Protected: And What A Celebration It Was

July 24th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


Some Notes That May Turn Into A Sex Manifesto

March 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by


Take My Whip: Fantasy Date Night, Guest Post by rife

March 28th, 2020 • 5 minute read • by


I’m Still Not Tired of Your Company, aka A Valentine

February 17th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


These Eight Years

September 30th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Touch, Devour, Swallow

September 30th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Two

July 7th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Five Blow Jobs on the Me & My Boi blog tour

June 15th, 2016 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: Sexting

November 13th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Leather: A Dirty Story in Photos

September 6th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: Daddy’s Good Boy

July 11th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


What you should know about privacy, secret identities, and kink communities

June 24th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by


A Little Note About Father’s Day

June 13th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: This week in photos: porn, pancakes, and green things.

June 5th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: Two Weeks Ago in photos: California staycation

June 4th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


The Identity Project: “Butch daddy poet” and “Genderqueer leather boy”

May 30th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


What It Means To Love You

May 23rd, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: The most holy things I do

May 22nd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Fantasy, Gardens, & Politics of Butch Identity in April’s Book Roundup

May 6th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: This month in photos, part one: in which I turn 35 and visit Seattle

April 28th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


Happy Birthday, rife!

April 24th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Treehouse Poem

April 21st, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Vulnerability is a challenge

April 15th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: You’re Fucking Mine

April 4th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


The Beautiful Permission

March 25th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


Counting Down

March 17th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


When I’m getting off

March 3rd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


On the road again … Portland + Princeton

February 4th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


How I make my boy do the dishes

January 27th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: The Threat of Folding In

January 22nd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Fragments

December 10th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


What’s in our sex den? Books, of course.

December 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now

December 4th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Hole Hunger

December 2nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy

November 22nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Video: Sinclair reads Five Blow Jobs (And oh yeah, hi)

November 21st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Dirty Queer Sex Workshops in Seattle November 14-17

November 5th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


How to Chomp: Erotic Biting for Pleasure & Pain

November 5th, 2013 • 10 minute read • by


Review (& Photos!): Aslan Leather TG Chest Harness

October 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


I want more.

October 20th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months

October 2nd, 2013 • 15 minute read • by


Two years with Rife

September 17th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #17

September 16th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #16

September 13th, 2013 • 14 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #13

September 9th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Five Blow Jobs

September 9th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #12

September 8th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #10

September 6th, 2013 • 6 minute read • by


What It Means

September 5th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: It’s all still disorienting

August 22nd, 2013 • 4 minute read • by