About

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Sinclair Sexsmith

Chivalrous kinky writer, queer butch top, feminist sex educator in New York City.

Turn ons: femme girls, strappy sandals, fishnets & garter belts, accessories in general (belts, glasses, bags, shoes), submission, blow jobs, intellectual curiosity, packing, avocados, dark chocolate, acoustic folk music, literary & gender theory, whiskey, the perfect pen. Turn offs: pop music, dishonesty, helplessness, eating dead animals, cheap beer, chewing gum, fingernails, celebreality.

I have degrees in both creative writing and gender studies, and my poetry and erotica has been published in various places, including Best Lesbian Erotica.

Contact me at mr.sexsmith(at)gmail.com.

I also write for Carnal Nation, Eden Fantasys, and The Lesbian Lifestyle.

ABOUT THIS WEBSITE:

This website, Sugarbutch Chronicles is a personal writing exploration of sex, gender, and relationships, and attempts to celebrate queer theory, sexuality, gender, and culture in ways that are expansive rather than restrictive, liberating rather than limiting. It is a place where I attempt to speak truth to power, to articulate complicated ideas about desire and attraction, friction and heat. I seek to make it a place of community and camaraderie, where myself and others who wish to participate can discuss these difficult concepts with compassion and openness.

My post from July of 2008 called authority on the internet talks further about my background, education, and qualifications, if you’d like to know more.

Some technical colophon:

Sugarbutch.net was registered through Dotster and is hosted by Dreamhost. It is run by WordPress with various plugins. Sugarbutch graphics were designed by me.

MASTHEADS:

March 2008: Bringing Butch Back

April 2008: What’s that I hear? A thousand girls sighing in cyberspace?

May 2008: Raising the bar for butches everywhere

June 2008: Making girls want to be on my mind, in my stories, & in my bed

July 2008: List of Five

August 2008: Combating lesbian bed death

September 2008: I solved my gender problem, now you solve yours. – Gender Buddha

October 2008: “Come for the smut, stay for the theory.” (Or maybe it’s the other way around?)

LINKING:

If you’d like to link to Sugarbutch Chronicles, you are welcome to do so! I don’t do “link exchanges,” but I always welcome emails, comments, or communication, and please do let me know about your site. If I have interest, I’ll add it to my RSS reader and follow you for a while, and eventually add you to my community resources list.

Here are a few little buttons you can use, if you’d like:

AWARDS & RECOGNITION:

Finalist for Lesbian Blog of the Year, 2007

#1 on the list of the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008! Thanks Rori!

#7 in the Best Sex Toy Reviewers of 2008

The Lezzys: 2008 Lesbian Weblog Awards hosted by The Lesbian Lifestyle
Winner! Best Lesbian Sex/Short Story/Erotica Blog
Winner! Best Gender Bending Blog