Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password
Posted on May 28, 2009 in colophon | 342 Comments
Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.
1. The Newsletter
The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at]gmail.com – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.
2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox
If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.
Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.
3. Password protected posts
The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.) Leave a comment in this thread with a valid email address and a link to your blog, your myspace, your facebook, or some other way to verify that you are a real person. If you ask for the password, I’ll also add you to The Newsletter mailing list.
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May 28th, 2009 @ 6:02 am
Hey
i would loe to be added to the mailing list and recieve the password for protected files. I've added aa link to my facebook account and i hope it is there right.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=...
May 28th, 2009 @ 6:04 am
a-hah! Requesting password; blog above.
May 28th, 2009 @ 6:19 am
Yes please! No site but twitter above.
May 28th, 2009 @ 7:30 am
i would like to be added to the mailing list and view password protected entries. a link to my facebook is above.
May 28th, 2009 @ 7:37 am
May I have the password please! :-)
May 28th, 2009 @ 7:51 am
Oh, I definitely want to be added to the password protected list and mailing list! I put left my facebook profile in the website box, but I'd like to think you know I'm a real person anyway. Though possibly I'm a cyborg… but that's altogether another matter!
May 28th, 2009 @ 7:53 am
Sinclair,
Would you kindly send me the password for your protected posts, prettyplease?
May 28th, 2009 @ 7:56 am
Ooo! The password! Password, please!
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:10 am
i'd love the password :) the website is my college's feminist blog, for which i am a blogger.
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:13 am
More smut? Yes! I'd like the password please, if you don't mind.
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:17 am
I would love to have the password for your protected posts. I've read all of your archive stuff and I lurve it. The link to my often neglected blog is above.
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:19 am
please, may i have the password?
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:23 am
I would love to read your password protected posts. I subscribe via RSS but wouldn't mind getting an email when you post a new blog.
Thanks!
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=...
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:24 am
I would very much like to read the password protected posts. Thank you!
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:51 am
I'd very much like to have the password please. My very boring blog about my very boring life (which really, I just use as an online journal) is linked. Thank you!
May 28th, 2009 @ 9:12 am
I'd love to have the password, and the newsletter as well. I linked my facebook. Thank you.:)
May 28th, 2009 @ 9:22 am
password please (:
May 28th, 2009 @ 10:15 am
I'd like to have the password, if you feel comfortable sharing it with me.
May 28th, 2009 @ 10:21 am
i'm a huge fan of this blog and i would love to be able to read all the posts. thanks so much.
-danielle
May 28th, 2009 @ 12:34 pm
I would like the password and the Newsletter :) I am also on Twitter as StacyCat :)
May 28th, 2009 @ 1:21 pm
I subscribe via RSS, with visits to the actual site now and again (the banners were my favorite part previously). I would adore the password to your protected posts.
Online blog linked above, which might in turn, have links to both a Myspace and Facebook.
Thanks!
May 28th, 2009 @ 2:03 pm
Love your site, and would enjoy checking out some of the passwordy stuff, as well as the newsletter!
to dot desci, gmail. (Is my 'internet' identity enough, or would you like my IRL details? Drop me a line if it's the latter.)
May 28th, 2009 @ 2:51 pm
Been following you ever since you were featured at Transcriptions in Boston. Really enjoy your work and would like to see more.
May 28th, 2009 @ 2:57 pm
I would love to have the password for your protected posts. I’m already subscribed to the Feed, so the newsletter isn’t neccesary. I linked my blog(although not in english). Thank you
May 28th, 2009 @ 3:09 pm
I love your blog and would be grateful for the opportunity to read more of your pieces.
May 28th, 2009 @ 3:32 pm
I would love to have that password.
May 28th, 2009 @ 3:43 pm
I'd love the password and to be on the mailing list.
May 28th, 2009 @ 3:49 pm
I would love to have the password, I think you have my email but I'm not sure it's picturelady1018@
May 28th, 2009 @ 4:08 pm
I would also love the password. Thank you. :)
May 28th, 2009 @ 4:30 pm
I would love to have the password, and to be added to the mailing list, and am happy to send you my real name if you send me an email.
(I am kind of in awe of all the people who write really personal things on the internet, you included. Thanks.)
May 28th, 2009 @ 4:31 pm
Your blog is great and I respect you opinions and thoughts. A password would be wonderful.
May 28th, 2009 @ 4:47 pm
I would love to have the password. Thank you very much for this and sharing the things that you do.
May 28th, 2009 @ 4:52 pm
I love your blog and would be grateful for the opportunity to read more of your Work.
May 28th, 2009 @ 5:35 pm
I'd love a password as well!
May 28th, 2009 @ 6:15 pm
I have the password, I would just like to be on the newsletter list as well.
May 28th, 2009 @ 8:15 pm
Please send me your password!! I would love to gain access for "behind the scenes!"
May 28th, 2009 @ 10:48 pm
Hi Sinclair, I'd like to be added to the mailing list and get a password. Thanks for your work.
May 29th, 2009 @ 1:15 am
Love to read you every morning while I am drinking my coffe and starting my day. Sorry no website.
May 29th, 2009 @ 1:55 am
I'd like the password, please, sir. And do let me know if you're up in Boston anytime soon – meeting (and flirting shamelessly with) you in NYC was a lot of fun.
May 29th, 2009 @ 3:25 am
Love everything you write! (And the site is a blog I contribute to…)
May 29th, 2009 @ 5:01 am
I'd love to get the password!
May 29th, 2009 @ 8:51 am
Would love to be added to the mailing lost and get a password. Thank you
May 29th, 2009 @ 9:17 am
Love your blog… would love to read the password entries. No website… I've tired of facebook and myspace (also, as a teacher it's not great for me to be that "out" with personal info)
May 29th, 2009 @ 10:30 am
I too love reading your blog and would love to read the password protected entries as well. I hereby solemnly promise that I am a real person, and by myspace is attached for further verification. ;-)
May 29th, 2009 @ 10:30 am
I guess we all want to read the password-protected posts! I'd like the password, too; thanks!
May 29th, 2009 @ 12:02 pm
Though I am certainly not deserving of that honour, I bow down to my desire to read more…. hear me beg for the divine password!
May 29th, 2009 @ 1:42 pm
I would love the password! Click my name to find my blog :)
May 29th, 2009 @ 6:41 pm
Okay, I don't have a website, facebook page, or any other online way to prove who I am, because I'm a bit of a philistine, obviously, although not a luddite, I swear. Just limited in terms of what, as a new parent, I can spend my time on. But, if you google my name, or my other last name, Tuomi, you'll see that I've been a writer of entertainment, lesbian and international development stuff for quite a few years. I'd love a password.
May 29th, 2009 @ 7:01 pm
Long time reader/fan, first time commenter. but i'm starting to feel left out of the password-protected posts. this is me. password, please.
May 29th, 2009 @ 7:53 pm
Facebook link above. I'd love to be able to read the rest of what you've written– I've enjoyed all I've read so far.
May 30th, 2009 @ 2:07 am
Hope it's not too late!
Many Thanks!
May 30th, 2009 @ 7:32 am
I would like added to the mailing list and would like to read the password protected entries, if i could.
May 30th, 2009 @ 8:15 am
I'm a real person and I'd love to have the password. Thanks.
May 30th, 2009 @ 9:20 am
Password, please! :)
May 30th, 2009 @ 10:25 am
Im a real person and would really like the password.
May 30th, 2009 @ 5:32 pm
I'm a femme in the buckle of the Bible Belt, and I have been enjoying your writing project for almost a year now. I just gave in and made a Facebook page tonight, and now I guess I can prove I am a real person! I would like the password for protected posts, and I would love getting a newsletter, too. Hope I linked it correctly. Still kind of web-illiterate.
May 30th, 2009 @ 6:18 pm
password please!!!!
May 30th, 2009 @ 6:24 pm
I would love to read the password protected entries!
May 30th, 2009 @ 8:48 pm
i would like to have the password, please! thank you!
May 30th, 2009 @ 10:20 pm
hey im a real person too and i would love to have the password for the protected entries. thanks.
May 31st, 2009 @ 8:04 am
i'd love the password…
May 31st, 2009 @ 11:06 am
MUST have password! ;-)
May 31st, 2009 @ 12:03 pm
i'm a real person :) and would like a password :)
May 31st, 2009 @ 12:27 pm
i've been reading your blog f or ages and i'd love to have the password! your writing is beautiful. i'd give you my facebook but unfortunately it's not publicly viewable, so i hope this is enough to convince you that i'm real!
May 31st, 2009 @ 12:51 pm
hey great blog
May 31st, 2009 @ 4:48 pm
I would like the password, please.
May 31st, 2009 @ 9:26 pm
Password? :)
June 1st, 2009 @ 3:09 am
would be grateful if i could read the password protected entries. i do not have a myspace or a facebook account – but i am real!! :)
June 1st, 2009 @ 7:22 am
I would love to get the newsletter and the password. Thank you! <3
June 1st, 2009 @ 3:10 pm
could i get the password as well?
June 1st, 2009 @ 5:48 pm
email list and password protected posts, please?
I wish for just a smidge of the polish and nuance I see in your writing to appear in my own – gorgeous stuff, thanks, always, for sharing.
June 2nd, 2009 @ 12:29 am
Thanks so much!
June 2nd, 2009 @ 7:52 pm
Sinclair, your writing takes my breath away… may I please have the password?
June 3rd, 2009 @ 5:07 am
I love reading your blog and would greatly appreciate the password! Here is a link to my facebook (though i don't know if it will work).
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=...
June 3rd, 2009 @ 8:49 am
Hi, could I have the password for protected posts please?
June 3rd, 2009 @ 4:21 pm
Hey, could I have the pw for the protected posts please? Thanks!
June 4th, 2009 @ 4:55 pm
Hey! I’d love to be added to your monthly newsletter.
June 4th, 2009 @ 6:27 pm
I'm a real person, but don't have a blog. any chance I could get a pw?
June 8th, 2009 @ 9:26 am
Password please! I left a link to my website and you have my email now. :)
June 9th, 2009 @ 9:16 am
hello sinclair,
I have recently discovered your blog and I absolutely love it -your writing is among the very best lesbian erotica I’ve read. thank you. and keep up the good work!
oh, could I please have the password for the protected entries too?
June 12th, 2009 @ 9:04 pm
The password! The newsletter! Everything! Now! (Please.)
June 13th, 2009 @ 2:00 pm
Password please!
June 17th, 2009 @ 3:17 pm
this real person would love the password, please.
June 20th, 2009 @ 11:54 pm
I've recently started following your story, and think your writing is exceptional. I'm a real person (even if I don't have a facebook profile or a blog) – please could I have the password to the protected entries?
June 21st, 2009 @ 12:59 am
password? please? i love your site.
June 22nd, 2009 @ 6:45 pm
thank you so much for brightening my day with pics of hot butches etc! what a great antidote to a tense family dinner, and a great project, in my femme-who-only-dates-butches opinion. i just discovered you here today (via facebook where the hot butches list link was posted) and would love to read more, including password protected stuff. please.
June 26th, 2009 @ 4:47 am
I would love to have the password for the protected posts
June 26th, 2009 @ 3:26 pm
I would love to have the password for the protected posts too
June 29th, 2009 @ 7:07 am
i'm a real person. or so they say. here's a link to one of my writings.
please pretty please give me the password..thanks rebecca
June 30th, 2009 @ 8:22 pm
This blog is just what I need in my life right now. Password, please?
July 2nd, 2009 @ 10:33 am
you have my email and my website (myspace, same thing?) to prove my real personness. can i have the password for the protected posts please? i would also enjoy being added to the newsletter. thank you. and i love your website, its kind of awesome incase you didn't know.
July 3rd, 2009 @ 12:40 pm
Would like to be added to the mailing list, and also get the password for protected posts, please and thank you ^_^
July 3rd, 2009 @ 4:44 pm
hi, I think yours is one of the hottest most thoughtful things that Ive run across in a long time– I'd love to read what you are writing/thinking behind the password. Thank you for what you do.
July 3rd, 2009 @ 7:22 pm
Could I get the password please?
Your writing's amazing. I'm still figuring out this whole gender thing, and your blog and your ideas are a whole new landscape of thinking. Thanks!
July 6th, 2009 @ 11:41 am
I'd love to receive the newsletter and get the password, please and thank you. :)
July 7th, 2009 @ 12:25 pm
Hey! My Femme sister let me on about your site. Whenever I'm having a particularly femme-phobic day, I love love reading your site. Thank you so much for creating such a soft space for us. <3
July 7th, 2009 @ 2:58 pm
I'm not sure if I've commented before but I've been reading this blog for a while. It's great and you always have interesting insights on gender. Could you send me the password, please?
July 10th, 2009 @ 11:41 am
Hello,
I ran across your blog through SublimeFemme Unbound's blog and have been here for about four days straight reading your older posts…I would LOVE it if I could receive the password for your password protected blog postings! I hope you have a great vacation and am looking forward to more reading.
~Esmeralda
July 15th, 2009 @ 11:49 am
May I have the password please?
Your writing is fantastic!
July 16th, 2009 @ 5:41 am
password please. I love your site and would like to read more :)
July 16th, 2009 @ 10:59 am
very much a real person (last i checked). password please. thanks
July 20th, 2009 @ 3:39 pm
found your blog through the 100 top butches list; i'd love access to your password-protected posts–the stuff out in public is incredibly hot.
July 21st, 2009 @ 10:19 am
Well, looks like I'm real enough to be terribly fascinated by your writing…looking forward to receiving the password. Please ^_^
July 22nd, 2009 @ 12:03 pm
http://www.facebook.com/frances.felske
Definitely a real person, loving your blog…definitely shouldn’t be reading this at work, but I can’t seem to help myself! ;-)
July 22nd, 2009 @ 9:24 pm
I have (alternately) jerked off and cried to your writing. Wow. Thank you for being here.
July 26th, 2009 @ 7:54 am
i'd like access to the password! Thank you.
July 27th, 2009 @ 5:49 pm
I can't help accessing your website on regular basis, I follow you on twitter but it isn't enough! would love password….
I do have facebook, but it is very very hard to get to my page, but I think that is my personal fb page..
thank you!
July 29th, 2009 @ 4:30 am
I would like the password for the protected entries and to be added to the mailing list. In the mean time, I'll read through the archives. Thanks.
July 29th, 2009 @ 6:03 am
password please
already subscribed to news letter thanks!
July 29th, 2009 @ 9:50 am
reading ure blog now since some days – love it!
would love to get access to the restricted password posts.
and yes, i'm a real person. kinda. sometimes. well, most of the time.
July 29th, 2009 @ 10:56 am
All I gots is a facebook page. Can I have to password gatekeeper???
July 29th, 2009 @ 6:31 pm
Hey,
you actually follow me on twitter already, and i believe on tumblr. i'm enjoying getting to know your writing, and if you're still giving out that password i'd love to read more. thanks for the great stuff!
July 29th, 2009 @ 9:26 pm
recently joined the mailing lists. cant get enough. can i please have the password? :)
July 31st, 2009 @ 6:00 pm
wow. newly Out this year and I think I've dove straight into the deep end. Loving this. Password for more?
August 2nd, 2009 @ 6:03 pm
hi there! i love your site and would love the password to the protected posts! i don't have a blog or anything, but i am definitely a real person! in fact, i heard you read at happy ending lounge in june and thought you were amazing!!!
August 10th, 2009 @ 8:58 am
I LOVE reading your blogs and articles…may I have the password, please? I want more…
August 13th, 2009 @ 10:36 am
Please send along your password. Thank you!
As for evidence of being a real person, here I am on LinkedIn
http://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstinleiby
August 18th, 2009 @ 3:44 pm
Here's my blog, I'd love the password.
Thanks!
August 21st, 2009 @ 8:55 am
Hi, here is my myspace, http://profile.myspace.com/215192871. i love your articles. Looking forward to more. Thanks, Jaclyn
August 22nd, 2009 @ 7:41 am
Please send along the password so I can get more Sugarbutch.
cheers,
J
August 23rd, 2009 @ 5:34 am
hi, found your blog via dorothysurrenders. Please may I have the password? Thanks in advance!
August 24th, 2009 @ 3:45 pm
I'd really like the password. I've been reading this site for over a year but somehow have resisted asking for the password… can't take it anymore!
Thanks and keep up the GREAT work!
August 24th, 2009 @ 6:26 pm
Password please. Thanks for making these conversations available online. Much appreciated.
August 25th, 2009 @ 2:06 am
Stumbled onto your site a while back and have been reading pretty regularly ever since. Could you please provide me with the password for the protected posts and sign me up for the newsletter? Thanks!
August 25th, 2009 @ 3:44 am
Can i have the password? Pretty please? <3
August 25th, 2009 @ 3:46 am
i would love the password protected posts!
August 25th, 2009 @ 8:15 am
please send me the password
August 25th, 2009 @ 10:23 am
can i have the password to the password protected posts, please?
thanks!
August 25th, 2009 @ 11:51 am
I'd like to get the password to view your protected blogs. Found you via Butch-Femme Clubheaven group, and 100 hot top butches…your blog is great! From a femme, lesbian, bottom, kinky Seattle-ite. Alisa
I'm on facebook under my own name, too.
August 25th, 2009 @ 2:25 pm
I would love access to the password protected posts, please :)
August 27th, 2009 @ 10:09 am
Hi,
I'm not a myspacer, or tweeter – however, I am a facebooker but didn't want to post the link here, I would give it in an email though. I'm most certainly a real person, flawed and all.
I stumbled upon this blog by accident, and I could say a lot – but I'm just supposed to leave a comment- Soo…I'll say that I'm not typically a blog reader, but there is something about this blog and your writing that keeps me checking it everyday for anything new you have to say.
With that said, I'd love to have the protected password.
Thanks
August 30th, 2009 @ 4:14 pm
I have been reading your blog for a while. May I have the password to your protected posts?
Cheers,
Kathrin
August 30th, 2009 @ 8:42 pm
Hi would love to read more. If you search FB for my name, you will find me!
Barbs
September 1st, 2009 @ 7:43 pm
Could I please have your password? :D
And this is to verify that I am a human and lesbian flavored-
http://www.myspace.com/extraspecialmo
Thank you very much.
September 2nd, 2009 @ 3:34 am
would love the password. i'm already on the newsletter. thanks for sharing.
September 5th, 2009 @ 9:51 am
so in love with your site. password pretty please
September 5th, 2009 @ 6:18 pm
I love this site and would like to see it for all it has to offer.
The password would be awesome!
Thank you
September 7th, 2009 @ 2:30 am
I've been googling all day, not knowing exactly what I was looking for, and now I've found it. Having the password would be rad; thanks in advance :)
Twitter enclosed.
September 7th, 2009 @ 5:24 am
Ahoy! Stumbled across you by accident, very rapidly became addicted. You are now my required reading and I live for the new posts. Been working my way back through the archives too. I am indeed a real person! May I pretty please with sugar and kisses on top, have the password to the protected posts? Enter my email address into Facebook to check that I am a real person! Or you can find me on MySpace (although I rarely use it these days) http://www.myspace.com/land_of_llama
Cheers
A. xo
September 8th, 2009 @ 4:28 pm
Would also love to have the password and be added to the newsletter. Thanks!
September 11th, 2009 @ 3:43 am
Thanks in advance for sending along the password..
http://www.myspace.com/florareed
September 11th, 2009 @ 7:55 am
Finding your site has been an inspiration. You’ve created a beautiful work of art exploring your feminist sexuality and perspectives on gender dynamics. I aspire to do something similar, as a mostly-heterosexual, kinky, submissive feminist, who is both attracted to and repulsed by porn that degrades women, and men who get off on that porn. My site is http://www.feministpornographer.com
I would love to get the password. My subject matter, at times, is dark, difficult to reveal and vulnerable. I believe my thinking would be well informed by your exploration of dark kinks and experiences.
September 15th, 2009 @ 12:07 am
I love your writing. Both the beauty and wonder of when you're describing your sexual experiences, and identifying with the pain of your emotional experiences. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with a complete stranger, and I hope I'm worthy of sharing your password with.
September 17th, 2009 @ 6:09 pm
not sure how to prove i am real *and* velveteen. i don't use any social networking sites… yet? i would love a password to read some more, but i'm not sure how else to prove real-ness~
September 18th, 2009 @ 10:21 am
I love being a witness to this part of your life. It makes me more courageous, more bold, and considerably more aroused, and I think I'm finally ready to ask for the password. Feel free to look up my email address on facebook. Thank you, thank you for sharing yourself with us. More please!
September 18th, 2009 @ 11:46 am
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/estuef/pictures/
The OkC profile shows a far more *real* me than the other social networking sites do, and gets significantly more use.
Thank you for sharing such wonderful writing and insight.
September 18th, 2009 @ 2:42 pm
so glad I found you! I have no website, facebook or myspace…and I am real! If you are still willing to send me a password, it would be much appreciated.
Peace,
S.
September 18th, 2009 @ 5:12 pm
Hey, just found your website and have been sitting and reading for almost 3 hours now. Thank you for answering some of the questions I didn't even know I had about my own identity.
I'd love the password and to be added to the newsletter.
September 18th, 2009 @ 6:10 pm
would love to have a password. myspace: techgadget_junky
September 18th, 2009 @ 8:27 pm
I'd like a password, please.
September 19th, 2009 @ 5:22 pm
Could you please send me the password?
September 20th, 2009 @ 4:21 pm
Please send the password!! Thanks.
September 20th, 2009 @ 5:06 pm
I'm a real person and I would love the password and to be added to the newsletter. Although my FB page is rather private, you should be able to tell that I exist.
I've been enjoying your blog for a while.
Thanks.
September 20th, 2009 @ 6:27 pm
Your writings are my favorite reason to check my RSS reader or Tumblr. I'd love to have access to the ones I'm missing. Thank you for all that you share online. Sometimes it seems that your posts are putting words to conversations I was just hoping I could have. Refreshing, honest, articulate. Check my website or blogs to verify my existence :)
Twitter.com/alexislyon
alexislyon.Tumblr.com
alexislyon.Posterous.com
September 20th, 2009 @ 6:53 pm
Just discovered this blog and so very delighted about it. I'd love a password. Myspace: http://www.myspace.com/chrissalis .
September 22nd, 2009 @ 11:08 am
I'm a real person and am interested in reading some of these password protected posts. Thank you for sharing all that you do.
September 22nd, 2009 @ 2:36 pm
I'd love a password. Thanks!
September 24th, 2009 @ 3:43 am
Hi – love your blog. Thanks.
September 24th, 2009 @ 7:07 am
Hi, I love your blog. Can I have the password?
September 25th, 2009 @ 7:07 pm
Password would be great, thanks
September 27th, 2009 @ 7:29 am
I just found your blog and can't wait to read the rest! I would love to get the password.
Tumblr: http://throughbackyards.tumblr.com/
September 29th, 2009 @ 3:14 pm
Hi, I don't do Facebook, MySpace, or a blog, but I am indeed a real (butch) person who would love to read the password-protected posts. Thank you for sharing so much of your life on this site!
September 30th, 2009 @ 1:37 pm
I've been following you for a while; would love to have the password. Thanks!
October 2nd, 2009 @ 11:11 am
Hi Sinclair, May I please have the password? I've been reading your blog for the last year and I love it. You're an amazing wrtiter and you've helped me a lot with becoming more comfortable with my femme side. I don't have a blog or myspace, I do have a facebook page, but it's hard to get to. Any other way I can convince you I'm a real person?
October 3rd, 2009 @ 9:31 pm
Hello! I love your blog and would be sincerely appreciative of the password however the only personal site I have on the internet is the website I'm building for my Web Tech class, and that currently has my homework on it. Is that good enough to prove I'm real? Thank you!
October 4th, 2009 @ 5:20 pm
I'm a new reader of this blog and I would indeed appreciate access to the password protected part of it. As my own blog posts are almost exclusively lesbian orientated, I find this page an often interesting and sometimes instructive read. I think a quick look at my blog ought to prove something. What, I'll leave up to you. Thanks … in advance.
October 5th, 2009 @ 2:59 pm
I enjoy reading your blog and would absolutely love the password.
October 7th, 2009 @ 9:47 am
Hello, I would absolutely love the password to your darker/deeper posts, with a cherry on top. Please?
October 10th, 2009 @ 6:58 am
I would like to have the password to the inner workings of your mind. Thanks!
October 13th, 2009 @ 3:14 pm
i am a real person too and would love the password. thank you for sharing!
October 16th, 2009 @ 3:14 am
I don't have a page to share because of my work, but I have pictures I would personally send to you to prove that I am a real person. I would be extremely happy if you would share the password with me. I have been following your blog for a long time. Thanks!
October 17th, 2009 @ 5:09 pm
I'd like the password; i'm engaged in a lot of gender contemplation and i enjoy reading your thoughts.
October 19th, 2009 @ 10:49 am
Hey Sinclair,
I would love to be able to read some of your deeper posts. Can I have the password?
October 20th, 2009 @ 9:36 am
Hi Sinclair,
I’ve been reading your blog for awhile and I’ve also seen you read twice at Bluestockings in New York, most recently at the feminist sex panel last week (I LOVED your piece). I would love to have the password for your other posts. You can find me as a fan of Bluestockings on Facebook, I believe!
October 20th, 2009 @ 1:05 pm
you can me verify me through either facebook at above name or On butch-femme.com here http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/member.p...
password request thank you
October 21st, 2009 @ 11:10 am
I'm afraid the password was filtered out into my junk email and deleted. Would you please send it again? Thank you.
October 21st, 2009 @ 3:24 pm
Hey, Sinclair!
I'm a real person, most of the time, learning a lot from your blog. (Thank you.) May I have the password for the other posts, too?
October 21st, 2009 @ 4:58 pm
Hi
I would love your password and I am a real person…I can personally email you my link or pics to prove it :) please?
October 22nd, 2009 @ 5:42 am
You bet — the links are in the sidebar on the right-hand side, under the 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar button. One says "Sugarbutch on Carnal Nation" and then there are three images underneath with the three major articles I've written for them, Radical Masculinity column #1, Queer Books Saved My Life, & the Lambda Lit Awards roundup. The others in that long list of mine are all "Perv Panels," where I answer a question sent in by a reader, so those are the three that are important.
October 22nd, 2009 @ 4:15 pm
Please send password! Gracias
October 23rd, 2009 @ 6:01 pm
I'm a real person, incredibly touched and turned on by everything I've read. Password request.
October 24th, 2009 @ 6:56 pm
Hola Sinclair,
Password me please. Gracias!
October 25th, 2009 @ 12:59 am
password, please.
merci.
October 26th, 2009 @ 8:51 am
Hi Sinclair,
I'd love the password, and I'm a real person, but not a very techie person…so I hope this is what you want… http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/jo.halstead1?r...
October 26th, 2009 @ 2:32 pm
would love to receive password et al.
real person, with really not updated blog: http://www.kateokeson.com
November 1st, 2009 @ 6:58 pm
hi. i would like the password, etc.
creative writing blog, updated less & less.
love your work–good quality, sexy writing.
November 2nd, 2009 @ 6:05 pm
Hey,
I'm a student getting into sex writing and your blog is so inspirational! In fact, you'll be coming to speak at my school soon (at Conversio Virium) and I'm familiarizing myself with your work. May I please have the password so that I can read your blog chronologically?
Here's my facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1084470544...
November 6th, 2009 @ 2:15 am
I would really enjoy the password to you blogs. However I do not have time due to my busy schedule to keep up with a blog, fb page, or myspace. I barely have time to do anything but I seem to always find time to read your blog. I can assure that I am a real person though!!
November 6th, 2009 @ 5:23 am
Sinclair,
I love your blog. You certainly know how to hold a woman's interest. I would love to read the password protected entries also. Thank you and keep up the great writing.
XXXOOO
Melissa
November 14th, 2009 @ 5:09 am
Hello.
I would love a chance to read the password protected stuff. And please, newsletter me.
Thank you,
N.
November 14th, 2009 @ 12:38 pm
You sent me a password for the protected posts a long time ago. Do I need to ask again?
November 15th, 2009 @ 12:20 am
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?ref=profile&a...
Password, please!
November 15th, 2009 @ 4:47 am
I'm so glad to have found your blog!
November 17th, 2009 @ 4:25 pm
love your blog, could i get the password pls?
November 23rd, 2009 @ 12:25 am
Hello, Sinclair
You write beautifully, and I would love to know the password to access your protected posts.
Thanks so much,
Dawn
November 23rd, 2009 @ 3:32 pm
i love your writing and i live for femmes! i would love to have the password also. thanks.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?re...
November 28th, 2009 @ 4:49 pm
Hi Sinclair, I love your work and would like to request the password/add to the mailing list. Hope a link to my livejournal counts. Thanks!
November 29th, 2009 @ 4:06 pm
I'd love a password also. :)
December 1st, 2009 @ 12:43 pm
Hey, your writing is awesome and I'd love to have the password so I can read more!
Newslette me, too, please. :)
December 3rd, 2009 @ 9:55 pm
Would love the password to your secret writings. Yum!
December 8th, 2009 @ 5:25 am
real butch.. lol.. I'd like the password please, if you don't mind giving it to an old and grey leatherdyke from the uk? Thanks….
December 9th, 2009 @ 3:24 pm
I'd like the password please!
December 11th, 2009 @ 5:34 am
I just started following your blog a few weeks ago, and would love love love the password for your protected posts. I don't have a website or myspace, but I do have facebook? For years and years I have been thinking about radicalizing by butch/boi masculinity; and I have been thoroughly enjoying your writing thus far, which is why I'd love to read some of your more personal posts! Thanks.
December 11th, 2009 @ 8:07 am
I'd like to be added, please. Password, too : O)
December 14th, 2009 @ 3:15 am
Hello. I would also like the password please.
December 14th, 2009 @ 12:27 pm
I would love to have the password. Your site is a phenomenal growth tool for learning about gender, and I'm addicted. =)
December 17th, 2009 @ 7:37 am
Hey,
I would love the password. I've really enjoyed reading this blog over the last few months, and it has opened my eyes to aspects of gender and sex that I had never thought about.
December 17th, 2009 @ 2:44 pm
Love the blog.. and I'd love to read password protected posts, as well! Thanks for writing…
December 21st, 2009 @ 2:10 am
Could I please have the password? I am a real person.
December 22nd, 2009 @ 1:32 pm
Hey,
I would also love the password. I quite enjoy your blog!
December 22nd, 2009 @ 1:51 pm
I had the password at one time & now I don't!
May I have again, please?
Thanks much,
Shelly
December 22nd, 2009 @ 1:54 pm
Hey
Would love to have the password to the protected posts. Love the blog, of course.
-Adisson
December 22nd, 2009 @ 2:21 pm
I love your blog, and I would love to have the password. :)
December 22nd, 2009 @ 2:48 pm
Password please :)
http://www.facebook.com/#/Rina.Wren?ref=name <– proof of my realness
December 22nd, 2009 @ 4:07 pm
Password please. :)
December 22nd, 2009 @ 4:41 pm
I'm so glad I found this blog…it's wonderful. I would indeed like the password, please :)
December 22nd, 2009 @ 11:02 pm
i have really been enjoying your blog, & i'd love to be able to see the password protected entries. you have the hottest writing on the internet.
December 23rd, 2009 @ 3:28 am
password, yes, password
December 23rd, 2009 @ 6:09 am
I would like the password please. I love your blog.
December 23rd, 2009 @ 6:34 am
I'd like the password, please!
December 23rd, 2009 @ 6:43 am
i would love the password. your posts keep me thinking and entertained ;-)
December 23rd, 2009 @ 9:31 am
I would thoroughly enjoy the password if you would be so obliged :]
December 23rd, 2009 @ 10:56 am
Love the blog :), can I please have the password.
December 23rd, 2009 @ 11:20 am
Hi, I love your blog and would like to read the password protected posts. Here is a link to my Facebook page:
http://www.facebook.com/adinakatz
December 23rd, 2009 @ 12:06 pm
I’d like the password, please. I love your blog!
December 23rd, 2009 @ 3:38 pm
Hey! Fantastic blog. I’d love to have the password to delve deeper into it. Thanks!
December 23rd, 2009 @ 3:49 pm
I'd love to have the password, when you get a chance.
December 23rd, 2009 @ 7:49 pm
I'd like to request the password as well… Love your blog, keep up the great work!
December 23rd, 2009 @ 8:31 pm
I enjoy reading your blog and would like the password please.
Thank you
December 24th, 2009 @ 12:44 pm
I would also love to have the password. Thanks!
December 24th, 2009 @ 9:15 pm
I'd love to get a password, if that's alright. Thanks!
December 26th, 2009 @ 12:17 pm
i'd like to receive the password, please!
December 27th, 2009 @ 12:40 am
I'd love to be added to both the mailing list and to receive the password to the protected posts. Thank you for your words and thoughts – they're a delight when they cross my way.
December 28th, 2009 @ 11:53 am
I'd love the password, if possible. :)
December 28th, 2009 @ 2:44 pm
might I have the password please…
December 29th, 2009 @ 2:13 pm
I'd love the password pretty please.
x
December 29th, 2009 @ 6:58 pm
Would love the password, please.
December 30th, 2009 @ 5:28 am
Huge fan of your blog and your writing, Ive been reading here for the past couple of months now! It'd be great if I could have the password, pretty please? Thanks :)
December 30th, 2009 @ 10:21 am
I’m already on your mailing list, but need the password. Thanks!
December 30th, 2009 @ 2:38 pm
I'd love the password.
Please.
and Thank you!
December 31st, 2009 @ 2:39 pm
I would love to read all of your blog posts, so a password would help with that! Much admiration from the Dirty South!
December 31st, 2009 @ 5:15 pm
I would like the password. happy new year.
December 31st, 2009 @ 8:08 pm
Please send the password to my email address. Love your work.
Thanks,
Kh
January 1st, 2010 @ 2:42 am
Password please. Happy New Year.
January 1st, 2010 @ 11:01 pm
password plz!, thank you!
January 2nd, 2010 @ 2:37 pm
Getting a password would be one nice way to start 2010!
January 3rd, 2010 @ 8:13 am
I really enjoy reading your blog so I'd love the password too. Thanks :)
January 3rd, 2010 @ 8:21 am
I would just love the password..
Thank you.
January 3rd, 2010 @ 11:37 am
I would enjoy learning more about butch/femme ~ among other things….
password please?
thanks!
January 3rd, 2010 @ 9:57 pm
Hello! Long time reader, but I've always been too shy/lazy to ask for the password. So, I'm finally asking, pretty please! Also, feel free to add me on Facebook if you'd like. Thanks!
January 3rd, 2010 @ 10:13 pm
password please ?
January 4th, 2010 @ 5:21 am
I am a real person.
http://www.facebook.com/denise.rene.taylor?ref=pr...
January 4th, 2010 @ 6:42 am
I have no website,facebook,etc. but would appreciate the password. Reading your site has helped me embrace and accept my butch genderqueer self. I now understand myself . P.S. My beautiful femme of 20 years is also greatful.
January 4th, 2010 @ 8:23 am
I love your blog. Can I get the password for the password protected posts please?
January 4th, 2010 @ 8:58 am
http://www.facebook.com/elisabethmlong
Thanks! :)
January 4th, 2010 @ 11:25 am
Hi, we've exchanged emails once before. I'd love the password to your protected posts, as the relationship between bdsm, feminism and gender presentation is something I think about a lot from the femme sub side.
January 4th, 2010 @ 1:05 pm
May I have the password? Pretty please???
January 4th, 2010 @ 1:43 pm
can has password?
January 4th, 2010 @ 1:55 pm
Password please! Linking to facebook the only way I could figure out how….
http://en-gb.facebook.com/people/Anastasia-Gunn-R...
January 4th, 2010 @ 10:20 pm
hi, love reading your posts and would love the password. my tumblr is kind of weird, but i promise that i'm a human.
January 5th, 2010 @ 4:36 am
I've been a reader/fan for a very long time. Can I please have the password? I don't have a blog of my own YET- but I think this will be my year.
I am a real person. Thank you for all of your work on this blog.
January 5th, 2010 @ 4:46 am
I'd like the password.:o)
January 5th, 2010 @ 11:00 am
I'm a real person!!
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?ref=profile&a...
January 5th, 2010 @ 12:03 pm
Would LOVE the password. Can't wait to start reading. :)
January 5th, 2010 @ 2:35 pm
I've loved reading your stuff for a few years now & enjoyed a number of the stories, but never bothered with the more private posts.. but now I'm curious about a few! ;)
I don't have facebook or anything, just email. I hope that's ok.
Password please?
xxo,
Arienne
January 5th, 2010 @ 6:11 pm
Would love the password…thanks ;)
January 5th, 2010 @ 6:33 pm
I am a real person, though I don't have a facebook account, or a myspace account.
I do have a fetlife account. I'm sully69. Will that get me the password?
January 6th, 2010 @ 12:25 am
Am a real person, would love the password. x
http://www.facebook.com/nicola.gleeson
January 6th, 2010 @ 5:28 am
I am a real person too. Thank you :)
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?ref=profile&a...
January 6th, 2010 @ 12:25 pm
I'm a real person too, just not much of a facebook one. Does this work for proof?
http://www.digiromp.com/profile/JennSerano
January 6th, 2010 @ 1:57 pm
love your blog…it inspires me. please send the passwords for the protected posts. thanks.
January 6th, 2010 @ 3:53 pm
I'd like to get the password, too, please!
January 6th, 2010 @ 4:55 pm
hey, cant stop reading you! Do want more hehe :)
January 7th, 2010 @ 8:42 am
password please?
have left website link as proof of real personhood.
January 7th, 2010 @ 11:55 am
i'm real!! :) password please?
January 8th, 2010 @ 4:26 am
been trying to comment, but it hasn't been working – apologies if this is a multiple post! am fascinated by your writing (though from the opposite point of view…) and would love to read more. may i have the password?
link here: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6802701&am...
January 8th, 2010 @ 11:30 am
Just started to read and love your writing style. Would be thrilled to read the newsletter & the password-protected posts.
Real-person credentials above.
January 8th, 2010 @ 3:04 pm
my comment on 1/7 was approved, but i have not received a email containing the password…did i do something incorrectly? :)
January 8th, 2010 @ 9:36 pm
I would love a password!! my facebook is http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/keelia.murphy?...
January 9th, 2010 @ 8:40 pm
Hi, a password would be lovely. Your writing, especially on d/s, is helpful as I'm going through the process of figuring some of this out in my own life.
http://www.facebook.com/#/profile.php?ref=profile...
January 9th, 2010 @ 9:01 pm
Password? I heard you speak a few weeks ago – it was wonderful. I'm real. I promise.
January 10th, 2010 @ 4:48 pm
Could I get the password please? Thanks.
January 10th, 2010 @ 6:49 pm
Password please? I have read so many wonderful things that have really hit home with some of the issues I have been working through recently.
January 10th, 2010 @ 8:43 pm
may i have the password please? real email from my real personness above; you can also try http://tinyurl.com/ycwkugn. :) thanks!
January 11th, 2010 @ 8:09 am
May I have the password for protected posts?
Thank You!
January 11th, 2010 @ 11:34 am
Could I have the password? Thanks!
http://www.facebook.com/danielle.sherman?ref=name
January 12th, 2010 @ 3:53 pm
A friend just linked me to your site and said that you were her new blogger crush. Reading your posts, I can see why. I'd love the password and Newsletter, please!
January 12th, 2010 @ 5:25 pm
Could i please have the password?
January 13th, 2010 @ 8:59 am
Password please?
http://www.facebook.com/#/profile.php?ref=profile...
January 13th, 2010 @ 7:41 pm
I love your blog and cant wait to read the password protected posts! Can I have the password please?
http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#/profile.php?re...
January 14th, 2010 @ 7:52 am
http://www.livejournal.com/users/museumfreak
http://www.facebook.com/katherinemancuso
http://www.linkedin.com/in/kathymancuso
http://twitter.com/musingvirtual
I'm real :-)
January 14th, 2010 @ 8:34 am
i too am a real person. well. okay. i'm a real enough person to read about freewill and wonder whether the absence of freewill makes me a real person. okay. that's my last comment about freewill and predetermination. honest. unless i'm predestined to say another one.
January 15th, 2010 @ 3:34 am
I've never had a myspace or facebook. I've been reading here for at least a year and am very curious about the protected posts, though. Email me if you're going to give me the password or not. I'll prove myself for it.
January 17th, 2010 @ 2:11 am
Your smut is thought-provoking and your gender theory musings are hot. Password, please.
facebook: di couz
Thanks for writing.
January 17th, 2010 @ 3:28 am
Everything I read here is a heady mix of smart, dirty, compelling, and fascinating. I have been tempted to go through the archives and read from the beginning, and I'd love to see everything that's available to be read. Thanks!
January 18th, 2010 @ 3:08 pm
I've been lurking here for awhile now, and really enjoying everything you've written. I'd love to be able to read the password protected stuff, too. Also, I am a real person: http://www.facebook.com/chrematisai?ref=name
Thanks!
January 22nd, 2010 @ 6:50 pm
I'd like the password, please. This never used twitter account is the best I can do.
January 24th, 2010 @ 12:51 pm
Hi there! Very much a real femme lady. I've been enjoying reading your entries very much. It's given me a wonderful insight into the mind of a butch. I have a blog on Live Journal under the name cherishedfemme if you want to check it out. All I mostly do is ramble about how much love my own sweet butch. Here's a handy link. I always welcome new friends.
http://cherishedfemme.livejournal.com/
January 24th, 2010 @ 1:47 pm
Hey,
I’ve got no website, myspace etc., but I really love your writing and would love even more to get the password – and I’m reallyreallyreally real!
Femmy thanks from Germany!
Annie
January 25th, 2010 @ 4:56 pm
Password, please?
Thanks!
January 26th, 2010 @ 3:02 pm
I'm a real person, promise! Passwork please?
January 28th, 2010 @ 8:24 pm
superrealinthefleshand1s&0s.
February 1st, 2010 @ 4:34 pm
password pleeeease?
February 6th, 2010 @ 4:57 pm
I'm very much a real person who is interested in getting the password.
http://www.facebook.com/MiiruFae
February 7th, 2010 @ 10:27 am
hi. i do have facebook. wouid love to add you. please give me the pass word, i love reading everything you write about, especialy your erotic stories. x
February 15th, 2010 @ 8:26 am
Password for protected posts, please?
February 15th, 2010 @ 7:27 pm
Love what I’m reading. Password please.
February 16th, 2010 @ 4:57 am
curiosity has gotten the best of me. password please?
February 16th, 2010 @ 3:43 pm
hiya
I love your writing, please password me?
F
February 17th, 2010 @ 11:02 am
I like. Password please.
February 18th, 2010 @ 5:55 pm
Please add me to your email and password protected list.
February 20th, 2010 @ 11:23 am
i've been added to the email list. but no passwords info has come my way. i'm dying from suspense…
February 23rd, 2010 @ 7:51 pm
"pass me the word thanks"
March 3rd, 2010 @ 9:13 am
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/profile.php?i…
Password please
March 5th, 2010 @ 5:51 am
Password request :-)
March 6th, 2010 @ 7:23 pm
Love your writing! May I have the password please?
Facebook profile:
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?v=photos&...
March 12th, 2010 @ 8:19 pm
May I have the password, please, sir?
March 13th, 2010 @ 7:49 am
See…I'm really really real. This is my first visit to your site. Looking forward to spending some time amidst the Chronicles. http://www.facebook.com/people/Tracy-Papachristod...
March 13th, 2010 @ 9:23 am
I don't have a Facebook or a Myspace but I have twitter. Can I still get the password? Thanks!
March 13th, 2010 @ 5:25 pm
So, I'd love to get the password. A first time reader, I found this site via feministing.com. I have loved reading so many different entries that feel brutally honest. As a college freshman in the South . . . queer identity is something I have never before been exposed to, and continues to be an area of insatiable curiosity for me. I think I'm trying to say thank you for being here.
March 14th, 2010 @ 8:48 am
Password Please?
March 15th, 2010 @ 12:45 pm
Would love to get a password, please.
March 15th, 2010 @ 9:43 pm
I'd love to have access to the password protected posts. Your writing feels like home to me, and your honesty is breathtaking. Thank you for this website.
March 18th, 2010 @ 10:16 pm
The fourth commenter on this post introduced me to your blog a few days ago, and I have been reading obsessively since then. You and your writing are both amazing. Can I please have the password? :]
My facebook is here! http://www.facebook.com/jamie.bartholomay
March 18th, 2010 @ 10:19 pm
…I meant 4th comment on this page of comments… yup it's definitely 4am. >.<
March 20th, 2010 @ 12:17 pm
password?
March 21st, 2010 @ 4:13 am
Anxious to read more. Nothing beats reading your words — your theories, your erotica, your poetry — while enjoying my morning coffee; a great way to start the day.
http://www.facebook.com/#!/M.and.E.and.A?ref=prof…
March 28th, 2010 @ 7:40 pm
hey sinclair,
i had your password once upon a time but then it changed?….
also i quit much of my online reading for many months, while i was off in my head, wrassling my own angst…
but i'm back now.
and just as before, the honesty in your writing is inspiring me.
i'd love to have the password now and learn more about your emotional processing…
i made a blog almost a year ago but i'm not very prolific… and i've not shared it with many cuz, well, yeah, it's personal, and i feel vulnerable… but
you can have the url if it proves i'm a real person
http://sunshinefeedingdaisies.blogspot.com/
March 29th, 2010 @ 3:42 pm
i'd love the password and the newsletter.. such a fan.
April 5th, 2010 @ 4:14 pm
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1601765
I’d love that password ;)
April 9th, 2010 @ 11:21 am
I'm amazed it took me so long to find your blog and related projects. You're doing great work for the community. Would love to have the password for your protected posts.
April 9th, 2010 @ 11:42 am
Password please? Thanks! I'm on facebook under this email if you need to see that I'm real!
April 9th, 2010 @ 12:13 pm
may I pease have the passwork. I am Eileen Kwiecinski Gartland on Facebook. Thanks.
April 9th, 2010 @ 12:50 pm
I'd love the password as well, please.
April 9th, 2010 @ 3:31 pm
Password please! Thanks!
April 10th, 2010 @ 1:20 pm
hey sinclair, after lurking here for a year or so I finally want the password please. why Iwve been waiting so long is a long story, which hopefully I'll share with you sometime.
April 11th, 2010 @ 12:00 am
What's up Sinclair. May I have the password? K thx have a great weekend. (when do you come to C@L?!) Hurray!
April 12th, 2010 @ 4:17 am
hi, love the blog and stories and would like the password, thanks.
b
April 12th, 2010 @ 5:19 am
Hi, I've been reading for a while and would love the password to the protected posts. Thanks.
April 12th, 2010 @ 7:24 am
May I have a password, please? I hope my email proves I'm real.
January 4th, 2012 @ 11:48 pm
I’ve been really enjoying reading, would love to have a password if possible.
January 5th, 2012 @ 9:26 pm
I’d love to have the secret password! Email and facebook link above.