Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password

Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.

1. The Newsletter

The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at] – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.

2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox

If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.

Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.

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3. Password protected posts

The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.) Leave a comment in this thread with a valid email address and a link to your blog, your myspace, your facebook, or some other way to verify that you are a real person. If you ask for the password, I’ll also add you to The Newsletter mailing list.

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith is a genderqueer kinky butch writer who teaches and performs, specializing in sexualities, genders, and relationships. They've written at since 2006, recognized numerous places as one of the Top Sex Blogs. Sinclair's gender theory and queer erotica is widely published in anthologies like Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica, and online at Feministing, Autostraddle, AfterEllen, and more; they are the editor of Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 and Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, both published by Cleis Press. Sweet & Rough: Sixteen Stories of Queer Smut, Sinclair's first book of short erotic stories, was published in 2014. They use the pronouns they, them, theirs, themself, and live in Oakland, CA with their boy.

346 thoughts on “Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password”

  1. Literalman says:

    Hope it's not too late!

    Many Thanks!

  2. Susan says:

    I would like added to the mailing list and would like to read the password protected entries, if i could.

  3. Eva says:

    I'm a real person and I'd love to have the password. Thanks.

  4. Kelsey says:

    Password, please! :)

  5. T says:

    Im a real person and would really like the password.

  6. Laura says:

    I'm a femme in the buckle of the Bible Belt, and I have been enjoying your writing project for almost a year now. I just gave in and made a Facebook page tonight, and now I guess I can prove I am a real person! I would like the password for protected posts, and I would love getting a newsletter, too. Hope I linked it correctly. Still kind of web-illiterate.

  7. Jessica says:

    password please!!!!

  8. Gen says:

    I would love to read the password protected entries!

  9. allegra says:

    i would like to have the password, please! thank you!

  10. Weit says:

    hey im a real person too and i would love to have the password for the protected entries. thanks.

  11. Sarah says:

    i'd love the password…

  12. Helen says:

    MUST have password! ;-)

  13. Sassafras says:

    i'm a real person :) and would like a password :)

  14. carmen says:

    i've been reading your blog f or ages and i'd love to have the password! your writing is beautiful. i'd give you my facebook but unfortunately it's not publicly viewable, so i hope this is enough to convince you that i'm real!

  15. ria says:

    hey great blog

  16. Krista says:

    Password? :)

  17. Monika says:

    would be grateful if i could read the password protected entries. i do not have a myspace or a facebook account – but i am real!! :)

  18. Leerie says:

    I would love to get the newsletter and the password. Thank you! <3

  19. ria says:

    could i get the password as well?

  20. treesa says:

    email list and password protected posts, please?

    I wish for just a smidge of the polish and nuance I see in your writing to appear in my own – gorgeous stuff, thanks, always, for sharing.

  21. maria says:

    Thanks so much!

  22. Trilby says:

    Sinclair, your writing takes my breath away… may I please have the password?

  23. Fluence says:

    Hi, could I have the password for protected posts please?

  24. Allison says:

    Hey, could I have the pw for the protected posts please? Thanks!

  25. Brittany M. says:

    Hey! I’d love to be added to your monthly newsletter.

  26. ak says:

    I'm a real person, but don't have a blog. any chance I could get a pw?

  27. Connor Gillis says:

    Password please! I left a link to my website and you have my email now. :)

  28. isa says:

    hello sinclair,
    I have recently discovered your blog and I absolutely love it -your writing is among the very best lesbian erotica I’ve read. thank you. and keep up the good work!
    oh, could I please have the password for the protected entries too?

  29. Maria P. says:

    The password! The newsletter! Everything! Now! (Please.)

  30. Jenn says:

    Password please!

  31. Leah says:

    this real person would love the password, please.

  32. Mel says:

    I've recently started following your story, and think your writing is exceptional. I'm a real person (even if I don't have a facebook profile or a blog) – please could I have the password to the protected entries?

  33. Erin says:

    password? please? i love your site.

  34. nandi says:

    thank you so much for brightening my day with pics of hot butches etc! what a great antidote to a tense family dinner, and a great project, in my femme-who-only-dates-butches opinion. i just discovered you here today (via facebook where the hot butches list link was posted) and would love to read more, including password protected stuff. please.

  35. MJ says:

    I would love to have the password for the protected posts

  36. Tracy says:

    I would love to have the password for the protected posts too

  37. rebecca says:

    i'm a real person. or so they say. here's a link to one of my writings.

    please pretty please give me the password..thanks rebecca

  38. Lauren says:

    This blog is just what I need in my life right now. Password, please?

  39. sefv says:

    you have my email and my website (myspace, same thing?) to prove my real personness. can i have the password for the protected posts please? i would also enjoy being added to the newsletter. thank you. and i love your website, its kind of awesome incase you didn't know.

  40. Pj says:

    Would like to be added to the mailing list, and also get the password for protected posts, please and thank you ^_^

  41. Alex says:

    hi, I think yours is one of the hottest most thoughtful things that Ive run across in a long time– I'd love to read what you are writing/thinking behind the password. Thank you for what you do.

  42. tamz says:

    Could I get the password please?

    Your writing's amazing. I'm still figuring out this whole gender thing, and your blog and your ideas are a whole new landscape of thinking. Thanks!

  43. Kitty T says:

    I'd love to receive the newsletter and get the password, please and thank you. :)

  44. Rachel says:

    Hey! My Femme sister let me on about your site. Whenever I'm having a particularly femme-phobic day, I love love reading your site. Thank you so much for creating such a soft space for us. <3

  45. A says:

    I'm not sure if I've commented before but I've been reading this blog for a while. It's great and you always have interesting insights on gender. Could you send me the password, please?

  46. Esmeralda Ceja says:


    I ran across your blog through SublimeFemme Unbound's blog and have been here for about four days straight reading your older posts…I would LOVE it if I could receive the password for your password protected blog postings! I hope you have a great vacation and am looking forward to more reading.


  47. Ruth says:

    May I have the password please?

    Your writing is fantastic!

  48. Carrie says:

    password please. I love your site and would like to read more :)

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