Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

Protected: How do you survive falling in love with people who ravage you? *

September 15th, 2008 • 8 minute read • by

brief celebreality moment

September 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Define: Need a Word For Receiving Chivalry

September 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Define: Cisgender

September 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

BSB: the creation myth

September 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: blackberry

September 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

What happened in August

September 6th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

psst … did you?

September 6th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

In Praise of Femmes: The Architecture of Identity

September 5th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

top 100 sex bloggers

September 5th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

femme conference roundup, & links

September 5th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Review: Goodfella

September 5th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

queer bodies in psychotherapy conference

September 4th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

you don’t have to take MY word for it

September 3rd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Spartacus Leathers

September 3rd, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Masculinity Depictions in Disney Films

September 2nd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

September masthead: gender buddha

September 1st, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Massage Bongers

August 30th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Sinclair on Bedroom Radio

August 28th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

In Praise of Femmes: Hair & Shaving

August 28th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

Define: Mutually Inclusive

August 28th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

On Butches: Hair

August 26th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

with what and where? ‘spanked’ winner

August 25th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

what’s in yours?

August 19th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

The Suspension of Heterosexual Belief (1 of 3)

August 19th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

box of darkness

August 18th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Spanked, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel — and a contest!

August 18th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Sugarbutch Star 2007 chapbook!

August 14th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

if I had a red pen

August 12th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

The Difference Between Romance and Chivalry

August 11th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Define: Transmasculine

August 11th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: new place, new learning

August 10th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Sugarbutch Star Contest 2008: launch!

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Gender 101 (Excerpt)

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

What happened in July

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: moving backward, moving forward

August 7th, 2008 • 6 minute read • by

August’s masthead: combating lesbian bed death

August 7th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

If I Was Being Really Honest

August 6th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

femme conference countdown!

August 6th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

what happened on sexblogs this week (sugasm 143)

August 6th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Cock Confidence: Goodfella from Vixen Creations

August 4th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Choice feminism & compulsory gender roles

August 1st, 2008 • 10 minute read • by

Protected: the solace of solitude

August 1st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

forthcoming review: spanked

August 1st, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

wanna vote?

July 30th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

what happened with Penny

July 30th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

if I could speak

July 28th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Telling Her What to Wear

July 28th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

why not buy a new cock?

July 23rd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

On Butch Style: Briefs

July 23rd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by