Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

Top 10 things I love about being gay

August 22nd, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: reset button

August 22nd, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

The Popsicle in the Library

August 21st, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

What Gender Is

August 17th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by

Gender Is A Sex Toy

August 17th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by

This week’s gender discussion: roundup

August 17th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

Her Mouth on My Cock

August 16th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

lolgender

August 15th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

sugasm #92

August 15th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Gender Dynamics in the Sexblog Community

August 15th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by

Charcoal Portrait in the Art Studio

August 15th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

The care & feeding of a butch

August 15th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Butch/femme as a Disruption of the Heteronormative Paradigm

August 14th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

Threesome & A Purple Tie

August 14th, 2007 • 8 minute read • by

file under: things to look forward to

August 13th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Further Points on Gender

August 13th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

someone slightly more articulate

August 13th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

more gender frustration

August 13th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Ranting about Gender Binaries & Stereotypes

August 12th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by

active surrender

August 11th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

another public service announcement

August 10th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

sugarbutch entries, just in case

August 9th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

The Diner on the Corner (Part Two)

August 8th, 2007 • 5 minute read • by

oops

August 8th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

stay focused

August 8th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

continuing to purge

August 8th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

The Diner on the Corner (Part One)

August 7th, 2007 • 8 minute read • by

I dare you

August 6th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

quarterlife crisis decisions

August 4th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

This I believe

August 4th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

music to fuck to

August 4th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

is that inspiration, or are you just happy to see me?

August 2nd, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

vulnerability and simplicity

August 1st, 2007 • 4 minute read • by

Five Random Facts/Habits About Me

August 1st, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

just what you wanted

July 31st, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

get fantasizin’!

July 30th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

female bloggers who rock

July 30th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

loose ends

July 29th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

have y’all forgotten about the deadline, or what?

July 27th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

oh so misunderstood

July 27th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

a tiny revelation

July 26th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

how to get your love on

July 25th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Bully

July 23rd, 2007 • 6 minute read • by

restless

July 23rd, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

small glitch in the star contest

July 21st, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: how I continue to move on

July 21st, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

submissions, so far

July 21st, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

some amendments

July 19th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

hemlock

July 19th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

four chambered heart

July 19th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by