Queer sex, kink, gender, and relationships by Sinclair Sexsmith
All Dirty Stories
Kink & D/s
About & Contact
The Case For Not Being A Good Submissive
How rife & I Created Our D/s Protocol. Plus: Invitation to the new Protocol ecourse
Protected: I want to take advantage.
Lying Down, Guest Post by Kathleen Delaney-Adams (excerpt from Dirty Dates)
A toy to do with as I please.
A peek inside Submissive Playground! The syllabus and Subplay “tracks”
“Submission is mine to define for myself.” Interview with Miss Piggy
7 Tips For Flirting As A Submissive
“I found a sense of clarity about my path:” Interview with Shiris
Little Liar, Guest Post by Rebekah Weatherspoon
Bath Time (Bean & Mickey #2)
100 Bedtime Strokes (Mistress Elise Winter & morgan #2)
Taking It (Kai & DJ #2)
Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality, Guest Post by rife
I Want You to Thrive: How to Use the Submissive Playground “Tracks”
Weight. Mouth. Rough Sex.
Turn Your Rough Fantasies into Responsible Reality
10 Tips for Tops
Protected: From the Dirty Faggot Archives: Sexting
Protected: The Collaring Ceremony
Is psychological kink play “healthy”?
I need you to take a little more for me.
“I know I’m submissive. But where do I start?” aka “I just read Fifty Shades of Grey and I want THAT.”
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?
Protected: From the Dirty Faggot Archives: The most holy things I do
When I’m getting off
Sex & Business (isn’t that what it’s always about?) February Book Roundup
Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup
How I make my boy do the dishes
Masocast podcast features … me! Also: Fancy Package on #subplay!
So what ARE the different kinds of s-types? And more about the s-type quiz
Protected: Making Peace: in which I (attempt to) explain what happened over these last eighteen months
Dominance & Power with Responsibility
A Dirty Excerpt from Carrie’s Story [Blog Tour]
This Week! Best Lesbian Erotica & the Lesbian Sex Mafia in New York City
Open Relationship Mini Interview with Deserthooker: More Confident, Self-Assured and Grounded
Protected: Lifting: a little update on me, Kristen, poly, and grief
One Year with Rife
Power Blow Job Demo with Me & Kristen at Submit on Saturday Night in Brooklyn
The Pink Dress
Protected: Using D/s to Address Connection & Power
Good Girl, Bad Girl (Part One)
Year In Review On Sugarbutch: 2010
Protected: Articulating What I Need When I Need It
Protected: Occasional Effects of D/s
Protected: Kristen’s Homework