Here’s the last of the questions from the Ask Me Anything post on Sugarbutch’s 4th anniversary! Thanks, everybody, for the comments and questions, and I hope you liked the responses.
Your blog is under a pseudonym, but you do post pictures. Etiquette wise, if you are in a queer setting and someone recognizes you from your pictures or blog, are you comfortable with being approached? —J-Femme
I’m fairly comfortable being approached—especially if I’m out socializing at a queer event, I’m happy saying hello to people or having a conversation with folks who know my work. If I’m on a date or alone, it’s probably still okay to say hi, but I’d just ask you to use your own discretion and not necessarily plop down at the table next to us and chat us up for hours, since perhaps we wanted to have some alone time.
But in queer social space, sure—I love talking to people about their experiences, and I’ve met some amazing people because they were readers of mine first who quickly became friends.
And last but not least …
Given that you think and write so much about sex, do you dream about sex? What are your sex dreams like? Do you get ideas for awake sex from dream sex?—femme in butch clothing
Yes, sometimes I dream about sex—it varies, like anybody’s dreams, to sometimes being very realistic, sometimes being very surreal, or sometimes being very extreme (almost uncomfortably so). I don’t remember ever having a dream and thinking, “Oh, wow, I should make that happen,” but it can often lead to inspiration to play in general, though not necessarily to reproduce what I’ve been dreaming about.
What about you all? Do you dream about sex? Just curious … (or voyeuristic, one or the other).
2 thoughts on “Ask Me Anything: Being Recognized & Dreaming About Sex”
I do dream about sex… it's often very trippy. I actually write about it, sometimes. There's one here (if you're curious): http://polyblue.livejournal.com/1612.html
Yes. I do dream about sex quite a bit but I don't ever recall waking up and thinking, "I need to try that." Most of my sex dreams are about the person I'm with when I'm in a relationship and, lately, they're about my most recent ex-girlfriend. A wee bit frustrating, to say the least, since I'm not dating at the moment.