Giveaway: RodeoH Harness!

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1. Alex
   October 20th, 2011 @ 9:39 am

   I recently moved back to Toronto and changed my location on OKCupid. Mere seconds later, an old friend of mine from university found and messaged me, and it turns out that we both love hot sex? And he’s a big time bottom, which is delightful because I’m a big time top. It’s cosmic. So.. that’s why I’d like to win. Support my cosmic sex habits.

2. Ra
   October 20th, 2011 @ 10:04 am

   The first time I had strap-on sex it was a giggle fest. Both of us were new to it and both of us were excited about it, but our awkwardness manifested through non-stop laughter. Looking back, that was a great way to try something for the first time.

3. Steez
   October 20th, 2011 @ 10:18 am

   My first experience using a strap? Lol, its funny because the strap wasn’t mine, but it was a loyal friend who at the time never used it. The experience of this was on me & my ex girlfriends patio right outside of our room. After the sex was over I felt like a real [wo]man, lol. Using a strap for the first time on a girlfriend that was about 7 years older than me and to have her like it? I was really winning. After that experience it was great. Woman iv dealt with after her would always ask the question “Do you have a strap??” My answer of course is no because I don’t even own one. Honestly, straps + harnesses are expensive and right now running a business I don’t have the extra cash. So when I saw this I thought to myself “Hey, this would be a perfect start to getting one”. So to make this long story short I haven’t had one yet nor have I used one since. So these are legit reasons why I really wanna win this giveaway challenge. Good opportunities from good people. :)

4. C
   October 20th, 2011 @ 10:25 am

   I went to a super tiny nerdy college where everyone had a tendency to over-share.
   My girlfriend and I decided we wanted to try out strap-on sex so she ordered a beginner hardness + dildo on the internet. I was in class when it arrived in the mail, so she tried it on and decided to show off to all her bro friends.
   She wandered over to the section of the dorm that was as close to a frat as existed at this school. They proceeded to all try on the strap-on (over their clothes) and run around. It was hilarious.
   By the time I showed up, they were practically pushing us back to my girlfriend’s room. “You have to tell us how it goes!!” They were so excited.

5. Lisa
   October 20th, 2011 @ 10:30 am

   My girlfriend and I are both pretty excited about strap-on sex, which is the next thing on our to-try list. It’s something new for me, so I don’t have any super-cool stories to answer your question with…! (File this under “something else entirely.”)

6. Emil
   October 20th, 2011 @ 10:47 am

   I’m organizing a Crashpad screening for my school’s Coalition for Gender Awareness club. I want a RodeoH.

7. A
   October 20th, 2011 @ 11:39 am

   The first harness my partner and I used was super cheap and made of nylon with a metal o ring, we sprang for an expensive cock but couldn’t bring ourselves to purchase a spare parts or leather harness.

   The first time we tried using the strap on it went fine, until after when I realized that the o ring had a tiny gap and had left me with a tiny tear on my outer labia. Sex related injury!

   Needless to say we immediately threw the cheap one away and went for the washable and comfortable spare parts harness.

   I would love to surprise my partner with the rodeo harness.

   The

8. Elizabeth
   October 20th, 2011 @ 11:43 am

   My first time having strap-on sex was with my boyfriends cock and harness with him on the receiving end. It was super hot and gender-bending. I would love to finally own my own harness and I love the look of the RodeoH!

9. Alo
   October 20th, 2011 @ 12:08 pm

   First words out of my mouth after putting a strap-on for the first time, “I feel simultaneously powerful and absurd. Is this what it’s like to be a man.”

   I still wonder.

10. E. E.
    October 20th, 2011 @ 12:17 pm

    The timing for this couldn’t be better because I’ve been spending the last few weeks trying to see if I can scrape together enough money to buy a harness. I am a poor law student and I am also apply to masters programs. Not a cheap process, so I’m pretty much broke and not having to pay for a harness would be great. I’ve never used a strap on before although nothing turns be on more then that thought of doing so. I do pack all the time though although right now I’m just putting my packer in a sock with a hole cut in it and pinning it my underwear.

    so yeah . . . that’s my story.

11. sterhymeswithtree
    October 20th, 2011 @ 12:30 pm

    First strap-on was horrible. We picked the cheapest vegan harness we could find, and it just would NOT stay in place. Constant re-adjustment is not sexy. My partner and I were just in exploration mode, so it didn’t matter whether things worked or didn’t work, we were just trying things out and everything was fun, but we didn’t try it again for years. By then we knew enough to research our sex toys before buying and to pay for what we wanted, though the harness we got was actually quite cheap (and vegan!)

    Before trying it with my partner I decided to give it a “dry run” and masturbate while wearing it to see what kind of control I had and whether or not I could get off while I was wearing it. Excellent idea! It gave me a lot of confidence when we finally played together and we had a lot of fun.

12. willow naeco
    October 20th, 2011 @ 12:54 pm

    I love my thigh harness because it’s simple to use and leaves easy access to the person who is strapped.

13. Sullivan
    October 20th, 2011 @ 1:13 pm

    The first time I tried strap-on sex, I would up fucking the back of my girlfriend’s knee.

    That is all.

14. Bailey
    October 20th, 2011 @ 1:23 pm

    My first experience using a strap on was pure hilarity. Inappropriate. Wrong. Intoxicated. Clumsy.

    This was my second lover. We’d been together just a few months. I had purchased our first strap on, and was on a tight tight budget. SO — it was a three strapped elastic thing that freaking SNAPPED onto the base of the only cock it worked with, a hollow thing of decent size and shape. Really the best thing about it.

    We started, and it kept slipping. Middle strap came loose. To hell with it, keep going, right? Try to make this work?

    It keeps slipping, upward. I keep ooching downwards to keep its target area stationary, even if the cock is now, well, sticking out of my bellybutton.

    It keeps working its way up, til it’s lodged in the middle of my chest. Finally! Leverage! Stability! I go to it with vigor. It seems to be working.

    Until — she looks down at me, my head at her waist, and says “This must be what its like to have sex with a midget!”

    Hilarity ensues. The strap on never got used again. Ever.

15. wendy
    October 20th, 2011 @ 1:46 pm

    my favorite, a sparkly red nylon aslan supergirl harness, my favorite place, the shower at my boyfriend’s house. <3

16. carlye
    October 20th, 2011 @ 1:50 pm

    My girlfriend introduced me to your website and Ive been fascinated eversince. Your writing is so wonderful.

17. stonefemme
    October 20th, 2011 @ 3:07 pm

    My amazing bf has decided his old, broke-down, too small harness plain old sucks and with him out of work and job-hunting and me finishing up grad school, a new harness hasn’t been affordable. while non-strap-on sex is super hot and fulfilling, I do miss a little butch cock in my life. Won’t you please throw a femme a bone?

18. Elliott batTzedek
    October 20th, 2011 @ 3:33 pm

    Best place? In the front seat of my Girl’s new pick up truck, parked in a public lot behind my vet’s office – a lot shared with a church. We went to “go parking,” and within minutes I was naked, hands bound above the headrest, and She, with only her fly open, was making me forget to be afraid of being caught. Oh. My. God. We tried again the next week, behind a grade school by her house, only to be interrupted by a late-night janitor, stunned to silence after he banged on the truck and two middle-aged women sat up…

19. Ali
    October 20th, 2011 @ 3:41 pm

    Living in rural Georgia at 17 and queer was not ideal, but convincing a straight friend to purchase a strap-on for me from the local porn shop was priceless. Though she came back with a piece make with purple sparkles–NOT my style shall we say…

    Most exciting strap-on sex was on the dyke (oh yeah) in Provincetown, surrounded by fog and chill.

    And I would Loooove this one for its red peek-a-boo! Mmmm

20. Rusty
    October 20th, 2011 @ 3:41 pm

    The RodeoH harness looks like the most perfect harness for me ever. I like strapping-on, but feel kind of silly/uncomfortable/not myself using a typical harness. My solution has been to wear American Apparel style briefs and utilize the fly hole to keep my cock in place. This makes me feel totally hot, but my girl says the fucking feels less deep for her since the briefs don’t provide as much stability as a harness does. I love the look of the Rodeoh and think it would be the perfect answer to our form vs. function predicament!

21. LissaB
    October 20th, 2011 @ 3:45 pm

    The funniest story about strapon sex can be found on my twitter feed. Recently a friend tweeted that she wanted to buy a strap-on harness, but didn’t know where to start. I proceeded with a series of 13 tweets asking questions to narrow it down and then giving her my take on several different harnesses.

    The exchange was 13 tweets long and ended with “Who knew the Femme knew so much about harnesses, eh?”

22. Ash
    October 20th, 2011 @ 4:49 pm

    i haven’t yet had the opportunity to use a strap on, but i’ve been looking into finally purchasing one. i think the rodeoh harness would be a great way to ease into strap on sex without having to worry about chafing or straps fitting properly. this harness seems like it would fit really well, looks awesome, and would probably be great for a first harness! i’d love to win it!

23. Nik A
    October 20th, 2011 @ 4:51 pm

    Hottest strap on sex? For me, it was with the love of my life. We had just started dating, and found ourselves alone in the store she worked at, after hours. Store front was all windows. Things started to get heavy with her sitting on my lap in this big ole leather chair. She feels that familiar bulge, pulls it out and rode me right there for the world to see, that is, if they were watching.
    :)

24. m
    October 20th, 2011 @ 5:12 pm

    My first time using a strap on was in a small cabin in the middle of a state park. It was my first trip with my girlfriend, and both of us were totally new to using a strap on. Our first time was full of nervous laughter and uncertainty, but it was great and it’s only gotten better since then.

25. Jen
    October 20th, 2011 @ 5:52 pm

    The first time was with a pretty lame harness, but an amazing purple glitter toy. My straight girl friends call it my unicorn horn…

26. tuesday
    October 20th, 2011 @ 6:07 pm

    I still haven’t ever used a strap-on, but last halloween we made a boy friend of ours use a super cheap one we got as a free with purchase thing from hustler to simulate a blow job with a jack-o-lantern. It was so funny I’m not sure anything this halloween will compare.

27. Anagrams 7
    October 20th, 2011 @ 8:15 pm

    I love sucking my girlfriend’s cock.

28. beforethedawn09
    October 20th, 2011 @ 9:00 pm

    I have been ogling these. I’m a baby butch who has been waiting for the chance (money, lack of women) to use a strapon on a cute girl…

    I was on the receiving end once and it was not my thing. But I think they’re really really reallyyyy hot and that these ones are amazing.

29. rachel
    October 20th, 2011 @ 9:28 pm

    … there is nothing hotter than having a date night with my partner where she gets all dressed up in a suit, smelling like cologne and looking like the lawyer she is, and at dinner i put my hand on her thigh and realize she’s packing.

    makes me want to get all pretty woman on her ass.

30. Ruby
    October 20th, 2011 @ 9:49 pm

    i guess i started out pretty well. i live in toronto and come as you are was right across the street from my then girlfriends work.
    i’m still rocking the aslan leather harness i bought a couple years ago.
    i really love it.
    if only i could learn how to get off while fucking with it.
    but a packing harness has been on my wishlist for a while.

31. LH
    October 20th, 2011 @ 10:19 pm

    I remember the day the package came in the mail with a discreet return address… I was nervous about it and wasn’t sure if I’d like my first strap-on. I carried it upstairs to my bedroom, shut the door, and unwrapped it like it might break in my hands. I slid it into my pants, and immediately a rush of energy flooded my pelvis like a dam had just been lifted for the first time. So grateful for that day. :)

32. Ren
    October 20th, 2011 @ 11:28 pm

    I’ve never used a harness because they’re so expensive, but my partner and I talk about me wearing a harness and it really turns us on. This looks like a fun way to start out with harnesses and I like that I could pack with it too. I’d really like to win the rodeoH and then I’ll have some stories for you. ;D

33. n
    October 21st, 2011 @ 12:24 am

    i guess this would be something else entirely….i’m feeling shy today. i promise something better next time if i win!

34. Kae
    October 21st, 2011 @ 1:07 am

    My first time using a strap-on was in a cheap, sleazy motel, after splurging on our first dildo, with my first lover and current partner (way back in high school). Now, it seems tiny, but that little blue dildo seemed huge at that time and we were a bit clumsy at first. I also wasn’t sure if I was supposed to like it so much, as a lesbian. Years later, we still love strap-on sex, definitely need a new harness and my girlfriend has started packing (thanks for those reviews too!), so this would be a great addition to our new gender-bending toy collection! My favorite times with a strap-on involve my partner, Goodfella (thanks for the review!!!), and our balance of rough sex/lovemaking. I’d love to try the rodeoH!

    P.S. Just read your past post and once I’m done with college midterms, will go back and comment, cause I love your blog and it’s helped me a lot over the years.

35. Just
    October 21st, 2011 @ 1:49 am

    My first strap on was so much fun. It was a classic leather strappy one. I switched to this kind that were like shorts. They fit funny and the control was weird. I must say I prefer leather so far (except on the comfort level, shorts totally took gold). Strapped sex is the best.

36. Bobbie
    October 21st, 2011 @ 2:07 am

    My first strap-on was purchased because my biggest crush, who had insisted she was straight for 3 years, one day IMed me out of the blue to suggest that I buy a strap-on. I suggested that she come with me to Ptown to pick it out. She did. And then we tried it out. :)

37. Nico
    October 21st, 2011 @ 4:16 am

    I suppose we could call it…low-rent packing? Lol. My girlfriend dressed up as a sleazy pitbull-type character for a costume party, and packed with pairs of socks.
    On the way home, slightly refreshed, she reached into her pants and threw the socks over a fence. Class.

38. ra
    October 21st, 2011 @ 10:53 am

    I love the idea of this harness. I like packing in public, and like the idea of being ‘ready’ wherever I am.

39. Sid Need
    October 21st, 2011 @ 12:37 pm

    When I figured out I could come using a strap-on, it changed my sexual world. It eventually led me to packing (a lot:), binding, and basically playing with gender in so many new ways. I am so grateful for this blog, Sexis, Aslan leather, gender and sex workshops, and so many others for helping me and expanding my mind on what has been a fantastic journey so far.

40. SA
    October 21st, 2011 @ 1:48 pm

    Well, I like trying new things, so…

41. Ninja
    October 21st, 2011 @ 2:54 pm

    This product sounds too cool – we could finally have some boy-on-boy action with my lover that we’ve (or at least I’ve) been dreaming about…

    I have to check this out.

42. e
    October 21st, 2011 @ 9:55 pm

    So, a while ago my girl and I went shopping for a new strap. The old one just didn’t do anything for me ~ didn’t fit right, wasn’t comfortable, just wasn’t working. I really, really like the new one and have been using it enthusiastically!

    Now, I have to ask a question. Does anyone else name their dildos? Surely I’m not the only one with that particular quirk. My vibrators have also been named ~ Mr Thumb and The Armadillo. Our current dildos are Timmy, the little, swirly blue one and Jeremiah, the hefty big boy.

    Tragically, on Thursday evening, we had an unexpected and alarming occurrence. We were in the groove, going to town, getting close, when I murmured, “Turn over, baby.” I sat up on my knees, started to pull out, and looked down. Holy Shit on Fire! Timmy broke off! In my girl! The only thing holding him on was the condom!

    Naturally, I did what a good partner does. Kept my mouth shut, grabbed the broken end and finished the job with my hand doing the work. Then, after the moaning subsided, I confessed. We killed poor little Timmy.

    We laughed about that for quite a while. It’s still bringing a smile to my lips. I would love to try out the RodeoH… Timmy’s replacement, Thomas, is still young and strong.

43. hank
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 12:00 am

    Our first toy was our feeldoe, so we went a long time without ever getting a strap-on. We got the spareparts pete recently though, and it is glorious on my boy. now it’s even harder to keep my hands off her in public, which she seems to enjoy. The RodeOH looks like it fits in that same category of hard-to-keep-my-hands-away, so obviously I’ve been lusting after it since i saw first saw it.

44. Mountain Boy
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 5:31 am

    I had a strap on before I even knew how to use my cock. Before I even really knew that I had a cock. Back then it was a novelty, a toy. When I met my girl all of that changed. She made my cock so hard it wasn’t an option. I ditched the old gstring harness for three long strips of cloth. I felt naked and raw. Ready.

45. Rachel W
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 8:17 am

    I loved buying my SpareParts harness from Babeland a number of years ago and have used it well – I particularly enjoy being able to throw it in the laundry – but would love to try something new.

46. GeekyNymph
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 12:14 pm

    Well. I have a velvet harness from GV. I am not stellar using it, but I think I would love the RodeoH or something like it- it has got to be more comfortable! :)

47. E
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 1:07 pm

    Got my first one at Oh My in Northampton Ma about 6 years ago, still going strong almost 6 years later. Gotta love leather.

48. oliverhyde
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 3:28 pm

    My two favorites right now were both made by my sweetie. One of them is super sturdy all black woven strapping. Its definitely a better-made harness, but somehow I find myself always going back to the first kind of odd one she ever made me <3

49. Edison
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 5:09 pm

    I have packed in public. The first time I did I was so nervous! I went to the local library, nothing big, but you’d thought I was walking naked down Main Street. I do it regularly now.

50. C
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 6:01 pm

    Though I have never used a strap-on, it is on my list of future adventures. Winning this would make it happen so much sooner.

51. zoe
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 6:39 pm

    i bought my first harness about a year ago, a beautiful leather number (terra firma, i think?) which my butch and i picked because it was so adjustable and we prefer different amounts of penetration. Although other folks seem to love this model, we’ve had issues with the snaps holding the o-ring popping open, which has been fixed with some low-tech rubber bands. Anyway, the simplicity of this looks awesome – i love the idea of having nothing to adjust.

52. LEzRK
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 9:10 pm

    Q’s: most exciting place? packed in public? favorite harness? why I want to win? or something else entirely?

    A’s: all over Quebec City, yes, Jaguar, because I’d love to surprise my GF, and I love warm peanut butter cookies.

53. H.
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 9:30 pm

    I think the hottest place I’ve had strap-on sex was the time we fucked on my girlfriend’s balcony in broad daylight. I was bent over the railing watching the people in the building across from hers and down on the street, and then I was up against on of the walls with my legs wrapped around her.

    She also packed majorly out to the ballet one night, then when we got home, tied me up in her closet and beat me with her belt and banged the hell out of me, still in her dress shirt. Strap-on sex is the best.

54. D.
    October 22nd, 2011 @ 11:02 pm

    I’m packing two or three days out of the week now with Pete and Mr. Limpy, but I would love to be able to pack and play. RodeoH looks super comfy for the purpose. Also, it would be damn attractive.

55. Lenore
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 10:10 am

    My first time strapping on was with an ex-girlfriend. We took turns topping, both feeling so silly. Certainly, as Alo wrote, it feels both powerful and absurd.

    The first time my beau took out his cock I almost soaked through my panties just feeling the hard bulge through his shorts. I gave that cock a long, luxurious blowjob, and then he fucked me til I came. I loved grabbing onto the straps that perfectly outlined his ass. Yum.

56. Jude
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 11:45 am

    First thing I bought once I met my partner was the sexiest, leatheriest Jaguar I could find. We’ve ended up needing another to go with the first since then to support all the great faggy sexin’ we do, but all of the rivets are rusting through! And it’s not like we don’t take care of them, but it would be nice to throw one right in the wash.

57. Micah
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 1:17 pm

    Packing in public is one of the most exhilarating experiences I’ve had. I haven’t done it enough to get used to it, and so every time I do it, it’s new and novel. I love the way I walk and own my body when I pack. If only I could get used to the pesky restroom situation..

58. Grania
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 1:56 pm

    The first harness I got was with my first serious girlfriend and one that made it look like she was rock climbing with a big red dildo. We thus invested in a sexy leather harness of which we split the cost 50/50. Alas, we broke up and she kept the harness.

    I then dated a trans boy who was coming to terms with this when we were dating. We since split up, and we also had split the cost of his harness/cock. Of course, because the gender identity stuff related to it, I insisted he keep it.

    And again, I am without a harness. This one looks lovely.

59. Miss Mary
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 2:29 pm

    I’d love this harness! You so kindly answered my question about trying to convert my shy girlfriend to a more dominant top. I’ve been looking at this Rodeoh for a while, thinking maybe it was close enough to underwear/non-threatening looking to get her to strap it up. Thank you so much for your advice & all that you do! So inspiring to queers of all kinds!

60. Titus Androgynous
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 4:14 pm

    At a butch femme costume event. Gave the girl the nod. She headed off to the toilet. I followed. She locked the door behind me and got down on her knees. Looking up at me through her long lashes, she slowly undid my fly, pulled my packed cock out of my briefs and wrapped her dark red lips around it.

61. lady brett
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 4:17 pm

    so…they make it up to 41″, is there a reason the giveaway doesn’t include all the size options? i’d really love this for my honey – it looks hot and low-key, which both seem perfect.

    that said, if nothing can be done about the sizing, i wouldn’t turn it down…i’m trying to get to where strapping on doesn’t give me a panic attack, maybe the simplicity (and undercover look) of this would help.

62. Mary
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 6:04 pm

    Oh no, I thought I already commented!
    You so gracefully answered my question about bringing out the top in my shy girlfriend on your column. I’d been eyeing this harness for a while, thinking it may be non-threatening enough for her to maybe think about finally strapping up. They look so much like the underwear she has.
    Of course, seeing as how the dildo I got has done nothing but gathered dust, it would probably be wasted on me… but it can’t hurt to try!
    Thank you so much for all that you do!! If I ever get an update for you, I’ll send it along.

63. Sinclair
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 9:36 pm

    lady brett: I thought I included all the sizing options in the write-up! they said they would provide *any* size, so it’s my fault if I didn’t list the largest one.

64. Mark
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 10:27 pm

    I’m a new trans guy, so anything I can get in the line of strap ons is great. This one looks cool.

65. Emi
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 10:30 pm

    After a particularly rough night of defending her gender presentation to coworkers, my sweet butch let me suck her cock for the first time when I offered. Feeling her swell with pride (and excitement) in my mouth as I gave her her first blowjob was the hottest feeling I could imagine. Taking her in deep and feeling her cock thrusting in my throat is my biggest turn on. I worship her and her cock greedily every chance I get.

66. Resh
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 11:08 pm

    My first harness was part of a beginner’s kit and was fuzzy on the front. I remember how nervous I was when I got it and thinking it was a little weird that it was fuzzy. It was amazing though. I never use that one now, but I still love strapping on, now with the bare as you dare.

67. A
    October 23rd, 2011 @ 11:15 pm

    After months of watching my partner wrap her perfectly puckered lips around my cock, I wanted more. I had never been so satiated than watching bashfully peer at me as she took the entire length of my cock in her mouth. I had quietly confessed that I wanted her to let me fuck her mouth. This was not meant to demean or embarrass– secretly, I know her desire to play. This particular form of play made me want her to feel used. Desired, but most importantly used. That night she was a hole to get me off. She did. I can still feel my cock hitting the back of her throat.

68. Chase
    October 24th, 2011 @ 11:49 am

    I love the idea of the RodeoH, it eliminates the awkward …wait let me take out my packer and fiddle with this awkward harness then we can fuck… It’s a great product that could really lessen some dysphoria around having sex if you are a gender fucker in any way.

69. Ace
    October 24th, 2011 @ 7:24 pm

    My first ever girlfriend took me home two nights after we met for the first time and asked me to strap-on and get on top of her. It totally spoiled the rest of my experiences, to say the least. I’m excited (pun intended) to try to RodeoH and see if she likes it just as much.

70. Erin
    October 30th, 2011 @ 9:49 pm

    My girlfriend and I actually just used a strap on for the first time a couple weeks ago. For me (the bottom) it was actually a strange sensation. I am so used to feeling her fingers or tongue inside me.. part of her, you know?.. that this fake thing felt so foreign and, well, NOT her. We didn’t have any problems with it slipping or the harness malfunctioning though. Her only complaint was that since she couldn’t feel it, she didn’t know if she was pulling out too far.

    It’s definitely something we plan to keep trying.. practicing if you will, lol. She loves the idea of being inside me, and gets this primal need for it, so this is something we really hope will become fulfilling for us both!

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