Giveaway: RodeoH Harness!

Hot on the heels of my RodeoH harness review, I was chatting with one of the two girls from the good ol’ Mission District of San Francisco behind RodeoH, and talked ’em in to making a RodeoH harness available to Sugarbutch readers via a giveaway.

Your choice of size and color: Black/red, black/dark gray, or black/gray, in waist sizes 23-24″, 25-26″, 27-29″, 30-32″, 33-35″, 36-38″, 39-41″.

Want it?

Leave a comment in this thread with something about your first strap-on harness, the most exciting place you ever had strap-on sex, if you’ve ever packed out in public, the name of your favorite harness, or why you want to win this … or something else entirely. You must enter a valid email address to win (otherwise, how can I tell you that you won?).

One commenter will be chosen at random on Monday, 24 October.

If you can’t wait, you can go right now to the RodeoH online store and enter code “SexSmith” to get $10 off your purchase. They’re only $45, so that’s a pretty good deal.

Thanks, RodeoH!

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

70 thoughts on “Giveaway: RodeoH Harness!”

  1. zoe says:

    i bought my first harness about a year ago, a beautiful leather number (terra firma, i think?) which my butch and i picked because it was so adjustable and we prefer different amounts of penetration. Although other folks seem to love this model, we’ve had issues with the snaps holding the o-ring popping open, which has been fixed with some low-tech rubber bands. Anyway, the simplicity of this looks awesome – i love the idea of having nothing to adjust.

  2. LEzRK says:

    Q’s: most exciting place? packed in public? favorite harness? why I want to win? or something else entirely?

    A’s: all over Quebec City, yes, Jaguar, because I’d love to surprise my GF, and I love warm peanut butter cookies.

  3. H. says:

    I think the hottest place I’ve had strap-on sex was the time we fucked on my girlfriend’s balcony in broad daylight. I was bent over the railing watching the people in the building across from hers and down on the street, and then I was up against on of the walls with my legs wrapped around her.

    She also packed majorly out to the ballet one night, then when we got home, tied me up in her closet and beat me with her belt and banged the hell out of me, still in her dress shirt. Strap-on sex is the best.

  4. D. says:

    I’m packing two or three days out of the week now with Pete and Mr. Limpy, but I would love to be able to pack and play. RodeoH looks super comfy for the purpose. Also, it would be damn attractive.

  5. Lenore says:

    My first time strapping on was with an ex-girlfriend. We took turns topping, both feeling so silly. Certainly, as Alo wrote, it feels both powerful and absurd.

    The first time my beau took out his cock I almost soaked through my panties just feeling the hard bulge through his shorts. I gave that cock a long, luxurious blowjob, and then he fucked me til I came. I loved grabbing onto the straps that perfectly outlined his ass. Yum.

  6. Jude says:

    First thing I bought once I met my partner was the sexiest, leatheriest Jaguar I could find. We’ve ended up needing another to go with the first since then to support all the great faggy sexin’ we do, but all of the rivets are rusting through! And it’s not like we don’t take care of them, but it would be nice to throw one right in the wash.

  7. Micah says:

    Packing in public is one of the most exhilarating experiences I’ve had. I haven’t done it enough to get used to it, and so every time I do it, it’s new and novel. I love the way I walk and own my body when I pack. If only I could get used to the pesky restroom situation..

  8. Grania says:

    The first harness I got was with my first serious girlfriend and one that made it look like she was rock climbing with a big red dildo. We thus invested in a sexy leather harness of which we split the cost 50/50. Alas, we broke up and she kept the harness.

    I then dated a trans boy who was coming to terms with this when we were dating. We since split up, and we also had split the cost of his harness/cock. Of course, because the gender identity stuff related to it, I insisted he keep it.

    And again, I am without a harness. This one looks lovely.

  9. Miss Mary says:

    I’d love this harness! You so kindly answered my question about trying to convert my shy girlfriend to a more dominant top. I’ve been looking at this Rodeoh for a while, thinking maybe it was close enough to underwear/non-threatening looking to get her to strap it up. Thank you so much for your advice & all that you do! So inspiring to queers of all kinds!

  10. Titus Androgynous says:

    At a butch femme costume event. Gave the girl the nod. She headed off to the toilet. I followed. She locked the door behind me and got down on her knees. Looking up at me through her long lashes, she slowly undid my fly, pulled my packed cock out of my briefs and wrapped her dark red lips around it.

  11. so…they make it up to 41″, is there a reason the giveaway doesn’t include all the size options? i’d really love this for my honey – it looks hot and low-key, which both seem perfect.

    that said, if nothing can be done about the sizing, i wouldn’t turn it down…i’m trying to get to where strapping on doesn’t give me a panic attack, maybe the simplicity (and undercover look) of this would help.

    1. Sinclair says:

      lady brett: I thought I included all the sizing options in the write-up! they said they would provide *any* size, so it’s my fault if I didn’t list the largest one.

  12. Mary says:

    Oh no, I thought I already commented!
    You so gracefully answered my question about bringing out the top in my shy girlfriend on your column. I’d been eyeing this harness for a while, thinking it may be non-threatening enough for her to maybe think about finally strapping up. They look so much like the underwear she has.
    Of course, seeing as how the dildo I got has done nothing but gathered dust, it would probably be wasted on me… but it can’t hurt to try!
    Thank you so much for all that you do!! If I ever get an update for you, I’ll send it along.

  13. Mark says:

    I’m a new trans guy, so anything I can get in the line of strap ons is great. This one looks cool.

  14. Emi says:

    After a particularly rough night of defending her gender presentation to coworkers, my sweet butch let me suck her cock for the first time when I offered. Feeling her swell with pride (and excitement) in my mouth as I gave her her first blowjob was the hottest feeling I could imagine. Taking her in deep and feeling her cock thrusting in my throat is my biggest turn on. I worship her and her cock greedily every chance I get.

  15. Resh says:

    My first harness was part of a beginner’s kit and was fuzzy on the front. I remember how nervous I was when I got it and thinking it was a little weird that it was fuzzy. It was amazing though. I never use that one now, but I still love strapping on, now with the bare as you dare.

  16. A says:

    After months of watching my partner wrap her perfectly puckered lips around my cock, I wanted more. I had never been so satiated than watching bashfully peer at me as she took the entire length of my cock in her mouth. I had quietly confessed that I wanted her to let me fuck her mouth. This was not meant to demean or embarrass– secretly, I know her desire to play. This particular form of play made me want her to feel used. Desired, but most importantly used. That night she was a hole to get me off. She did. I can still feel my cock hitting the back of her throat.

  17. Chase says:

    I love the idea of the RodeoH, it eliminates the awkward …wait let me take out my packer and fiddle with this awkward harness then we can fuck… It’s a great product that could really lessen some dysphoria around having sex if you are a gender fucker in any way.

  18. Ace says:

    My first ever girlfriend took me home two nights after we met for the first time and asked me to strap-on and get on top of her. It totally spoiled the rest of my experiences, to say the least. I’m excited (pun intended) to try to RodeoH and see if she likes it just as much.

  19. Erin says:

    My girlfriend and I actually just used a strap on for the first time a couple weeks ago. For me (the bottom) it was actually a strange sensation. I am so used to feeling her fingers or tongue inside me.. part of her, you know?.. that this fake thing felt so foreign and, well, NOT her. We didn’t have any problems with it slipping or the harness malfunctioning though. Her only complaint was that since she couldn’t feel it, she didn’t know if she was pulling out too far.

    It’s definitely something we plan to keep trying.. practicing if you will, lol. She loves the idea of being inside me, and gets this primal need for it, so this is something we really hope will become fulfilling for us both!

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