Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password

Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.

1. The Newsletter

The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at]gmail.com – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.

2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox

If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.

Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.

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3. Password protected posts

The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.)

To get access to the password protected posts, join the Patreon at http://patreon.com/mrsexsmith. More information on the Patreon and the password protected posts here.

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

347 thoughts on “Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password”

  1. justine says:


  2. Bekk says:

    password pleeeease?

  3. sami bartier says:

    hi. i do have facebook. wouid love to add you. please give me the pass word, i love reading everything you write about, especialy your erotic stories. x

  4. Hannah says:

    Password for protected posts, please?

  5. Z says:

    Love what I’m reading. Password please.

  6. jk says:

    curiosity has gotten the best of me. password please?

  7. Ms Felix says:


    I love your writing, please password me?


  8. Gabe says:

    I like. Password please.

  9. Marty says:

    Please add me to your email and password protected list.

  10. gabe says:

    i've been added to the email list. but no passwords info has come my way. i'm dying from suspense…

  11. Vinnie says:

    "pass me the word thanks"

  12. Vanessa Gomez says:

    Password request :-)

  13. Sarah says:

    May I have the password, please, sir?

  14. Tara says:

    I don't have a Facebook or a Myspace but I have twitter. Can I still get the password? Thanks!

  15. Amber says:

    So, I'd love to get the password. A first time reader, I found this site via feministing.com. I have loved reading so many different entries that feel brutally honest. As a college freshman in the South . . . queer identity is something I have never before been exposed to, and continues to be an area of insatiable curiosity for me. I think I'm trying to say thank you for being here.

  16. K says:

    Password Please?

  17. Would love to get a password, please.

  18. Laura says:

    I'd love to have access to the password protected posts. Your writing feels like home to me, and your honesty is breathtaking. Thank you for this website.

  19. Jamie says:

    The fourth commenter on this post introduced me to your blog a few days ago, and I have been reading obsessively since then. You and your writing are both amazing. Can I please have the password? :]

    My facebook is here! http://www.facebook.com/jamie.bartholomay

  20. Jamie says:

    …I meant 4th comment on this page of comments… yup it's definitely 4am. >.<

  21. DJ says:


  22. !spark! says:

    hey sinclair,

    i had your password once upon a time but then it changed?….

    also i quit much of my online reading for many months, while i was off in my head, wrassling my own angst…

    but i'm back now.

    and just as before, the honesty in your writing is inspiring me.

    i'd love to have the password now and learn more about your emotional processing…

    i made a blog almost a year ago but i'm not very prolific… and i've not shared it with many cuz, well, yeah, it's personal, and i feel vulnerable… but

    you can have the url if it proves i'm a real person

  23. lexy says:

    i'd love the password and the newsletter.. such a fan.

  24. Alex says:

    I'm amazed it took me so long to find your blog and related projects. You're doing great work for the community. Would love to have the password for your protected posts.

  25. Davis says:

    Password please? Thanks! I'm on facebook under this email if you need to see that I'm real!

  26. EileenG says:

    may I pease have the passwork. I am Eileen Kwiecinski Gartland on Facebook. Thanks.

  27. Kate says:

    I'd love the password as well, please.

  28. RB says:

    Password please! Thanks!

  29. henefeld says:

    hey sinclair, after lurking here for a year or so I finally want the password please. why Iwve been waiting so long is a long story, which hopefully I'll share with you sometime.

  30. grrlchef says:

    What's up Sinclair. May I have the password? K thx have a great weekend. (when do you come to C@L?!) Hurray!

  31. becky says:

    hi, love the blog and stories and would like the password, thanks.


  32. Liz says:

    Hi, I've been reading for a while and would love the password to the protected posts. Thanks.

  33. katefate says:

    May I have a password, please? I hope my email proves I'm real.

  34. Susie says:

    I’ve been really enjoying reading, would love to have a password if possible.

  35. Laurel says:

    I’d love to have the secret password! Email and facebook link above.

  36. Marie says:

    Hi there..I have enjoyed your writing for years, but never bothered to ask for a password when you began making posts private. I don’t have a blog and dropped facebook long ago due to (actual, no-joke) stalking, but I would love to catch up on all I’ve missed.

    Thanks from a grateful femme reader <3

  37. Christine says:

    Hey Sinclair,

    I’d love to have the password, as well as your newsletter. I love your work.


  38. lauren says:

    password please! thank you for this blog!

  39. Lauren S says:

    Hi there, I’m already on the mailing list for the newsletter but would love to read more if it would be possible to get the password. Thanks :)

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