Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password

Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.

1. The Newsletter

The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at] – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.

2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox

If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.

Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.

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3. Password protected posts

The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.) Leave a comment in this thread with a valid email address and a link to your blog, your myspace, your facebook, or some other way to verify that you are a real person. If you ask for the password, I’ll also add you to The Newsletter mailing list.

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ‚ÄčTheir short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and use the pronouns they, them, theirs, themself. Follow all their personal writings and all the updates through

346 thoughts on “Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password”

  1. Caroline says:

    I'd like the password please!

  2. Lee says:

    I just started following your blog a few weeks ago, and would love love love the password for your protected posts. I don't have a website or myspace, but I do have facebook? For years and years I have been thinking about radicalizing by butch/boi masculinity; and I have been thoroughly enjoying your writing thus far, which is why I'd love to read some of your more personal posts! Thanks.

  3. Scribe says:

    I'd like to be added, please. Password, too : O)

  4. Benji says:

    Hello. I would also like the password please.

  5. Tawny says:

    I would love to have the password. Your site is a phenomenal growth tool for learning about gender, and I'm addicted. =)

  6. Gill says:


    I would love the password. I've really enjoyed reading this blog over the last few months, and it has opened my eyes to aspects of gender and sex that I had never thought about.

  7. Lauren says:

    Love the blog.. and I'd love to read password protected posts, as well! Thanks for writing…

  8. Carolyn says:

    Could I please have the password? I am a real person.

  9. Chloe says:


    I would also love the password. I quite enjoy your blog!

  10. Shelly says:

    I had the password at one time & now I don't!

    May I have again, please?

    Thanks much,


  11. Adisson says:


    Would love to have the password to the protected posts. Love the blog, of course.


  12. Fiona says:

    I love your blog, and I would love to have the password. :)

  13. Lauren says:

    Password please. :)

  14. snowstar says:

    I'm so glad I found this blog…it's wonderful. I would indeed like the password, please :)

  15. miriam beetle says:

    i have really been enjoying your blog, & i'd love to be able to see the password protected entries. you have the hottest writing on the internet.

  16. F says:

    password, yes, password

  17. Amanda says:

    I would like the password please. I love your blog.

  18. Emily says:

    I'd like the password, please!

  19. Hollie says:

    i would love the password. your posts keep me thinking and entertained ;-)

  20. Kass says:

    I would thoroughly enjoy the password if you would be so obliged :]

  21. Tori says:

    Love the blog :), can I please have the password.

  22. quizzical pussy says:

    I’d like the password, please. I love your blog!

  23. LilyRose says:

    Hey! Fantastic blog. I’d love to have the password to delve deeper into it. Thanks!

  24. Kara says:

    I'd love to have the password, when you get a chance.

  25. Amelia says:

    I'd like to request the password as well… Love your blog, keep up the great work!

  26. Joanne says:

    I enjoy reading your blog and would like the password please.

    Thank you

  27. Erika says:

    I would also love to have the password. Thanks!

  28. Emma says:

    I'd love to get a password, if that's alright. Thanks!

  29. songquake says:

    i'd like to receive the password, please!

  30. Zephyr says:

    I'd love to be added to both the mailing list and to receive the password to the protected posts. Thank you for your words and thoughts – they're a delight when they cross my way.

  31. Donna says:

    I'd love the password, if possible. :)

  32. Raynee says:

    might I have the password please…

  33. ianuk74 says:

    I'd love the password pretty please.


  34. B. Zedan says:

    Would love the password, please.

  35. Cara says:

    Huge fan of your blog and your writing, Ive been reading here for the past couple of months now! It'd be great if I could have the password, pretty please? Thanks :)

  36. Laura says:

    I’m already on your mailing list, but need the password. Thanks!

  37. Andrea says:

    I'd love the password.


    and Thank you!

  38. Cheyborg Neckmonster says:

    I would love to read all of your blog posts, so a password would help with that! Much admiration from the Dirty South!

  39. EC says:

    I would like the password. happy new year.

  40. Karen says:

    Please send the password to my email address. Love your work.



  41. Shana says:

    Password please. Happy New Year.

  42. j. says:

    password plz!, thank you!

  43. HouseWench says:

    Getting a password would be one nice way to start 2010!

  44. Hayley says:

    I really enjoy reading your blog so I'd love the password too. Thanks :)

  45. marzipan says:

    I would just love the password..

    Thank you.

  46. Mollie says:

    I would enjoy learning more about butch/femme ~ among other things….

    password please?


  47. Styger says:

    Hello! Long time reader, but I've always been too shy/lazy to ask for the password. So, I'm finally asking, pretty please! Also, feel free to add me on Facebook if you'd like. Thanks!

  48. c s i says:

    password please ?

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