Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password

May 28, 2009  |  miscellany

Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.

1. The Newsletter

The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at] – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.

2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox

If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.

Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.

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3. Password protected posts

The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.) Leave a comment in this thread with a valid email address and a link to your blog, your myspace, your facebook, or some other way to verify that you are a real person. If you ask for the password, I’ll also add you to The Newsletter mailing list.

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Highlights, announcements, workshops, and sometimes even exclusive smut. Plus, get the password for protected posts.


  1. I just started following your blog a few weeks ago, and would love love love the password for your protected posts. I don't have a website or myspace, but I do have facebook? For years and years I have been thinking about radicalizing by butch/boi masculinity; and I have been thoroughly enjoying your writing thus far, which is why I'd love to read some of your more personal posts! Thanks.

  2. I'd like to be added, please. Password, too : O)

  3. Hello. I would also like the password please.

  4. I would love to have the password. Your site is a phenomenal growth tool for learning about gender, and I'm addicted. =)

  5. Hey,

    I would love the password. I've really enjoyed reading this blog over the last few months, and it has opened my eyes to aspects of gender and sex that I had never thought about.

  6. Love the blog.. and I'd love to read password protected posts, as well! Thanks for writing…

  7. Could I please have the password? I am a real person.

  8. Hey,

    I would also love the password. I quite enjoy your blog!

  9. I had the password at one time & now I don't!

    May I have again, please?

    Thanks much,


  10. Hey

    Would love to have the password to the protected posts. Love the blog, of course.


  11. I love your blog, and I would love to have the password. :)

  12. I'm so glad I found this blog…it's wonderful. I would indeed like the password, please :)

  13. i have really been enjoying your blog, & i'd love to be able to see the password protected entries. you have the hottest writing on the internet.

  14. I would like the password please. I love your blog.

  15. i would love the password. your posts keep me thinking and entertained ;-)

  16. I would thoroughly enjoy the password if you would be so obliged :]

  17. Love the blog :), can I please have the password.

  18. Hi, I love your blog and would like to read the password protected posts. Here is a link to my Facebook page:

  19. I’d like the password, please. I love your blog!

  20. Hey! Fantastic blog. I’d love to have the password to delve deeper into it. Thanks!

  21. I'd love to have the password, when you get a chance.

  22. I'd like to request the password as well… Love your blog, keep up the great work!

  23. I enjoy reading your blog and would like the password please.

    Thank you

  24. I would also love to have the password. Thanks!

  25. I'd love to get a password, if that's alright. Thanks!

  26. i'd like to receive the password, please!

  27. I'd love to be added to both the mailing list and to receive the password to the protected posts. Thank you for your words and thoughts – they're a delight when they cross my way.

  28. I'd love the password, if possible. :)

  29. might I have the password please…

  30. I'd love the password pretty please.


  31. Would love the password, please.

  32. Huge fan of your blog and your writing, Ive been reading here for the past couple of months now! It'd be great if I could have the password, pretty please? Thanks :)

  33. I’m already on your mailing list, but need the password. Thanks!

  34. I'd love the password.


    and Thank you!

  35. I would love to read all of your blog posts, so a password would help with that! Much admiration from the Dirty South!

  36. I would like the password. happy new year.

  37. Please send the password to my email address. Love your work.



  38. Password please. Happy New Year.

  39. Getting a password would be one nice way to start 2010!

  40. I really enjoy reading your blog so I'd love the password too. Thanks :)

  41. I would just love the password..

    Thank you.

  42. I would enjoy learning more about butch/femme ~ among other things….

    password please?


  43. Hello! Long time reader, but I've always been too shy/lazy to ask for the password. So, I'm finally asking, pretty please! Also, feel free to add me on Facebook if you'd like. Thanks!

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