Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

Rocking Chair Blow Job

January 12th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

Review: Simply Sexy Leather Harness

January 12th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

A Quick Fuck in a Shadowed Corner

January 7th, 2009 • 6 minute read • by

Blog for Lesbian Health Day

January 5th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

I woke her in the middle of the night

January 5th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Leather Paddle

January 4th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

MC Flow – “Created Equal”

January 3rd, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

I Love LDN Girls too

January 3rd, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: The Pleasure’s All Mine (book)

January 2nd, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Gloaming

January 2nd, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

Babeland’s Best Sex Toys of 2008

December 31st, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Shared Items – December 26, 2008

December 26th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Define: “butch in the streets, femme in the sheets”

December 26th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: letter to a friend

December 26th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Sugasm #155: Top Three!

December 26th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

In response to what you want

December 23rd, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

How to Read Sugarbutch

December 22nd, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

Catherine Opie Exhibit at the Guggenheim

December 22nd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

We’re just getting started

December 20th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Review: Alumina Revolve

December 20th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Shared Items – December 19, 2008

December 19th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

The two Crash Pad memberships go to …

December 18th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Two Crash Pad Series Website Memberships – For You!

December 16th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Holiday Ideas for Butches

December 16th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

“I’m kind of … insatiable.” My First Date with Kristen

December 15th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

What happened in November

December 15th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Special extra minutes for you from Hot Movies For Her

December 12th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

and the winner is …

December 12th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Shared Items – December 12, 2008

December 12th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Giving away Good Dyke Porn

December 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Milk: In the Footsteps of Gandhi and King

December 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Define: Courtly

December 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Excellent Queer/Lesbian Films

December 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Butch women celebrating their Inner Princesses

December 8th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Shared Items – December 5, 2008

December 5th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Win a copy of ‘She Likes Girls 3’

December 4th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Liv vibrator

December 3rd, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

My Father’s Son

December 3rd, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Define: Identity Alignment Assumptions

December 2nd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

signed sexblogger calendars

December 2nd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: sex blogger calendar outtake

December 1st, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

A girl: my future wife

November 28th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: uncovering personal insecurities

November 28th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Itty Bitty Titty Committee

November 24th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Lollipop crop

November 24th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Sugasm #152 – editor’s pick!

November 23rd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: hacking my brain

November 21st, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

The Sexblogger Calendar Party

November 19th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

this is what your heart tells you to do

November 14th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Sinclair loves Njoy

November 11th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by