Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

“Death by Sex” Heels

April 13th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Talk To Me Baby (VOD)

April 13th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (Book)

April 13th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Following Up: What’s Next? Queer Activism in the South

April 9th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Spring Cleaning: Needing Sex and Space

April 9th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by

2010 Sex Blogger Calendar Giveaway Winners

April 9th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Come One, Come All, to SIDESHOW!

April 8th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

So What’s Next?: McMillen’s Fake Prom

April 7th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Nothing Says Happy Birthday Like Bondage

April 7th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

April’s Pin-Up Giveaway

April 5th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Easter Finest

April 5th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Shoes & Thong

April 4th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

The Seal Says Happy Birthday

April 4th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

On the Lawn

April 4th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Ribbons

April 4th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Italian Boots

April 4th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

The First of the Birthday Heels

April 4th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

The Sugarbutch Birthday Tradition

April 2nd, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Update! Sideshow Reading Series has a NEW VENUE

March 31st, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Is That 6″ On Your Arm, Or Are You Just … ?

March 31st, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Giveaway Winners! Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica

March 26th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Sugar High Glitter City (VOD)

March 26th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Sugarbutch + The Stockroom = <3

March 24th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend: Prom Is So Gay

March 24th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

eLust #10: Weekly Sexblog Roundup

March 24th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Giveaway! Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica

March 22nd, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Introducing Sideshow: The Queer Literary Carnival

March 20th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Books That Changed My Life

March 18th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Oh, Hi

March 17th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Spanking 101

March 16th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Lambda Literary Nominees Featuring “This One’s Going to Last Forever”

March 16th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Countdown to SXSW: Tomorrow!

March 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Radical Masculinity: Reinventing Our Icons

March 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Review: The Njoy Fun Wand

March 12th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

How Do I Let Go of a Past Hurt?

March 11th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by

Desperation & Dominance

March 5th, 2010 • 7 minute read • by

And the Lezzy Goes To …

March 5th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Love Letter #4 (Growing Pains)

March 2nd, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Lezzy Finalist! Vote Daily Until March 2nd!

February 24th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

SXSW and Austin Bound in March: Update

February 24th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop: Revised (this Friday!)

February 15th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Consent Obsession

February 15th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Bulldyke Chronicles, Saturday 2/20/10 in NYC

February 15th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Nominate Sugarbutch for a 2009 Lezzy Award!

February 15th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

My Hands Are My Heart (Valentine’s Day)

February 12th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Word of the Day: Antevasin

February 12th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

“On Dichotomies that (No Longer) Jail Me” and More From KinkForAll Providence

February 9th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Masculinity Icons: Happy Birthday, James Dean

February 8th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Introducing: Mr. Sexsmith’s Other Girlfriend

February 5th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop! Gendering Power 2/19

February 5th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by