Protected: Switch

November 2nd, 2022 • 2 minute read • by


All Of This, Guest Erotica by A. L. Brooks

February 28th, 2022 • 14 minute read • by


Best of 2021 on Sugarbutch

December 31st, 2021 • 7 minute read • by


D/s Protocol Ideas For You To Try

August 31st, 2021 • 3 minute read • by


How To Use Check Ins In Your D/s Relationship

August 1st, 2021 • 4 minute read • by


Tools For Stepping Up D/s

July 31st, 2021 • 6 minute read • by


9 Ideas to Support Your D/s During Hard Times

February 27th, 2021 • 5 minute read • by


Leather Community During a Pandemic

February 27th, 2021 • 3 minute read • by


Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Methods of Control in Your D/s Relationship: Defining Rules, Tasks, Protocol, and Ritual

July 24th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Announcing: D/s Playground! Summer 2019

May 13th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Are You Game? Guest Post by Dilo Keith

March 30th, 2019 • 11 minute read • by


The Outermost Bracket™: A Theory on D/s and Non-Monogamy

January 28th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Show Me You Want It

December 31st, 2018 • 3 minute read • by


I Want To Be Brutal.

December 26th, 2018 • 6 minute read • by


Lying Down, Guest Post by Kathleen Delaney-Adams

December 28th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by


A toy to do with as I please.

November 30th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by


“Submission is mine to define for myself.” Interview with Miss Piggy

September 14th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


“I found a sense of clarity about my path:” Interview with Shiris

August 26th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


You’ll Never Find the Perfect Dominant

August 18th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


“Healing comes through sex.” Sinclair Sexsmith interviews Sophia Chang

January 2nd, 2015 • < 1 minute read • by


10 Tips for Tops

November 30th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


“I know I’m submissive. But where do I start?” aka “I just read Fifty Shades of Grey and I want THAT.”

June 26th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?

June 6th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup

January 31st, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


On Non-Monogamy, Guest Post by Kristen

April 27th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by


Review: The Pleasure’s All Mine (book)

January 2nd, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: open up for me. you’re mine today

May 14th, 2008 • 4 minute read • by


Submissive Impulses & Why I Heart Sadists, Guest Post by muse

April 24th, 2008 • 2 minute read • by


I like submitting, but that’s a secret

December 19th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


on playing with control

December 8th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


Her Mouth on My Cock

August 16th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


in which sinclair gets off

July 5th, 2007 • 4 minute read • by


what I would’ve done

June 12th, 2007 • 2 minute read • by


distracting myself III

October 24th, 2006 • 2 minute read • by


distracting myself II

October 19th, 2006 • 2 minute read • by


distracting myself

October 18th, 2006 • 2 minute read • by


southern hospitality – part one

October 9th, 2006 • 3 minute read • by