RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway! Leave a Comment to Enter

It’s Sugarbutch’s 6th anniversary! So let’s have a giveaway.

The RodeoH brief harness has been hugely popular since it was released last year, and they’ve just released a grey boxer brief, too. They are comfortable, easy to pack with, machine washable, and pretty fucken adorable, so it’s no wonder that everybody loves them.

Want one of your very own? Leave a comment with one blessing for Sugarbutch’s anniversary or one thing you love or your favorite post or something you’d like to see me write about or a comment with something else entirely to enter the contest. You must leave a legitimate email address in order for us to contact you to get your mailing address and boxer brief size.

I’ll pick a winner from the comments at random on Monday, May 7th.

Thanks, RodeoH!

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith is a genderqueer kinky butch writer who teaches and performs, specializing in sexualities, genders, and relationships. They've written at since 2006, recognized numerous places as one of the Top Sex Blogs. Sinclair's gender theory and queer erotica is widely published in anthologies like Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica, and online at Feministing, Autostraddle, AfterEllen, and more; they are the editor of Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 and Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, both published by Cleis Press. Sweet & Rough: Sixteen Stories of Queer Smut, Sinclair's first book of short erotic stories, was published in 2014. They use the pronouns they, them, theirs, themself, and live in Oakland, CA with their boy.

71 thoughts on “RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway! Leave a Comment to Enter”

  1. E.E. says:

    Congratulations! And thank you so much for putting yourself out there as honestly as you can and for admitting that things change and can be hard and painful some times. This blog had helped me more than I can tell.

    I hope that you will have the strength and courage to continue to be this honest and open not just here but in everything that you do.

    May there always be love and joy in your life.

  2. Emily says:

    Thank you, Sinclair, for creating a blog that has taught me, challenged me, and grown with me. Your insights always illuminate an aspect of my life that I did not previously know needed lighting. Thank you for your vulnerability and strength.

    May your readership be large, your ego be small, and your patience with the world be infinite.

  3. Grania says:

    You gender exploration on this site has been so very useful with helping my boy work through his gender shenanigans. He liked the RodeoH harness, but the brief design seemed horrid and to much like lady underwear. This is perfect!

    I love your stories.

  4. Sp. says:

    Huzzah – happy anniversary!

  5. Jack T says:

    A blessing for your anniversary.

    Thank you for blessing me with the confidence to trust in my butchness.

    Thank you for helping me get through high school.

    Please keep writing and posting and educating and helping young butch bois like me.

    Thank you.

  6. Amy says:

    Sugarbutch has helped see me through my transformative years. From confused girl, to tentative lesbian to oh-my-god-I-fu@#ing love being a butch top. Happy six years Sugarbutch! Thank you so much for your work and honesty.

  7. Bianca says:

    A birthday blessing for 6 marvelous years. Congratulations on all that you’ve accomplished so far and everything you’re continuing to uncover about yourself and your identity.

  8. Kali says:

    I hope the next six years bring you even more success than the first, and I hope many more are influenced by your postings.

  9. lauren says:

    happy 6th! here’s to many, many more. thanks for putting your words out there – they are brave, fun, and inspiring.

  10. Angela says:

    to you: May the best you’ve seen, be the worst you’ve ever had. from this tiny corner of ns, A.
    I love that you explore, observe and stretch out for us to see, and allow us to receive such a gift from you.

  11. Vic says:

    Sinclair, I’ve been a reader for quite some time now, but the allure of your candor (and sexual/relationship escapades!) has yet to abate. I greatly admire your work. I know the coming year will bring continued opportunities for growth and exploration, may you find tremendous happiness through both. Happy anniversary!

  12. Kristen says:

    I’ve learned so much from your writing here. Thank you so much, and happy anniversary!

  13. Christine says:

    Happy Anniversary :)

    I love how inclusive you are, and as a writer, I enjoy reading your work, especially the smut. I think it’s wonderful work you’re doing. Thanks for bringing the pleasure, Sinclair–the world needs more of it!

  14. Jess says:

    Happy anniversary! I’m addicted to Sugarbutch now. It has made it easier for me to explore new ideas with my girl. In turn our relationship feels stronger then ever and for that I thank you.

  15. Emma says:

    I love your writing, Sinclair! Yours is one of the few sites I’ve found that mixes intelligent, feminist dialogue with hot-as-fuck butch-femme power play. Many happy returns! :)

  16. KJ says:

    A blessing: may each anniversary yield the pleasure of repetition with the power of difference.

  17. mO says:

    i’ve neglected my harness game for too long. thank you for these spaces to challenge me to up my prep/strap game by…”talking” about it.

  18. L says:

    Sugarbutch not only helped me come to terms with my genderqueer identity, but helped me ease into nonmonogamy… Three years ago! I’m the happiest I’ve been in life in a while, and can honestly say that Sugarbutch contributed. I’d just be happier if I had a pair of those briefs! ;)

    Congratulations on 6 years!

  19. rexicon says:

    thank you for making it okay to have the kind of sex i want to have.. and these are adorable. i love you, and this blog :)

  20. Nora says:

    It is so wonderful to read about someone who sees and loves femmes for the fabulous queers we are. Thank you, too, for turning me on to Ivan Coyote. Both of your work lights up my life a little brighter.

  21. S. Oliver Sullivan says:

    FANTASTIC meeting you in Seattle! These britches are the bomb!

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