How I Became A Daddy

I came to be a Daddy in a dominance/submissive context somewhat reluctantly. For years, I’d heard about this kind of play in kinky relationships —…

Sinclair’s 2024 Calendar

Here’s where I’ll be and what I’ll be teaching — online & in person — in 2024! This page will be updated as things are added….

Columns, Guest Posts, & Other Writings

On Autostraddle Constellations is a short series of interconnected erotic stories published on Autostraddle in 2020 as part of their erotica series “Slick.” They are accessible…

Sinclair’s 2023 Calendar

Here’s where I’ll be and what I’ll be teaching — online & in person — in 2023! This page will be updated as things are added….

All Of This, Guest Erotica by A. L. Brooks

Content: marriage proposal, transmasc/femme, top surgery, daddy/girl, age play, blow job, fingering, strap-on, fucking, crying, D/s, possession. Characters are consenting adults. Cam proposes to me…

The Golden Hour, by Anna Sansom

Content: daddy/girl, age play, spanking, fingering, good girl. All characters are consenting adults. We work different shifts: I’m on the early train and at my…

Best of 2021 on Sugarbutch

Unsurprisingly, the dirty Daddy kinky queer smut continues to be the posts with the highest traffic this year — including a variety of guest posts. Thank…

Dirty Calligraphy

I’ve gotten really in to calligraphy, fountain pens, art journaling, and some other paper crafts over the past few years, and it intensified during the…

The Outermost Bracket™: A Theory on D/s and Non-Monogamy

This is a theory of two different kinds of non-monogamous dominance/submission relationships.

Both non-monogamy and power exchange relationships revolve around sets of agreements between the people involved. Sometimes, those agreements are in harmony —and ahhh, isn’t it lovely when that happens? Not just lovely: it is magic.

Sometimes, however, they conflict.

The Best Queer Sex Blogs

A friend of mine emailed me this week asking for recommendations for other queer erotica online. I emailed her back with some links off the…