Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

Protected: Love Letter #5

February 3rd, 2012 • 3 minute read • by

B is for Beautiful Photos by Syd London

February 2nd, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Love Letter #4

January 27th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by

A Hot Ride: Lovesong Playlist for Kristen

January 25th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by

Back at Tomcats, Gotta Get a Haircut

January 25th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by

Sugarbutch Star Winner: blacknblu, The Pink Dress

January 25th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Love Letter #3

January 20th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by

Femme Conference Call for Workshops + Bay Area Event Tonight

January 20th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by

LSM = Awesome BDSM Education for Women & Trans Folks in NYC

January 19th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by

Which Side Are You On? (The New Ani Difranco Album)

January 18th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Open Thread: Empowering Femme Sources Needed

January 17th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Free Alpha Femmes #pornparty Tomorrow! And You’re Invited

January 15th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Femme Invisibility & Beyond

January 15th, 2012 • 9 minute read • by

eLust #32 includes my story “The Pink Dress”

January 15th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Love Letter #2

January 13th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by

What’s Happening in January

January 7th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by

“10 Hottest Butches of 2011” & the End of the Butch Lab Project

January 6th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Love Letter #1

January 6th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by

I Confess: Favorite Music from 2011

January 4th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by

It’s 2012, Let’s Have a Porn Party

January 3rd, 2012 • 2 minute read • by

Your Favorite Sugarbutch Star Smut Story—Vote!

January 2nd, 2012 • 5 minute read • by

The Pink Dress

January 1st, 2012 • 25 minute read • by

Protected: With Expansion Comes Contraction

December 26th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Kate Bornstein’s “Queer & Pleasant Danger”

December 16th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Body Hair, Pronouns, and Other Personal Gender Things I’m Figuring Out

December 14th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by

Protected: Third Anniversary (Bonus Photo)

December 13th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Happy Third Anniversary, Kristen

December 13th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Handprints on the Hotel Window

December 12th, 2011 • 7 minute read • by

Review: Sexing the Transman XXX DVD

December 9th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

What’s Happening in December

November 30th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by

The Sugarbutch 2012 Holiday Gift Guide

November 30th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by

I Know What I Want: Introduction to Best Lesbian Erotica 2012

November 28th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by

Take a Tour of Kink.com in San Francisco

November 28th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 Has Shipped!

November 22nd, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

School Boy Valentine

November 21st, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Talk Dirtier, Own Your Birthday Suit, & More Workshops With Me

November 21st, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Review: The Big Book of Pussy

November 18th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Um So Hi.

November 17th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by

Photos from the Last Sideshow

November 16th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

The Cheryl B. Writer’s Fund

November 10th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Dear West Coast, See You Soon

November 2nd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: On Topping and Taking What I Want

November 1st, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Happening in November

November 1st, 2011 • 5 minute read • by

What is even DISCUSSED at a “femme conference”?

October 28th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by

Recent Sexual Assaults in My Neighborhood

October 26th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

The Hanky Flower: Femme Flagging

October 26th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Giveaway: The RodeoH Harness Winner Is …

October 25th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Lesbian Sex Mafia Presents Spanking with Tina Horn

October 21st, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Giveaway: RodeoH Harness!

October 20th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Sex, Gender, & Relationship Workshops at Your College

October 19th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by