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Giving away Good Dyke Porn

Want some Good Dyke Porn? Of course you do.

Bren Ryder’s dyke porn is quickly becoming widely celebrated around the queer dyke sexblog circles, and you’re really want to get your hands on her first DVD selection of seriously hot sex.

I’ve got a full review coming, but meanwhile, it’s the holidays! What better way to celebrate than to send some fun gifts away to the folks who follow this writing project (that would be you).

Bren actually sent me this DVD in connection with the 8 Against 8 campaign, and I was going to give it away at the end of the fundraising, but with the election and my vacation in November, I didn’t ever get around to it.

So, today I was chatting with Bevin Branlandingham, infamous host of the FemmeCast, and she suggested this little idea for a give-away …

Here’s what you gotta do:

(Legit email address required, real name optional.) Leave a comment sharing a sexual goal for 2009. What do you want to do? What do you want to try that you’ve never done? Who do you want to fuck? Where do you want to be fucked? What toy have you never tried that you’d like to?

Who what where when why? Visualize it. Dream about it. Maybe then it’ll really happen.

It’s like The Secret meets smut.

Winner will be chosen by the Random Number Generator, so you won’t be judged on how you answer. You must be willing to send me your address so I can mail you the DVD!

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

57 thoughts on “Giving away Good Dyke Porn”

  1. neil says:

    ah…I need to meander into the slippery world of BDSM instead of just talking about it…and thinking about it…

  2. ellis says:

    I want to be more adventurous in my play; I want to play with strangers, near-strangers, one of my old friends, and one of my exes.

    I also want, eventually, an LTR that will lead to the kind of slow-developing trust I'm going to need to get really involved in power play.

    I want to be fucked, hard, by a really skilled top.

    I want some sweet butch to take me out on a really-truly date, to take me home later and tease me until neither of us can stand it.

    In fact, I want that at least twice, so each of us can be the one who caves first.

    I want enough practice at going down that I start feeling really good at it.

    I want to be spanked.

  3. ellis says:

    Oh, and I can't help but think how too bad it is that there's no good way to turn this into matchmaking. I'm struck by how many of us have very complementary desires for the coming (er, I mean..) year.

  4. N says:

    Well my original goal was to have anal sex with a girl for the first time, but I met that goal last night…so I would have to say my sexual goal for 2009 would be to be peed on and vice versa…I want to explore water sports….in such an erotic way…yum!

  5. rachel says:

    this year i want to have more semi-public sex; at restaurants, in cars, library restrooms…

    also, i'd like to start finding more bruises the next day.

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