Queer sex, kink, gender, and relationships by Sinclair Sexsmith
All Dirty Stories
Kink & D/s
About & Contact
7 Tips For Flirting As A Submissive
Follow your own Kinky Desire Map
10 Tips for Tops
Dear Tops: Say Thank You
Is psychological kink play “healthy”?
Bored Kinkster Blues
Free download: Submissive Starter Kit
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferences … help!
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: How Do I Use My Girlfriend for My Pleasure?
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: What happens to the stuff on the anal toys when you boil them?
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: First time with a girl
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack ‘n play cock!
Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?
Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 3: “How Can I Be More Open About Kink?”
Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 2: “How To Have a Successful Threesome”
Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions – Episode 1: “I Want To Be Taken”
Femme Invisibility & Beyond
Ask Me Anything: What to Wear to a BDSM Weekend?
Ask Me Anything: How to Give Blow Jobs Without Feeling Stupid
Ask Me Anything: What To Do With Old Sex Toys?
Ask Me Anything: Strapping On For the First Time
Ask Me Anything: My Favorite Spanking
Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship
Ask Me Anything: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On
Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller
Ask Me Anything: Confidence & Getting Girls Off
Ask Me Anything: Origins of ‘Sugarbutch’, and Butch Identity Advice
Ask Me Anything: Non-Cheesy “Self-Help”
Ask Me Anything: Smut Day
Ask Me Anything: Being Recognized & Dreaming About Sex
Ask Me Anything: Coming Out at Work
Ask Me Anything: Becoming More Dominant
Ask Me Anything: Standards of Beauty
On Being Left Out of Butch & Femme
Stories from My Youth
On Masculinity, Mine
Consuming Porn of Other Orientations
Reconciling Feminism & Sadism
From Not Stone to Stone-ish
Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing
Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Harnesses for Plus-Sized Women?
“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity
Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations
How To Begin Playing with BDSM
Sadism, and the Study of Pain
Answers to some questions