Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

On misperceiving someone as femme or butch

May 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

Review of Crossdressing: Erotic Stories

May 8th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Sex Drive, Bed Death, & Dealbreakers

May 6th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

what happened in April

May 6th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Sugarbutch Star: WINNER!

May 6th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Lesbian bed death, Butch/femme dating, and More Femme Worship (Plus Q&A)

May 1st, 2008 • 8 minute read • by

Revised: Music To Fuck To

April 30th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Butch Identity & Misogyny

April 29th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Femme Outfits, Fantasy, and more Q&A

April 29th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by

ask me anything

April 29th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

sugarbutch’s second anniversary

April 29th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: a potent alchemy

April 28th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

128: such sexy shit

April 23rd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: such a beautiful submissive impulse

April 22nd, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

On Piercing: Earlobe, Clit, Cock

April 22nd, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

The Sadistic Impulse

April 21st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Feeldoe Stout double dildo

April 18th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

‘I sing the body electric’

April 17th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

The Red Tie Night, Six Years Ago

April 17th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

Five Tips for Getting Laid

April 15th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Sugarbutch Star: VOTE!

April 11th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

The Photo Shoot

April 10th, 2008 • 10 minute read • by

beebo brinker on stage

April 9th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Clitoral Anatomy: Make a Wish on That Bone

April 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

How to take butch cock seriously

April 8th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

The personal ad I’m not posting

April 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

another year around the sun

April 3rd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: “I’ve seen you do that.”

April 2nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

falling in love is still cheating

April 2nd, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

blogging for RAINN

April 1st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

what happened in March

April 1st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: depth of variation

March 31st, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

the universe received the memo …

March 29th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

declining politely

March 28th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

introducing: jesse james

March 24th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

what I’m obsessing over

March 24th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

High heels lead to a stronger pelvic floor

March 21st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

request: feminist sex resources

March 20th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

In Praise of Femmes: Stretchmarks

March 20th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

march masthead: bringing butch back

March 20th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

sinclair on the radio! – tomorrow

March 19th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

ride this big old thing

March 17th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Reflections on Exes

March 16th, 2008 • 7 minute read • by

Tips for Dating via Personal Ads

March 15th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Messin’ With Your Gender Paradigm

March 14th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

In Response to a Rant Against Female Masculinity

March 14th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

prepare yourselves

March 13th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

on a lighter note

March 12th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

“Lesbian Does Not = Butch”

March 12th, 2008 • 8 minute read • by

occasional excitement

March 7th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by