Archive for March, 2011

The Birthday Shoes Tradition

03/31/2011  |  3 Comments

I have a little bit of a birthday tradition around here, where I ask readers to send in photos of... more

Protected: Direction, Part Two

03/31/2011  |  Enter your password to view comments.

Kind of interesting how many folks suggested grad school when I pondered my next step, my direction. Yes, grad school... more

The Struggle for Growth

03/30/2011  |  14 Comments

The couple's therapy session last night went pretty well, and I think we're going to see her again. The therapist... more

Reminder: Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 Submissions Are Due April 1

03/29/2011  |  No Comments

This is one of my favorite erotica series, not only because the 1997 version was one of the first books... more

Protected: More Mindfulness

03/29/2011  |  Enter your password to view comments.

In theory I'm still not drinking, since I told myself I'd take a break in March, but I have had... more

Tomcat’s Barber Shop

03/28/2011  |  9 Comments

It's been a long time coming, this ode to my favorite barber shop in New York City. It took a... more

Protected: Direction

03/28/2011  |  Enter your password to view comments.

I got some bad news last week, that the weekly column I write is probably going to end soon.... more

Angie Evans: Mini-Interview

03/28/2011  |  5 Comments

"[Butch] represents the way I walk in the world and represents the sisters and brothers who have come before me. It is a part of my herstory. By owning my female masculinity I own the word butch, thus, I own myself."more

Wendi Kali: Mini-Interview

03/25/2011  |  1 Comment

"I identify myself as a motorcycle riding butch lesbian, writer, photographer and self-explorer learning to love and accept myself. I will answer to “Sir” or “Ma’am” but prefer to be described as “handsome” rather than “beautiful”. I am a woman who enjoys binding, packing and moving fluidly between genders."more

There Were Actually Two Porn Parties This Week …

03/24/2011  |  1 Comment

The one on Twitter, and Rough Sex 3: Adrianna's Dangerous Mind release party. Director (and general badass hottie) Tristan Taormino... more