The Case For Not Being A Good Submissive

August 11th, 2016 • 5 minute read • by


How rife & I Created Our D/s Protocol

March 1st, 2016 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: I want to take advantage.

January 22nd, 2016 • 5 minute read • by


Lying Down, Guest Post by Kathleen Delaney-Adams (excerpt from Dirty Dates)

December 28th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by


A toy to do with as I please.

November 30th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


Unapologetic Need

November 24th, 2015 • 18 minute read • by


A peek inside Submissive Playground! The syllabus and Subplay “tracks”

September 17th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by


“Submission is mine to define for myself.” Interview with Miss Piggy

September 14th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


7 Tips For Flirting As A Submissive

September 11th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


“I found a sense of clarity about my path:” Interview with Shiris

August 26th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


Little Liar, Guest Post by Rebekah Weatherspoon

August 6th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by


Bath Time (Bean & Mickey #2)

May 22nd, 2015 • 7 minute read • by


100 Bedtime Strokes (Mistress Elise Winter & morgan #2)

April 26th, 2015 • 8 minute read • by


Taking It (Kai & DJ #2)

March 20th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by


Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality, Guest Post by rife

January 22nd, 2015 • 6 minute read • by


I Want You to Thrive: How to Use the Submissive Playground “Tracks”

January 16th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


Weight. Mouth. Rough Sex.

December 31st, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


Turn Your Rough Fantasies into Responsible Reality

December 29th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


10 Tips for Tops

November 30th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: Sexting

November 13th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: The Collaring Ceremony

November 6th, 2014 • 10 minute read • by


Is psychological kink play “healthy”?

August 25th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


I need you to take a little more for me.

August 14th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


“I know I’m submissive. But where do I start?” aka “I just read Fifty Shades of Grey and I want THAT.”

June 26th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?

June 6th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: From the archives: The most holy things I do

May 22nd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Counting Down

March 17th, 2014 • 1 minute read • by


When I’m getting off

March 3rd, 2014 • 2 minute read • by


Sex & Business (isn’t that what it’s always about?) February Book Roundup

February 28th, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup

January 31st, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


How I make my boy do the dishes

January 27th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


Masocast podcast features … me! Also: Fancy Package on #subplay!

December 23rd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


So what ARE the different kinds of s-types? And more about the s-type quiz

December 11th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months

October 2nd, 2013 • 15 minute read • by


Dominance & Power with Responsibility

June 24th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


A Dirty Excerpt from Carrie’s Story [Blog Tour]

March 29th, 2013 • 7 minute read • by


This Week! Best Lesbian Erotica & the Lesbian Sex Mafia in New York City

December 18th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Deserthooker: More Confident, Self-Assured and Grounded

December 18th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Lifting: a little update on me, Kristen, poly, and grief

December 9th, 2012 • 6 minute read • by


One Year with Rife

November 27th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Power Blow Job Demo with Me & Kristen at Submit on Saturday Night in Brooklyn

September 28th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


The Pink Dress

January 1st, 2012 • 26 minute read • by


Protected: Using D/s to Address Connection & Power

March 17th, 2011 • 9 minute read • by


Good Girl, Bad Girl (Part One)

January 27th, 2011 • 8 minute read • by


Year In Review On Sugarbutch: 2010

December 30th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by


Waking Up

May 29th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by


Consent Obsession

February 15th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: Articulating What I Need When I Need It

January 11th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: Occasional Effects of D/s

January 3rd, 2010 • 11 minute read • by


Protected: Kristen’s Homework

December 14th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by