part Two)”
Welcome to Elust 144. Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re…
Announcing: The Dom Sessions
I’m doing a new thing! I’ve been talking about this for years and I’m excited to be actually making it happen. In 2022, through the…
Titrate My Urges, Chapter 1 (continued)
This is a continuation of chapter 1 of the unpublished, unedited, untitled novel. Read the first part of chapter 1 here. Content warning: breakup, sex…
Writing Erotica Is Activism: An Interview With Me on Erotica Writing
Rachel Kramer Bussel is writing a book on how to write erotica, titled How to Write Erotica, and it should be published either in late…
Elust #143 includes my story “Titrate My Urges”
Welcome to Elust 143. Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re…
Titrate My Urges: Chapter 1 (Untitled, Unpublished Novel Excerpt)
This is chapter 1 of the unpublished, unedited, untitled novel that I wrote for Nanowrimo a few years ago. I’m starting up Nanowrimo for the…
Monogamous People Should Read This, Too: Polysecure by Jessica Fern (Review)
If you are anywhere near polyamorous community, relationship psychology, or even just new and interesting books, you have probably heard about the book Polysecure: Attachment,…
Elust #142 features Non-binary Honorific Terms for A Dominant
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism,…
Writing Spicy: Online Erotica Writing Workshop Series
Quarantine and sheltering in place has been intense. I don’t know about you, but for me, I have struggled with both my writing practice and…
Five Steps To Getting Your Erotica Published
Getting your erotica published isn’t as hard as you might think it is. Here’s a few places to submit your work and some suggestions for…
Five Great Kink Podcasts You Should Be Listening To Already
Podcasts aren’t everyone’s thing — sometimes people just don’t process information though audio, and sometimes we just don’t have the kind of lifestyle where we are…
D/s Protocol Ideas For You To Try
When I started in D/s relationships (12+ years ago, now!), I was so thrilled to have someone who would say that they would do what…
Elust #140 includes my story “Crave”
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism,…
Tools For Stepping Up D/s
I don’t know about you all, but I have a bit more energy for D/s these days. It’s been a seriously rough and emotional year…
Elust #139 includes “Kink 101 Resources”
Thanks for including my recent post about kink 101 resources! Hope it was helpful. Welcome to Elust 139. The only place where the smartest and…
Dirty Calligraphy
I’ve gotten really in to calligraphy, fountain pens, art journaling, and some other paper crafts over the past few years, and it intensified during the…
Cock Confidence: The RodeoH Slyder (Review)
I’m obsessed. Look, the dildo market for the past twenty years has been a wild ride. In the late 90s, when I started buying dildos,…
Kink 101: Books, Websites, and Other Resources for Someone New to Kink
“Do you have specific resources that you would recommend for me to share with someone who is new to the kink scene? Books, and also…
Ten Erotic Films Better Than 50 Shades of Grey
This is not at all intended to be a comprehensive list — there are hundreds of erotic films and novels out there, many of which…
Elust 137 Includes “Creating A D/s Training Wheel”
It’s been a while since I’ve been part of Elust! Here’s #137 which includes Creating a D/s Training Wheel. Welcome to Elust 137. The only…
Creating a D/s Training Wheel
rife and I often talk about a “training wheel” when we’re teaching The Protocol Game. A training wheel (as we use the term) is a…
6 Kink Books by Black Authors
In honor of Black History/Futures Month, Here are some books about kink, BDSM, and power dynamics written by Black authors. I’m listing links to Bookshop.org…
9 Ideas to Support Your D/s During Hard Times
I’m writing this in February 2021, eleven months after the start of the global COVID pandemic. So when I say “hard times,” of course I…
Content Notes for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (Warning: Spoilers)
There are 17 stories in Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5, and here’s a little bit about each one. Hopefully this will give…
DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo
Missed National Fisting Day? Rife here with a storytime DIY fun bonding or gift idea, as the gift giving season is around the corner. So…
Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine
“With a fist full of credit cards, a lucky run at the horse track, and chutzpah for days, Franco Stevens launched Curve, the best-selling lesbian…