Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

about the calendar photo shoot

October 1st, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

event: 1st Annual Sarah Palin Book Club (a Lambda Fundraiser)

October 1st, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

review: Pfun plug by Njoy

October 1st, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

October masthead: come for the smut …

October 1st, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

The Femme Show in Boston

September 30th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Fancy Tie Trick

September 29th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

when waitresses are kinky

September 28th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Her Best Line

September 25th, 2008 • 11 minute read • by

Carrying the torch: Obama ’08

September 25th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

upon returning, a small complaint

September 24th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: universe to Sinclair: high five

September 24th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

sex blogger calendar 2009

September 23rd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

accessing the protected posts

September 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: How do you survive falling in love with people who ravage you? (part two)

September 16th, 2008 • 11 minute read • by

On Pronouns, Mine

September 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

the fate of Bitch Magazine is in your hands

September 16th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: How do you survive falling in love with people who ravage you? *

September 15th, 2008 • 8 minute read • by

brief celebreality moment

September 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Define: Need a Word For Receiving Chivalry

September 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Define: Cisgender

September 10th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

BSB: the creation myth

September 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: blackberry

September 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

What happened in August

September 6th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

psst … did you?

September 6th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

In Praise of Femmes: The Architecture of Identity

September 5th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

top 100 sex bloggers

September 5th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

femme conference roundup, & links

September 5th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Cock Confidence: Goodfella from Vixen Creations

September 5th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

queer bodies in psychotherapy conference

September 4th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

you don’t have to take MY word for it

September 3rd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Spartacus Leathers

September 3rd, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Masculinity Depictions in Disney Films

September 2nd, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

September masthead: gender buddha

September 1st, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Massage Bongers

August 30th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Sinclair on Bedroom Radio

August 28th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

In Praise of Femmes: Hair & Shaving

August 28th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

Define: Mutually Inclusive

August 28th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

On Butches: Hair

August 26th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by

with what and where? ‘spanked’ winner

August 25th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

what’s in yours?

August 19th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

The Suspension of Heterosexual Belief (1 of 3)

August 19th, 2008 • 5 minute read • by

box of darkness

August 18th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

Spanked, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel — and a contest!

August 18th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Sugarbutch Star 2007 chapbook!

August 14th, 2008 • < 1 minute read • by

if I had a red pen

August 12th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

The Difference Between Romance and Chivalry

August 11th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Define: Transmasculine

August 11th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Protected: new place, new learning

August 10th, 2008 • 3 minute read • by

Sugarbutch Star Contest 2008: launch!

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by

Gender 101 (Excerpt)

August 8th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by