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The Dirtiest Kristen Stories
Today is my one year anniversary of dating Kristen. There’s another post coming shortly about our year together, but while that’s coming, here are some…
The Sugarbutch 2009 Holiday Gift Guide
There are some standard gendered gifts – belt buckles, cuff links, handkerchiefs, pocket or wrist watches, ties & tie accessories, makeup, perfume, jewelry, lingerie –…
Fucking & Making Love
She looked so damn hot yesterday. I don’t know what it was exactly. She was in an outfit I’ve seen, tight slim jeans, her girly…
Fucking in Public in Liberator Lingerie
Kristen and I dispute how many times we’ve been to the particular play party that we attended on Halloween. I thought we’d been before at…
Review: Seven Minutes in Heaven (DVD)
On Friday, Kristen and I sat down to watch No Fauxxx‘s latest DVD from Reel Queer Productions, Seven Minutes in Heaven: Coming Out. And we…
Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing
Hi Sinclair, I have a soft packer, which I can carry around in my briefs with no problem. But, when strapping with a cock like…
“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity
Back in April, for Sugarbutch’s third anniversary, I offered up an “ask me anything” thread where readers could ask any burning questions that they’d like…
“Can I come? Please?”
Kristen gets off easily. When we were discussing it last night, she said there’s a point after we’ve been fucking for a bit where she…
Pleasurists #36: includes “The New Big Cock”
Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the…
Review: Randy, The New Big Cock
I had to change o-rings for this one. Thick and dense and contoured and completely stiff, unlike the squeezable Bandit that she’d been sucking off…
Review: the Famous Fleshlight
This episode of fucking with gender is brought to you by Babeland, one of the most fabulous feminist, woman-friendly, gender-friendly, and queer-friendly sex toy stores,…
Hogtied – on Pleasurists #31
Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did…
Cock Confidence: Bandit by Vixen Creations
I’m pulling from my cock-review structure to give you the low-down on the Bandit, a Vixskin silicone strap-on cock. Shape: Immediately, the shape is what…
Answers to some questions
Do you have a top five list of toys/accessories that you love and recommend? People’s sexualities are so different, so what’s best for me might…
All Five Senses (Part 2)
When we last left our hero, she was checking her fly in a library after a femme got off right in front of her. “That…
My slutty little girl.
Or, how her dirty talk got me off. Twice. In my bedroom. We both knew we only had a few hours until she would leave,…
Cock Confidence: The Outlaw by Vixen Creations (Review)
Following the Johnny review breakdown precedence, here’s how the Outlaw cock by Vixen Creations from one of my very favorite sex toy stores stacks up.
(Then I’ll tell you a little embarrassing story concerning the Outlaw and a hotel room with Kristen.)
Review: Lesbian Life: Real Sex San Francisco
I’m not sure how it happened actually, but somewhere in the last few months I started updating my Twitter account with thoughts when I was…
Pleasurists #18
I don’t usually submit to Pleasurists – I don’t really consider myself a toy reviewer in the way that others do. I just like to…
What happened in February
What I wrote about in February of 2009. Mostly, it was a lot of smut, and some miscellany, including a little bit of controversy about sex toy reviews. Oh, and I won this really cool award. Yay!
What we did on Valentine’s Day
“Oh, goddamn,” I gasp, a little breathless. “You are so good at that. So good at sucking my cock, oh my god.”
She kisses me, hard, and pulls back. “I’m not done yet,” she says in that playful whispery girl tone.
I groan. God. Language barely working in my mind. I kiss her again and take the back of her head into my palm, shove her down. “Do it then.”
She moans a little, surprised, gasping, and picks up right where she left off, cock on the back of her tongue, far. I can feel every sweet slick place in her. I work my fingers under the straps of my harness; my clit is as hard as my cock and I roll it gently, savoring, mimicking the way her mouth goes up and down. She makes it all wet and runs her tongue on the shaft, kisses it.
What happened in January
I’m so behind on the roundups. I’ve been less focused on Sugarbutch in January and February because I’ve had some personal things going on, not the least of which is the new relationship with Kristen. Here’s what I wrote about on Sugarbutch in January 2009.
Best Sex Toy Reviewers of 2008
The Best Sex Toy Reviewers list was published today, and on it, at #7, with a bullet, is yours truly. Thanks y’all! I’m glad the reviews that I do are useful for you. So … now that I’m writing about sex toy reviews, I have a few things to say before getting on to the list.
Babeland’s Best Sex Toys of 2008
Celebrate the New Year by indulging yourself at Babeland’s retail-wide annual four day sale. From January 1 through January 4, almost everything in the store will be 25% off, with many toys marked down up to 40%. Warming refreshments will be served. Stop by a Babeland store in Seattle, New York or Brooklyn.
Her Best Line
This is the first Sugarbutch Star 2008 story, the submission is from Eileen at A Place to Draw Blood Laughing. Her Best Line I’ve heard the New…
Review: Spartacus Leathers
I’m not sure I get it really, why leather turns me on so much, I mean, hell, I was vegan for about five years and…
What happened in July
July was a big month! I’m refining the topics & categories that I’m beginning to consistently write here, and I like the columns I’ve started…
Cock Confidence: Goodfella from Vixen Creations
I just got Vixskins packing cock Goodfella from Eden this week – it is made to pack with, so its very bendable, and it has…
Review: Packing Cocks 101
One of my particularly favorite sex toy stores sent me a slew of packing cocks to review – cocks that aren’t necessarily hard enough to…
Review: Share Double Dildo, and Two Vibrators
How do I love Babeland … let me count the ways. Well, so first, they asked me if I’d like to review the Papillion vibrator….
On Piercing: Earlobe, Clit, Cock
I put an earring in my left ear over the weekend, a simple stainless steel hoop that goes through two of the four holes I…
Review: Feeldoe Stout double dildo
Finally finished my review for Eden Fantasys of the Feeldoe stout double dildo … perhaps you would guess, but I’m actually not quite as impressed…
How to take butch cock seriously
I often get asked about how to start playing with strap-on sex, how to get your partner to stop laughing during strap-on sex, how to…
prepare yourselves
I know you’re starting to not believe me about this Sugarbutch Star Contest coming to a close and all, but I really am going to…
what happened in February
Sex The Therapy Session: she took my fingers deep into her mouth like she does, letting me feel her throat and the back of her…
The Houseboy’s Rebellion
For Datedyke, because she asked me for this story, with thanks for reading the early draft and commenting things like “Make my character more mean,”…
the hotel room (part three)
Our story continues with our hero and heroine already in the midst of fucking in a hotel room near the Seattle airport. Read part one…
the hotel room (part two)
Her cock slid in and out of my mouth. It was not small. Mid-range, maybe; definitely bigger than the average dildo. Thicker and longer than…
the hotel room
It’s really hard to write this up amidst family dynamics and wrapping gifts and visiting old haunts in my hometown – so this is just…
Things that happened Thursday:
I got a replacement copy of The Leather Daddy and the Femme and read the first few chapters on the subway. The writing is smooth,…
Unwrapping the Present (Excerpt)
She perches on the edge of the bed, spreading her legs, eyes on me. I take two quick steps to stand between her thighs and…
Review: Silky aka Mr. Bendy, My Very Favorite Cock
My very first sex toy review is up Eden Fantasys (whose name makes me want to get out my red English Major pen and correctly…
further workshop revelations
I brought my butchness to this workshop in a way I never have before. On Saturday, I wore a button-down and tie in the morning….
broken, breaking
I walked home with my thumb slung in my blazer jacket pocket, fingering the tip of my favorite pink packing cock, the ridges on the…
The Hitchhiker
Thanks to bird for this Sugarbutch Star scenario submission. I’ve been working on this for a few weeks now, it proved harder than I expected…
I top on the third date
Oh, yeah, I had a date last Tuesday. A week ago now.I showed up, six-pack in hand, at her apartment on Tuesday night. She answered…
Charcoal Portrait in the Art Studio
This is an honorable mention from the Sugarbutch Star contest, from Grey. Written from her perspective. I plan to post a few more honorable mentions…
Threesome & A Purple Tie
Thanks to Lady Brett Ashley for this submission, the second of the five finalists in the Sugarbtuch Star contest. Threesome and a Purple Tie Brett…
get fantasizin’!
The submissions are pouring in – by which I mean, I have six. They’re good ones, though, all of them. People, you’ve got today &…