Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

Read These Books! (Perhaps Some Holiday Gift Ideas?)

November 27th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

The Best Queer Sex Blogs

November 15th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by

Review: What’s the Best Wand Vibrator?

October 31st, 2015 • 8 minute read • by

The Exact Right Word: National Coming Out Day and Chosen Identities

October 16th, 2015 • 2 minute read • by

“Submission is mine to define for myself.” Interview with Miss Piggy

September 14th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by

7 Tips For Flirting As A Submissive

September 11th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

“I found a sense of clarity about my path:” Interview with Shiris

August 26th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by

You’ll Never Find the Perfect Dominant

August 18th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by

Little Liar, Guest Post by Rebekah Weatherspoon

August 6th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

Review: Carter, The (Big!) Bendable Dildo by New York Toy Collective

July 31st, 2015 • 2 minute read • by

Moving In (Lauren & Beck #3)

July 31st, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

Pancakes (Lauren & Beck #2)

July 30th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by

The Night Everything Changed (Lauren & Beck #1)

July 28th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

Just This Next Thrust (Angie & Fern #4)

June 30th, 2015 • 8 minute read • by

Morning After (Angie & Fern #3)

June 29th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

Tangled (Angie & Fern #2)

June 23rd, 2015 • 4 minute read • by

Honeysuckle & Leather (Angie & Fern #1)

June 11th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

The Brute and the Brat (Bean & Mickey #3)

May 28th, 2015 • 2 minute read • by

Bath Time (Bean & Mickey #2)

May 22nd, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

Daddy’s Belt (Bean & Mickey #1)

May 7th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

Satiated (Mistress Elise Winter & morgan #3)

April 28th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by

100 Bedtime Strokes (Mistress Elise Winter & morgan #2)

April 26th, 2015 • 8 minute read • by

The Bootblack Boy (Mistress Elise Winter & morgan #1)

April 16th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

DJ’s Birthday Gangbang (Kai & DJ #4)

March 30th, 2015 • 8 minute read • by

Stone Grief (Kai & DJ #3)

March 27th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by

Taking It (Kai & DJ #2)

March 20th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

Cruising in the Woods (Kai & DJ #1)

March 15th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

The Last Night (Asher & Jesse #5)

February 28th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

Luscious & Wild (Asher & Jesse #4)

February 24th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by

Reduced to Expletives (Asher & Jesse #3)

February 19th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by

Fisting Practice (Asher & Jesse #2)

February 13th, 2015 • 9 minute read • by

Handling Her (Asher & Jesse #1)

February 6th, 2015 • 6 minute read • by

Queer Masculinity in Porn: Heavenly Spire, Stepfather’s Secret, & More

January 30th, 2015 • 11 minute read • by

“Healing comes through sex.” Sinclair Sexsmith interviews Sophia Chang

January 2nd, 2015 • < 1 minute read • by

Weight. Mouth. Rough Sex.

December 31st, 2014 • 3 minute read • by

Turn Your Rough Fantasies into Responsible Reality

December 29th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by

Follow your own Kinky Desire Map

December 18th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by

Things I, as a white sex educator, do to foster inclusivity in this community

December 16th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

Vortex Poem, Or: What I learned these last 15 years of studying embodiment

December 8th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by

10 Tips for Tops

November 30th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by

Long Live the Butch

November 20th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

Protected: From the archives: Sexting

November 13th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by

The Four Stages of Topping

October 30th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by

Dear Tops: Say Thank You

October 25th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by

“I wish I could show you … the astonishing light of your own being.”

October 16th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by

On Gender Perception, or: Break Your Eyes Open to Genderqueers

October 9th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments

September 26th, 2014 • 8 minute read • by

Do rough sex fantasies compromise your sex-positive ethics?

September 11th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by

Protected: Leather: A Dirty Story in Photos

September 6th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Let’s Talk About Bleeding While Butch

August 31st, 2014 • 7 minute read • by