Extra Sexy Valentine’s Day

So Babeland did this sweet Valentine’s Day gift guide, and it got me thinking about what sexy toys and gifts I would highly, highly recommend,…

Masks at October’s Sideshow

Hey guess what! Sideshow is just around the corner. Next week, Tuesday October 12th, Sideshow: The Queer Literary Carnival will feature six readers on the…

Review: Spur

It’s been a while since I’ve written a review of a cock! The Silk, since it’s so non-realistic, doesn’t quite feel the same as something…

Come One, Come All, to SIDESHOW!

(More details & information at SideshowReadingSeries.wordpress.com.) New York City: home to some of the best performance art, spoken word, poetry, and literary culture in the…

April’s Pin-Up Giveaway

It’s April again, and you already know that means it’s my birthday, and Sugarbutch’s blogiversary. But did you also know that this year, I am…

The Sugarbutch Birthday Tradition

April 3rd is my birthday, I’m turning 31 tomorrow. I love being in my thirties (fuck those who-am-I finding-myself-bullshit twenties, I’m so ready to be…

Yes, No, and Consent

In much of the workshops and trainings around sexuality and sexual expression that I have attended, we have often started with one basic concept: saying…

Visions of Sexual Freedom

Need a fabulous gift this holiday season? Don’t know what to get your (least) favorite boss or your Grandma? Well! Here ya go: the New…

Review: Buck

Oh, Vixskin. (Sigh & swoon.) I often get questions about which cocks I recommend, and I always say Vixen Creation’s line of Vixskin material. They…