Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

even more raunchy than expected

November 12th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Her Mouth on My Cock

November 9th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

The Gender Code

November 8th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Chemistry 3 (DVD)

November 5th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

a star on my wrist

November 5th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

this is how it goes

November 5th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

post-script on what I’m calling things

November 4th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

what I’m calling things now

November 2nd, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

Motivations behind my butch identity development process

November 2nd, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

If Mick Jagger was a literary, 30-something woman

November 1st, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Gender Identity vs Sexual Identity

October 31st, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

Butch Stoicism

October 31st, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

learning to love the rituals of letting go

October 30th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: why I can’t ask her to change

October 26th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by

sugasm #102: top three!

October 25th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

The “Straight Girl” at the Dyke Bar

October 17th, 2007 • 6 minute read • by

what do I do with all this heat?

October 12th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

“Femme is Pure Strength”

October 12th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

an aspiration

October 11th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

passin’ on a great cartoon

October 9th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

further workshop revelations

October 8th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

workshop revelations

October 8th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

fisting in time out

October 3rd, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

PSA on being GGG

October 3rd, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

sugasm 97

September 25th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

review: the Crash Pad DVD

September 24th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

More on Butch Identity, Mine

September 19th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by

broken, breaking

September 16th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by

put your money where your mouth is

September 11th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

Butch & Trans In Conversation: Interview with Cody

September 10th, 2007 • 12 minute read • by

The Hitchhiker

September 9th, 2007 • 10 minute read • by

ask for what you want

September 7th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: how to do me right

September 6th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by

I top on the third date

September 5th, 2007 • 6 minute read • by

if that’s what you’re into

September 3rd, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: kink exploration vs bottoming

September 1st, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

a couple things to clarify

August 31st, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

susie’s survey

August 31st, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Why we need to examine our lives

August 30th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: is anyone ever really prepared?

August 28th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: whet my appetite

August 28th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

Top 10 things I love about femmes

August 28th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

thank you ladies. you didn’t have to say that*

August 27th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

don’t you know it

August 27th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: officially seeking bottoms

August 26th, 2007 • 3 minute read • by

things I’ve never done, but would like to try

August 26th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

this is my life

August 25th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

there’s a reason some things are cliche

August 24th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Top 10 things I love about being butch

August 24th, 2007 • < 1 minute read • by

Protected: I did, and we did

August 24th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by