Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

Pen Play: Online Erotica Writing Workshop Series

October 5th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: Sheltering in September

September 30th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Sobriety Sestina During COVID-19

September 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Does Volunteering Make You Feel Better? PS: Ready to Vote?

September 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Happening in September, 2020

September 2nd, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

Are Ejaculating Dildos Even A Thing? Yes!

August 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Sixteen

August 29th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by

The First Time With A Girl

August 29th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

I’m Voting Biden/Harris, But I Still Want A Dyke For President

August 29th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Call For Submissions: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6 (2022), due October 31, 2020

August 3rd, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Poem for My Name

August 1st, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by

The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

On Representing the M/s Title

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: leaping into something new

July 24th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: And What A Celebration It Was

July 24th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Welcome

July 24th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by

On Stepping Away From M/s Language

July 24th, 2020 • 6 minute read • by

6 Black Educators to Follow & Support on Patreon

June 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Breath as a Healing Tool During COVID-19 with M’kali-Hashiki

June 30th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Cock Confidence: The Sacred Act of Going Inside Someone Else’s Body

May 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Announcing: D/s Book Group & Nonbinary D/s Discussion Group

May 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: why write about sex during times like this

May 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

Sheltering 1: Things I Have Learned

May 29th, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

Will Anyone Else Want Strap-On Sex the Way I Do?

April 29th, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

Happy 14th Anniversary, Sugarbutch

April 29th, 2020 • 6 minute read • by

Hello, It Is Spring, Let’s Bloom (Playlist)

April 27th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: Looking at a Title Year

March 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Rest Is Important, You’re Right It Isn’t Fair, and Other Things I Need To Hear Right Now

March 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

Some Notes That May Turn Into A Sex Manifesto

March 31st, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Countdown: Seven

March 5th, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

On Receiving a Full Scholarship to College, Twenty Years Later

February 17th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

I’m Still Not Tired of Your Company, aka A Valentine

February 17th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Six Weeks Out

January 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Sinclair & rife Are Leather Paper Dolls (& You Can Download Us!)

January 31st, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by

Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On

January 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Ready to Make Waves: Two Recent Inspirational Leather Speeches

January 31st, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by

Resources For Sex & Chronic Pain

January 20th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Which D/s Webinars Should rife + I Produce in 2020?

December 31st, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

A Bullet-Point Decade

December 30th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

There’s A New Packer & Stroker From New York Toy Collective: Meet Jack

December 30th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: What Got Me Through the Worst of It

November 27th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: I’m Struggling with Thanksgiving

November 27th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by

No, You Don’t “Get” Racism Because You Are Oppressed, Too

November 27th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Sugarbutch is #1 on the Kinkly Erotica Blogs and LGBTQ Blogs Lists

November 18th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: Striking Evolution

October 31st, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers

October 31st, 2019 • 4 minute read • by

Harvest weekend photo essay, and congratulations Ms Sacramento Leather 2019!

October 31st, 2019 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: Just personal things. Hi.

October 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

These Eight Years

September 30th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by