Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is a queer trans butch writer focusing on sexualities, genders, kink, and relationships. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the editor of 5 editions of Best Lesbian Erotica. Their latest book is Your Year in Kink: A Workbook to Reflect, Plan, & Create Your Kink Life. They lead the online erotica writing group, Writing Spicy, annually.

New Book! Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica

February 5th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

KinkForAll in Providence, RI!

February 4th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

SXSW and Austin-bound in March

January 27th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Under Bed Restraints

January 25th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Lipstick Blow Job

January 21st, 2010 • 7 minute read • by

Review: Roulette Dirty South (DVD)

January 21st, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Year In Review On Sugarbutch: 2009

January 19th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Review: Even More Bang for Your Buck 2

January 15th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

elust #5: Quiet Holiday Version

January 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Articulating What I Need When I Need It

January 11th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by

My Evolving Masculinity, Part Four: Personal

January 8th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Protected: Kristen’s Homework: Will Return Soon

January 7th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Define: Spectrum Banging

January 7th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Occasional Effects of D/s

January 3rd, 2010 • 11 minute read • by

Radical Masculinity #3: When Men Wear Skirts

December 31st, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Kristen’s Homework: At the End of the Year

December 29th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

And the Crash Pad Membership Goes To …

December 29th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

e[lust] #4: Reconciling Butch Top + Feminist in the Top Three!

December 29th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Yes, No, and Consent

December 28th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

Review: Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage (DVD)

December 26th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Crab Tie (Review: Red Bondage Rope)

December 24th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

Happy Solstice Crash Pad Series Membership Giveaway

December 23rd, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

Protected: Kristen’s Homework: Holiday Version

December 22nd, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

December 18th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by

How to Wear Red Lipstick, from How to Sew A Button Author Erin Bried

December 17th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: Kristen’s Homework

December 14th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Year One With Kristen (Happy Anniversary)

December 13th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

The Dirtiest Kristen Stories

December 13th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

An Emasculating Truth

December 11th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

Kiss & Tell on Tuesday, Dec 15 in NYC

December 10th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

The Sugarbutch 2009 Holiday Gift Guide

December 9th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

My Favorite Scenes in Porn Flicks

December 8th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Review: Black Cat G (Harness)

December 8th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Visions of Sexual Freedom

December 7th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Review: The Crash Pad Series: Volume 5 (DVD)

December 2nd, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Review: Strap On Motel (Film)

December 1st, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

World AIDS Day: Safer Sex, History, and Interconnectivity

December 1st, 2009 • 6 minute read • by

A New Sex Blog Roundup – e[lust]#2

December 1st, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

On Femme Invisibility

November 23rd, 2009 • 10 minute read • by

Want to write some smut with me?

November 17th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Scarleteen: Help Lift Sex Ed to a Higher Plane

November 17th, 2009 • 9 minute read • by

Cock Confidence: Buck by Vixen Creations (Review)

November 14th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Fucking & Making Love

November 11th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by

Radical Masculinity: How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting

November 11th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Truer: Sophia Wallace’s work in NYC

November 11th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

Fucking in Public in Liberator Lingerie

November 9th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by

Review: Seven Minutes in Heaven (DVD)

November 2nd, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

Sometimes, I will never catch up …

October 30th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by

Review: Post Apocalyptic Cowgirls (DVD & Streaming)

October 30th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Bent Mentor Showcase in Seattle

October 26th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by