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You’ll Take Whatever I Can Dish Out

September 9th, 2025 • 3 minute read • by

Did I Say You Could Touch Me?

July 15th, 2025 • 3 minute read • by

8 Ways To Support Sugarbutch & Sinclair (Please)

May 17th, 2025 • 4 minute read • by

You’ll Get What’s Coming

October 21st, 2024 • 5 minute read • by

Show Me How Bad You Want Me

October 2nd, 2024 • 3 minute read • by

Don’t Swallow

September 22nd, 2024 • 7 minute read • by

The Bradley Shower Pole

October 4th, 2023 • 13 minute read • by

Best of 2022 on Sugarbutch

January 10th, 2023 • 7 minute read • by

Best of 2021 on Sugarbutch

December 31st, 2021 • 7 minute read • by

Announcing: The Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6

November 30th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by

Nonbinary Honorific Terms for a Dominant

September 30th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by

Five Steps To Getting Your Erotica Published

August 31st, 2021 • 3 minute read • by

Five Great Kink Podcasts You Should Be Listening To Already

August 31st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by

D/s Protocol Ideas For You To Try

August 31st, 2021 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Milk, Part One

August 31st, 2021 • 5 minute read • by

How To Use Check Ins In Your D/s Relationship

August 1st, 2021 • 4 minute read • by

Tools For Stepping Up D/s

July 31st, 2021 • 6 minute read • by

Kink 101: Books, Websites, and Other Resources for Someone New to Kink

May 31st, 2021 • 6 minute read • by

6 Kink Books by Black Authors

February 28th, 2021 • 6 minute read • by

Content Notes for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (Warning: Spoilers)

December 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

This Is A Conversation About Duties: On M/s Language

August 29th, 2020 • 5 minute read • by

The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

On Representing the M/s Title

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

On Stepping Away From M/s Language

July 24th, 2020 • 6 minute read • by

Cock Confidence: The Sacred Act of Going Inside Someone Else’s Body

May 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

Touch, Devour, Swallow

September 30th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Dear (Cis) People Who Put Your Pronouns On Your “Hello My Name Is” Name Tag

April 20th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

The Outermost Bracket™: A Theory on D/s and Non-Monogamy

January 28th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by

Creating a Submissive Training Plan for Yourself

December 31st, 2018 • 4 minute read • by

Show Me You Want It

December 31st, 2018 • 3 minute read • by

I Want To Be Brutal.

December 26th, 2018 • 6 minute read • by

Looking for a good dirty read? Here ya go

December 30th, 2017 • 8 minute read • by

You can be your strongest self AND a power bottom

September 17th, 2016 • 4 minute read • by

How I Became A Daddy

July 23rd, 2016 • 4 minute read • by

A Personal History of Best Lesbian Erotica

February 17th, 2016 • 4 minute read • by

Introducing View From The Top: My BDSM Journey

February 5th, 2016 • 2 minute read • by

The Best Queer Sex Blogs

November 15th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by

7 Tips For Flirting As A Submissive

September 11th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

You’ll Never Find the Perfect Dominant

August 18th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by

The Night Everything Changed (Lauren & Beck #1)

July 28th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

Honeysuckle & Leather (Angie & Fern #1)

June 11th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

Daddy’s Belt (Bean & Mickey #1)

May 7th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

The Bootblack Boy (Mistress Elise Winter & morgan #1)

April 16th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

Cruising in the Woods (Kai & DJ #1)

March 15th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

Handling Her (Asher & Jesse #1)

February 6th, 2015 • 6 minute read • by

To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a Move

February 25th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

How to Chomp: Erotic Biting for Pleasure & Pain

November 5th, 2013 • 10 minute read • by

Dirty Filthy Nasty

September 3rd, 2012 • 10 minute read • by

The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Pack & Play

February 8th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by