music to fuck to

If you like sexy music, music to get the sheets dirty to, music that turns you on, you’ve gatta check out Sarah Fimm‘s track Sexual Animals. It came onto a random shuffle mix this morning & I … got all flustered (let’s leave it at that).Want some more sexy songs? Here’s my sexmix from a few years ago, though I would probably update it to include a few more things now. It’s a good start though. What would you include?

1 Melissa Ferrick – Drive (remix)
2 Madonna – Erotica
3 Joan Osborne – If I Was Your Man
4 Sophie B. Hawkins – Your tongue like the sun in my mouth
5 KD Lang – Constant Craving
6 Massive Attack & Madonna – I Want You
7 Janet Jackson – Would You Mind
8 Tori Amos – Raspberry Swirl
9 JJ Cale – Closer To You
10 Lamb – Lusty
11 Tattle Tale – Glass Vase Cello Case
12 luscious jackson – mood swing
13 Supreme Beings of Leisure – Last Girl on Earth
14 Nightclub – french kiss (DJ Scot project mix)
15 mazzy star – fade into you
16 Melissa Ferrick – Drive

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Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

11 thoughts on “music to fuck to”

  1. M. Monkey says:

    I love that Drive has two entries, and that xtine suggested Tear You Apart. I adore that song!When I make mixes to fuck to, I always include Tool's Forty Six & 2 and A Perfect Circle's Counting Bodies Like Sheep to the Rhythm of the War Drums ("don't fret, precious, I'm here…")PS: Please forgive my risque user pic — I can't figure out how to keep it out of comments and yet on my blog. Bah.

  2. Essin' Em says:

    You know, I have a few sex mixes, and a ton of make out mixes…but in reality, it just never happens that way. My computer isn't on, or is in the other room, or we're just too into it to stop for music.Plus I have some really weird songs on there (if you listen to the lyrics)…like Lightening Crashes (Live), Brick (Ben Folds), Run (Snow Patrol), and Hot Patootie (Rocky Horror) etc…which most people would not consider good songs. So I just keep it for myself and never try to bring it into a situation. I'm a strange bird, I am.

  3. Dylan says:

    oh drive. why did you remind me? i wouldn't consider myself a person who has sex to music, but a few of these have been on in the background, more by coincidence than planning. maybe i just enjoy arousing music at all times.

  4. Xtine says:

    She Wants Revenge – Tear You Apart

  5. Ms. Avarice says:

    Kinnie Starr Sun Again, Is it AlrightTricky MoodyDusty Springfield Just A Little Lovin'Of course all of these depend on the mood.

  6. Vic says:

    Make Me Wanna Holler – Meshell Ndegeocello
    Theives In the Temple – Renee Geyer
    Over Big Top – John Scofield Trio

    Depending on the mood, I guess. But music is such a part of me that I think it becomes more of a distraction, I can’t tune it out.

  7. Joy says:

    The Doors are a must-have on any sexmix of mine…preferably "Moonlight Drive", "Crystal Ship", and "The End" (how stereotypical, I know!). Also: "Time of the Season" – The Zombies"Mojo Pin" and "Grace" – Jeff Buckley"Captain Badass" and "Goodnight Lover" – Songs: Ohia"Green-Eyed Lady" – Sugarloaf"Volcano" – Damien Rice"Slow Like Honey" – Fiona Apple

  8. Dylan says:

    i checked out my sex mix today. all of esthero's music on the wikked lil girls cd. it is kind of electronica which usually isn't my style… but it is sexy, arousing and has a steady beat through out, just what i need to thrust to.

  9. sinclair says:

    wow, fantastic additions folks … I'm going to be doing some downloading (ahem, legally of course) and listening to everything. if/when I come up with a new mix, I'll let you all know!

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