Take My Whip: Fantasy Date Night, Guest Post by rife

March 28th, 2020 • 5 minute read • by


Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Methods of Control in Your D/s Relationship: Defining Rules, Tasks, Protocol, and Ritual

July 24th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Announcing: D/s Playground! Summer 2019

May 13th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Fundamentals of the Protocol Game

April 15th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Whatever I Want, Whatever I Say

January 30th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


The Outermost Bracketâ„¢: A Theory on D/s and Non-Monogamy

January 28th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Announcing: D/s Webinars for Patrons

January 10th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Show Me You Want It

December 31st, 2018 • 3 minute read • by


I Want To Be Brutal.

December 26th, 2018 • 6 minute read • by


Lying Down, Guest Post by Kathleen Delaney-Adams

December 28th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by


A toy to do with as I please.

November 30th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by


“Healing comes through sex.” Sinclair Sexsmith interviews Sophia Chang

January 2nd, 2015 • < 1 minute read • by


10 Tips for Tops

November 30th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?

June 6th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Dominance & Power with Responsibility

June 24th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

June 10th, 2012 • 7 minute read • by


How do you get a dominant to dominate?

June 1st, 2009 • 2 minute read • by