Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password

Posted on May 28, 2009 in colophon | 342 Comments

Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.

1. The Newsletter

The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at]gmail.com – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.

2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox

If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.

Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.

Enter your email address:

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3. Password protected posts

The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.) Leave a comment in this thread with a valid email address and a link to your blog, your myspace, your facebook, or some other way to verify that you are a real person. If you ask for the password, I’ll also add you to The Newsletter mailing list.


Comments

342 Responses to “Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password”

  1. April
    May 28th, 2009 @ 6:02 am

    Hey

    i would loe to be added to the mailing list and recieve the password for protected files. I've added aa link to my facebook account and i hope it is there right.
    http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=...

  2. rm
    May 28th, 2009 @ 6:04 am

    a-hah! Requesting password; blog above.

  3. jordanclaire
    May 28th, 2009 @ 6:19 am

    Yes please! No site but twitter above.

  4. Lauren
    May 28th, 2009 @ 7:30 am

    i would like to be added to the mailing list and view password protected entries. a link to my facebook is above.

  5. Anna
    May 28th, 2009 @ 7:37 am

    May I have the password please! :-)

  6. Mugsie
    May 28th, 2009 @ 7:51 am

    Oh, I definitely want to be added to the password protected list and mailing list! I put left my facebook profile in the website box, but I'd like to think you know I'm a real person anyway. Though possibly I'm a cyborg… but that's altogether another matter!

  7. violet
    May 28th, 2009 @ 7:53 am

    Sinclair,

    Would you kindly send me the password for your protected posts, prettyplease?

  8. roro
    May 28th, 2009 @ 7:56 am

    Ooo! The password! Password, please!

  9. Ladycakes
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:10 am

    i'd love the password :) the website is my college's feminist blog, for which i am a blogger.

  10. deb
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:13 am

    More smut? Yes! I'd like the password please, if you don't mind.

  11. T. Elle Harrison
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:17 am

    I would love to have the password for your protected posts. I've read all of your archive stuff and I lurve it. The link to my often neglected blog is above.

  12. andy radmacher
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:19 am

    please, may i have the password?

  13. Quadrashocker
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:23 am

    I would love to read your password protected posts. I subscribe via RSS but wouldn't mind getting an email when you post a new blog.

    Thanks!
    http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=...

  14. Distracted
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:24 am

    I would very much like to read the password protected posts. Thank you!

  15. April
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:51 am

    I'd very much like to have the password please. My very boring blog about my very boring life (which really, I just use as an online journal) is linked. Thank you!

  16. Kate
    May 28th, 2009 @ 9:12 am

    I'd love to have the password, and the newsletter as well. I linked my facebook. Thank you.:)

  17. Lauren
    May 28th, 2009 @ 9:22 am

    password please (:

  18. Feral Historian
    May 28th, 2009 @ 10:15 am

    I'd like to have the password, if you feel comfortable sharing it with me.

  19. danielle
    May 28th, 2009 @ 10:21 am

    i'm a huge fan of this blog and i would love to be able to read all the posts. thanks so much.

    -danielle

  20. StacyCat
    May 28th, 2009 @ 12:34 pm

    I would like the password and the Newsletter :) I am also on Twitter as StacyCat :)

  21. Samantha
    May 28th, 2009 @ 1:21 pm

    I subscribe via RSS, with visits to the actual site now and again (the banners were my favorite part previously). I would adore the password to your protected posts.

    Online blog linked above, which might in turn, have links to both a Myspace and Facebook.

    Thanks!

  22. Desci
    May 28th, 2009 @ 2:03 pm

    Love your site, and would enjoy checking out some of the passwordy stuff, as well as the newsletter!

    to dot desci, gmail. (Is my 'internet' identity enough, or would you like my IRL details? Drop me a line if it's the latter.)

  23. Kerr "Sky"
    May 28th, 2009 @ 2:51 pm

    Been following you ever since you were featured at Transcriptions in Boston. Really enjoy your work and would like to see more.

  24. Sylvia
    May 28th, 2009 @ 2:57 pm

    I would love to have the password for your protected posts. I’m already subscribed to the Feed, so the newsletter isn’t neccesary. I linked my blog(although not in english). Thank you

  25. Mack
    May 28th, 2009 @ 3:09 pm

    I love your blog and would be grateful for the opportunity to read more of your pieces.

  26. Rachel
    May 28th, 2009 @ 3:32 pm

    I would love to have that password.

  27. Adelai
    May 28th, 2009 @ 3:43 pm

    I'd love the password and to be on the mailing list.

  28. smalltowndyke
    May 28th, 2009 @ 3:49 pm

    I would love to have the password, I think you have my email but I'm not sure it's picturelady1018@

  29. Roxy
    May 28th, 2009 @ 4:08 pm

    I would also love the password. Thank you. :)

  30. North
    May 28th, 2009 @ 4:30 pm

    I would love to have the password, and to be added to the mailing list, and am happy to send you my real name if you send me an email.

    (I am kind of in awe of all the people who write really personal things on the internet, you included. Thanks.)

  31. Whit
    May 28th, 2009 @ 4:31 pm

    Your blog is great and I respect you opinions and thoughts. A password would be wonderful.

  32. Nosidam
    May 28th, 2009 @ 4:47 pm

    I would love to have the password. Thank you very much for this and sharing the things that you do.

  33. Gina
    May 28th, 2009 @ 4:52 pm

    I love your blog and would be grateful for the opportunity to read more of your Work.

  34. nell
    May 28th, 2009 @ 5:35 pm

    I'd love a password as well!

  35. Em
    May 28th, 2009 @ 6:15 pm

    I have the password, I would just like to be on the newsletter list as well.

  36. Kendra Staley
    May 28th, 2009 @ 8:15 pm

    Please send me your password!! I would love to gain access for "behind the scenes!"

  37. Jen
    May 28th, 2009 @ 10:48 pm

    Hi Sinclair, I'd like to be added to the mailing list and get a password. Thanks for your work.

  38. Renee
    May 29th, 2009 @ 1:15 am

    Love to read you every morning while I am drinking my coffe and starting my day. Sorry no website.

  39. Omster
    May 29th, 2009 @ 1:55 am

    I'd like the password, please, sir. And do let me know if you're up in Boston anytime soon – meeting (and flirting shamelessly with) you in NYC was a lot of fun.

  40. Jenna
    May 29th, 2009 @ 3:25 am

    Love everything you write! (And the site is a blog I contribute to…)

  41. Ana
    May 29th, 2009 @ 5:01 am

    I'd love to get the password!

  42. Denise
    May 29th, 2009 @ 8:51 am

    Would love to be added to the mailing lost and get a password. Thank you

  43. Gretchen
    May 29th, 2009 @ 9:17 am

    Love your blog… would love to read the password entries. No website… I've tired of facebook and myspace (also, as a teacher it's not great for me to be that "out" with personal info)

  44. AshB
    May 29th, 2009 @ 10:30 am

    I too love reading your blog and would love to read the password protected entries as well. I hereby solemnly promise that I am a real person, and by myspace is attached for further verification. ;-)

  45. genderkid
    May 29th, 2009 @ 10:30 am

    I guess we all want to read the password-protected posts! I'd like the password, too; thanks!

  46. Fox
    May 29th, 2009 @ 12:02 pm

    Though I am certainly not deserving of that honour, I bow down to my desire to read more…. hear me beg for the divine password!

  47. Britni
    May 29th, 2009 @ 1:42 pm

    I would love the password! Click my name to find my blog :)

  48. Shereen Samuels
    May 29th, 2009 @ 6:41 pm

    Okay, I don't have a website, facebook page, or any other online way to prove who I am, because I'm a bit of a philistine, obviously, although not a luddite, I swear. Just limited in terms of what, as a new parent, I can spend my time on. But, if you google my name, or my other last name, Tuomi, you'll see that I've been a writer of entertainment, lesbian and international development stuff for quite a few years. I'd love a password.

  49. KP
    May 29th, 2009 @ 7:01 pm

    Long time reader/fan, first time commenter. but i'm starting to feel left out of the password-protected posts. this is me. password, please.

  50. TEB
    May 29th, 2009 @ 7:53 pm

    Facebook link above. I'd love to be able to read the rest of what you've written– I've enjoyed all I've read so far.

  51. Literalman
    May 30th, 2009 @ 2:07 am

    Hope it's not too late!

    Many Thanks!

  52. Susan
    May 30th, 2009 @ 7:32 am

    I would like added to the mailing list and would like to read the password protected entries, if i could.

  53. Eva
    May 30th, 2009 @ 8:15 am

    I'm a real person and I'd love to have the password. Thanks.

  54. Kelsey
    May 30th, 2009 @ 9:20 am

    Password, please! :)

  55. T
    May 30th, 2009 @ 10:25 am

    Im a real person and would really like the password.

  56. Laura
    May 30th, 2009 @ 5:32 pm

    I'm a femme in the buckle of the Bible Belt, and I have been enjoying your writing project for almost a year now. I just gave in and made a Facebook page tonight, and now I guess I can prove I am a real person! I would like the password for protected posts, and I would love getting a newsletter, too. Hope I linked it correctly. Still kind of web-illiterate.

  57. Jessica
    May 30th, 2009 @ 6:18 pm

    password please!!!!

  58. Gen
    May 30th, 2009 @ 6:24 pm

    I would love to read the password protected entries!

  59. allegra
    May 30th, 2009 @ 8:48 pm

    i would like to have the password, please! thank you!

  60. Weit
    May 30th, 2009 @ 10:20 pm

    hey im a real person too and i would love to have the password for the protected entries. thanks.

  61. Sarah
    May 31st, 2009 @ 8:04 am

    i'd love the password…

  62. Helen
    May 31st, 2009 @ 11:06 am

    MUST have password! ;-)

  63. Sassafras
    May 31st, 2009 @ 12:03 pm

    i'm a real person :) and would like a password :)

  64. carmen
    May 31st, 2009 @ 12:27 pm

    i've been reading your blog f or ages and i'd love to have the password! your writing is beautiful. i'd give you my facebook but unfortunately it's not publicly viewable, so i hope this is enough to convince you that i'm real!

  65. ria
    May 31st, 2009 @ 12:51 pm

    hey great blog

  66. fleurdiabolique
    May 31st, 2009 @ 4:48 pm

    I would like the password, please.

  67. Krista
    May 31st, 2009 @ 9:26 pm

    Password? :)

  68. Monika
    June 1st, 2009 @ 3:09 am

    would be grateful if i could read the password protected entries. i do not have a myspace or a facebook account – but i am real!! :)

  69. Leerie
    June 1st, 2009 @ 7:22 am

    I would love to get the newsletter and the password. Thank you! <3

  70. ria
    June 1st, 2009 @ 3:10 pm

    could i get the password as well?

  71. treesa
    June 1st, 2009 @ 5:48 pm

    email list and password protected posts, please?

    I wish for just a smidge of the polish and nuance I see in your writing to appear in my own – gorgeous stuff, thanks, always, for sharing.

  72. maria
    June 2nd, 2009 @ 12:29 am

    Thanks so much!

  73. Trilby
    June 2nd, 2009 @ 7:52 pm

    Sinclair, your writing takes my breath away… may I please have the password?

  74. Sara
    June 3rd, 2009 @ 5:07 am

    I love reading your blog and would greatly appreciate the password! Here is a link to my facebook (though i don't know if it will work).

    http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=...

  75. Fluence
    June 3rd, 2009 @ 8:49 am

    Hi, could I have the password for protected posts please?

  76. Allison
    June 3rd, 2009 @ 4:21 pm

    Hey, could I have the pw for the protected posts please? Thanks!

  77. Brittany M.
    June 4th, 2009 @ 4:55 pm

    Hey! I’d love to be added to your monthly newsletter.

  78. ak
    June 4th, 2009 @ 6:27 pm

    I'm a real person, but don't have a blog. any chance I could get a pw?

  79. Connor Gillis
    June 8th, 2009 @ 9:26 am

    Password please! I left a link to my website and you have my email now. :)

  80. isa
    June 9th, 2009 @ 9:16 am

    hello sinclair,
    I have recently discovered your blog and I absolutely love it -your writing is among the very best lesbian erotica I’ve read. thank you. and keep up the good work!
    oh, could I please have the password for the protected entries too?

  81. Maria P.
    June 12th, 2009 @ 9:04 pm

    The password! The newsletter! Everything! Now! (Please.)

  82. Jenn
    June 13th, 2009 @ 2:00 pm

    Password please!

  83. Leah
    June 17th, 2009 @ 3:17 pm

    this real person would love the password, please.

  84. Mel
    June 20th, 2009 @ 11:54 pm

    I've recently started following your story, and think your writing is exceptional. I'm a real person (even if I don't have a facebook profile or a blog) – please could I have the password to the protected entries?

  85. Erin
    June 21st, 2009 @ 12:59 am

    password? please? i love your site.

  86. nandi
    June 22nd, 2009 @ 6:45 pm

    thank you so much for brightening my day with pics of hot butches etc! what a great antidote to a tense family dinner, and a great project, in my femme-who-only-dates-butches opinion. i just discovered you here today (via facebook where the hot butches list link was posted) and would love to read more, including password protected stuff. please.

  87. MJ
    June 26th, 2009 @ 4:47 am

    I would love to have the password for the protected posts

  88. Tracy
    June 26th, 2009 @ 3:26 pm

    I would love to have the password for the protected posts too

  89. rebecca
    June 29th, 2009 @ 7:07 am

    i'm a real person. or so they say. here's a link to one of my writings.

    please pretty please give me the password..thanks rebecca

  90. Lauren
    June 30th, 2009 @ 8:22 pm

    This blog is just what I need in my life right now. Password, please?

  91. sefv
    July 2nd, 2009 @ 10:33 am

    you have my email and my website (myspace, same thing?) to prove my real personness. can i have the password for the protected posts please? i would also enjoy being added to the newsletter. thank you. and i love your website, its kind of awesome incase you didn't know.

  92. Pj
    July 3rd, 2009 @ 12:40 pm

    Would like to be added to the mailing list, and also get the password for protected posts, please and thank you ^_^

  93. Alex
    July 3rd, 2009 @ 4:44 pm

    hi, I think yours is one of the hottest most thoughtful things that Ive run across in a long time– I'd love to read what you are writing/thinking behind the password. Thank you for what you do.

  94. tamz
    July 3rd, 2009 @ 7:22 pm

    Could I get the password please?

    Your writing's amazing. I'm still figuring out this whole gender thing, and your blog and your ideas are a whole new landscape of thinking. Thanks!

  95. Kitty T
    July 6th, 2009 @ 11:41 am

    I'd love to receive the newsletter and get the password, please and thank you. :)

  96. Rachel
    July 7th, 2009 @ 12:25 pm

    Hey! My Femme sister let me on about your site. Whenever I'm having a particularly femme-phobic day, I love love reading your site. Thank you so much for creating such a soft space for us. <3

  97. A
    July 7th, 2009 @ 2:58 pm

    I'm not sure if I've commented before but I've been reading this blog for a while. It's great and you always have interesting insights on gender. Could you send me the password, please?

  98. Esmeralda Ceja
    July 10th, 2009 @ 11:41 am

    Hello,

    I ran across your blog through SublimeFemme Unbound's blog and have been here for about four days straight reading your older posts…I would LOVE it if I could receive the password for your password protected blog postings! I hope you have a great vacation and am looking forward to more reading.

    ~Esmeralda

  99. Ruth
    July 15th, 2009 @ 11:49 am

    May I have the password please?

    Your writing is fantastic!

  100. Carrie
    July 16th, 2009 @ 5:41 am

    password please. I love your site and would like to read more :)

  101. Les
    July 16th, 2009 @ 10:59 am

    very much a real person (last i checked). password please. thanks

  102. miss lala
    July 20th, 2009 @ 3:39 pm

    found your blog through the 100 top butches list; i'd love access to your password-protected posts–the stuff out in public is incredibly hot.

  103. Irene
    July 21st, 2009 @ 10:19 am

    Well, looks like I'm real enough to be terribly fascinated by your writing…looking forward to receiving the password. Please ^_^

  104. Frances
    July 22nd, 2009 @ 12:03 pm

    http://www.facebook.com/frances.felske

    Definitely a real person, loving your blog…definitely shouldn’t be reading this at work, but I can’t seem to help myself! ;-)

  105. Alicia
    July 22nd, 2009 @ 9:24 pm

    I have (alternately) jerked off and cried to your writing. Wow. Thank you for being here.

  106. Missy Bistro
    July 26th, 2009 @ 7:54 am

    i'd like access to the password! Thank you.

  107. Shannon
    July 27th, 2009 @ 5:49 pm

    I can't help accessing your website on regular basis, I follow you on twitter but it isn't enough! would love password….

    I do have facebook, but it is very very hard to get to my page, but I think that is my personal fb page..

    thank you!

  108. Shaun
    July 29th, 2009 @ 4:30 am

    I would like the password for the protected entries and to be added to the mailing list. In the mean time, I'll read through the archives. Thanks.

  109. megan
    July 29th, 2009 @ 6:03 am

    password please

    already subscribed to news letter thanks!

  110. rok
    July 29th, 2009 @ 9:50 am

    reading ure blog now since some days – love it!

    would love to get access to the restricted password posts.

    and yes, i'm a real person. kinda. sometimes. well, most of the time.

  111. Joce
    July 29th, 2009 @ 10:56 am

    All I gots is a facebook page. Can I have to password gatekeeper???

  112. Quinn
    July 29th, 2009 @ 6:31 pm

    Hey,

    you actually follow me on twitter already, and i believe on tumblr. i'm enjoying getting to know your writing, and if you're still giving out that password i'd love to read more. thanks for the great stuff!

  113. S
    July 29th, 2009 @ 9:26 pm

    recently joined the mailing lists. cant get enough. can i please have the password? :)

  114. Jen
    July 31st, 2009 @ 6:00 pm

    wow. newly Out this year and I think I've dove straight into the deep end. Loving this. Password for more?

  115. t
    August 2nd, 2009 @ 6:03 pm

    hi there! i love your site and would love the password to the protected posts! i don't have a blog or anything, but i am definitely a real person! in fact, i heard you read at happy ending lounge in june and thought you were amazing!!!

  116. BJ
    August 10th, 2009 @ 8:58 am

    I LOVE reading your blogs and articles…may I have the password, please? I want more…

  117. Kirstin
    August 13th, 2009 @ 10:36 am

    Please send along your password. Thank you!

    As for evidence of being a real person, here I am on LinkedIn
    http://www.linkedin.com/in/kirstinleiby

  118. sarah
    August 18th, 2009 @ 3:44 pm

    Here's my blog, I'd love the password.

    Thanks!

  119. jaclyn
    August 21st, 2009 @ 8:55 am

    Hi, here is my myspace, http://profile.myspace.com/215192871. i love your articles. Looking forward to more. Thanks, Jaclyn

  120. Janet
    August 22nd, 2009 @ 7:41 am

    Please send along the password so I can get more Sugarbutch.

    cheers,

    J

  121. jazz
    August 23rd, 2009 @ 5:34 am

    hi, found your blog via dorothysurrenders. Please may I have the password? Thanks in advance!

  122. S
    August 24th, 2009 @ 3:45 pm

    I'd really like the password. I've been reading this site for over a year but somehow have resisted asking for the password… can't take it anymore!

    Thanks and keep up the GREAT work!

  123. anon
    August 24th, 2009 @ 6:26 pm

    Password please. Thanks for making these conversations available online. Much appreciated.

  124. Dawn
    August 25th, 2009 @ 2:06 am

    Stumbled onto your site a while back and have been reading pretty regularly ever since. Could you please provide me with the password for the protected posts and sign me up for the newsletter? Thanks!

  125. MaryMary
    August 25th, 2009 @ 3:44 am

    Can i have the password? Pretty please? <3

  126. emily
    August 25th, 2009 @ 3:46 am

    i would love the password protected posts!

  127. Steph
    August 25th, 2009 @ 8:15 am

    please send me the password

  128. caitlin
    August 25th, 2009 @ 10:23 am

    can i have the password to the password protected posts, please?

    thanks!

  129. Alisa
    August 25th, 2009 @ 11:51 am

    I'd like to get the password to view your protected blogs. Found you via Butch-Femme Clubheaven group, and 100 hot top butches…your blog is great! From a femme, lesbian, bottom, kinky Seattle-ite. Alisa

    I'm on facebook under my own name, too.

  130. Lola
    August 25th, 2009 @ 2:25 pm

    I would love access to the password protected posts, please :)

  131. Linds
    August 27th, 2009 @ 10:09 am

    Hi,

    I'm not a myspacer, or tweeter – however, I am a facebooker but didn't want to post the link here, I would give it in an email though. I'm most certainly a real person, flawed and all.

    I stumbled upon this blog by accident, and I could say a lot – but I'm just supposed to leave a comment- Soo…I'll say that I'm not typically a blog reader, but there is something about this blog and your writing that keeps me checking it everyday for anything new you have to say.

    With that said, I'd love to have the protected password.

    Thanks

  132. Kathrin
    August 30th, 2009 @ 4:14 pm

    I have been reading your blog for a while. May I have the password to your protected posts?

    Cheers,

    Kathrin

  133. Barbara Greeff
    August 30th, 2009 @ 8:42 pm

    Hi would love to read more. If you search FB for my name, you will find me!

    Barbs

  134. Library Dyke
    September 1st, 2009 @ 7:43 pm

    Could I please have your password? :D

    And this is to verify that I am a human and lesbian flavored-
    http://www.myspace.com/extraspecialmo

    Thank you very much.

  135. megan
    September 2nd, 2009 @ 3:34 am

    would love the password. i'm already on the newsletter. thanks for sharing.

  136. Al
    September 5th, 2009 @ 9:51 am

    so in love with your site. password pretty please

  137. Rachel
    September 5th, 2009 @ 6:18 pm

    I love this site and would like to see it for all it has to offer.
    The password would be awesome!
    Thank you

  138. Imo
    September 7th, 2009 @ 2:30 am

    I've been googling all day, not knowing exactly what I was looking for, and now I've found it. Having the password would be rad; thanks in advance :)

    Twitter enclosed.

  139. Amber
    September 7th, 2009 @ 5:24 am

    Ahoy! Stumbled across you by accident, very rapidly became addicted. You are now my required reading and I live for the new posts. Been working my way back through the archives too. I am indeed a real person! May I pretty please with sugar and kisses on top, have the password to the protected posts? Enter my email address into Facebook to check that I am a real person! Or you can find me on MySpace (although I rarely use it these days) http://www.myspace.com/land_of_llama

    Cheers

    A. xo

  140. thisjobstinks
    September 8th, 2009 @ 4:28 pm

    Would also love to have the password and be added to the newsletter. Thanks!

  141. Flora
    September 11th, 2009 @ 3:43 am

    Thanks in advance for sending along the password..
    http://www.myspace.com/florareed

  142. Marilyn Cuberle
    September 11th, 2009 @ 7:55 am

    Finding your site has been an inspiration. You’ve created a beautiful work of art exploring your feminist sexuality and perspectives on gender dynamics. I aspire to do something similar, as a mostly-heterosexual, kinky, submissive feminist, who is both attracted to and repulsed by porn that degrades women, and men who get off on that porn. My site is http://www.feministpornographer.com

    I would love to get the password. My subject matter, at times, is dark, difficult to reveal and vulnerable. I believe my thinking would be well informed by your exploration of dark kinks and experiences.

  143. Elenaluz
    September 15th, 2009 @ 12:07 am

    I love your writing. Both the beauty and wonder of when you're describing your sexual experiences, and identifying with the pain of your emotional experiences. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with a complete stranger, and I hope I'm worthy of sharing your password with.

  144. nicole
    September 17th, 2009 @ 6:09 pm

    not sure how to prove i am real *and* velveteen. i don't use any social networking sites… yet? i would love a password to read some more, but i'm not sure how else to prove real-ness~

  145. Molly
    September 18th, 2009 @ 10:21 am

    I love being a witness to this part of your life. It makes me more courageous, more bold, and considerably more aroused, and I think I'm finally ready to ask for the password. Feel free to look up my email address on facebook. Thank you, thank you for sharing yourself with us. More please!

  146. Elsbeth
    September 18th, 2009 @ 11:46 am

    http://www.okcupid.com/profile/estuef/pictures/

    The OkC profile shows a far more *real* me than the other social networking sites do, and gets significantly more use.

    Thank you for sharing such wonderful writing and insight.

  147. sarati
    September 18th, 2009 @ 2:42 pm

    so glad I found you! I have no website, facebook or myspace…and I am real! If you are still willing to send me a password, it would be much appreciated.

    Peace,

    S.

  148. sarah
    September 18th, 2009 @ 5:12 pm

    Hey, just found your website and have been sitting and reading for almost 3 hours now. Thank you for answering some of the questions I didn't even know I had about my own identity.

    I'd love the password and to be added to the newsletter.

  149. Diana
    September 18th, 2009 @ 6:10 pm

    would love to have a password. myspace: techgadget_junky

  150. Fuzzy Sutton
    September 18th, 2009 @ 8:27 pm

    I'd like a password, please.

  151. sarah
    September 19th, 2009 @ 5:22 pm

    Could you please send me the password?

  152. Kim
    September 20th, 2009 @ 4:21 pm

    Please send the password!! Thanks.

  153. Rachel
    September 20th, 2009 @ 5:06 pm

    I'm a real person and I would love the password and to be added to the newsletter. Although my FB page is rather private, you should be able to tell that I exist.

    I've been enjoying your blog for a while.

    Thanks.

  154. Alexis
    September 20th, 2009 @ 6:27 pm

    Your writings are my favorite reason to check my RSS reader or Tumblr. I'd love to have access to the ones I'm missing. Thank you for all that you share online. Sometimes it seems that your posts are putting words to conversations I was just hoping I could have. Refreshing, honest, articulate. Check my website or blogs to verify my existence :)

    Twitter.com/alexislyon

    alexislyon.Tumblr.com

    alexislyon.Posterous.com

  155. ShooflyPie
    September 20th, 2009 @ 6:53 pm

    Just discovered this blog and so very delighted about it. I'd love a password. Myspace: http://www.myspace.com/chrissalis .

  156. Ashley
    September 22nd, 2009 @ 11:08 am

    I'm a real person and am interested in reading some of these password protected posts. Thank you for sharing all that you do.

  157. R
    September 22nd, 2009 @ 2:36 pm

    I'd love a password. Thanks!

  158. Matt Hillsman
    September 24th, 2009 @ 3:43 am

    Hi – love your blog. Thanks.

  159. Steph K
    September 24th, 2009 @ 7:07 am

    Hi, I love your blog. Can I have the password?

  160. Rhiannon
    September 25th, 2009 @ 7:07 pm

    Password would be great, thanks

  161. soozee
    September 27th, 2009 @ 7:29 am

    I just found your blog and can't wait to read the rest! I would love to get the password.

    Tumblr: http://throughbackyards.tumblr.com/

  162. redwine
    September 29th, 2009 @ 3:14 pm

    Hi, I don't do Facebook, MySpace, or a blog, but I am indeed a real (butch) person who would love to read the password-protected posts. Thank you for sharing so much of your life on this site!

  163. Steph
    September 30th, 2009 @ 1:37 pm

    I've been following you for a while; would love to have the password. Thanks!

  164. Shaina Loos
    October 2nd, 2009 @ 11:11 am

    Hi Sinclair, May I please have the password? I've been reading your blog for the last year and I love it. You're an amazing wrtiter and you've helped me a lot with becoming more comfortable with my femme side. I don't have a blog or myspace, I do have a facebook page, but it's hard to get to. Any other way I can convince you I'm a real person?

  165. James
    October 3rd, 2009 @ 9:31 pm

    Hello! I love your blog and would be sincerely appreciative of the password however the only personal site I have on the internet is the website I'm building for my Web Tech class, and that currently has my homework on it. Is that good enough to prove I'm real? Thank you!

  166. evelyn tremble
    October 4th, 2009 @ 5:20 pm

    I'm a new reader of this blog and I would indeed appreciate access to the password protected part of it. As my own blog posts are almost exclusively lesbian orientated, I find this page an often interesting and sometimes instructive read. I think a quick look at my blog ought to prove something. What, I'll leave up to you. Thanks … in advance.

  167. Renee
    October 5th, 2009 @ 2:59 pm

    I enjoy reading your blog and would absolutely love the password.

  168. Laura
    October 7th, 2009 @ 9:47 am

    Hello, I would absolutely love the password to your darker/deeper posts, with a cherry on top. Please?

  169. xXNappySoulXx
    October 10th, 2009 @ 6:58 am

    I would like to have the password to the inner workings of your mind. Thanks!

  170. St
    October 13th, 2009 @ 3:14 pm

    i am a real person too and would love the password. thank you for sharing!

  171. Sassafras
    October 16th, 2009 @ 3:14 am

    I don't have a page to share because of my work, but I have pictures I would personally send to you to prove that I am a real person. I would be extremely happy if you would share the password with me. I have been following your blog for a long time. Thanks!

  172. t. e.
    October 17th, 2009 @ 5:09 pm

    I'd like the password; i'm engaged in a lot of gender contemplation and i enjoy reading your thoughts.

  173. Dark
    October 19th, 2009 @ 10:49 am

    Hey Sinclair,

    I would love to be able to read some of your deeper posts. Can I have the password?

  174. Miranda
    October 20th, 2009 @ 9:36 am

    Hi Sinclair,

    I’ve been reading your blog for awhile and I’ve also seen you read twice at Bluestockings in New York, most recently at the feminist sex panel last week (I LOVED your piece). I would love to have the password for your other posts. You can find me as a fan of Bluestockings on Facebook, I believe!

  175. cecelia croswell
    October 20th, 2009 @ 1:05 pm

    you can me verify me through either facebook at above name or On butch-femme.com here http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/member.p...
    password request thank you

  176. Renee
    October 21st, 2009 @ 11:10 am

    I'm afraid the password was filtered out into my junk email and deleted. Would you please send it again? Thank you.

  177. JB
    October 21st, 2009 @ 3:24 pm

    Hey, Sinclair!

    I'm a real person, most of the time, learning a lot from your blog. (Thank you.) May I have the password for the other posts, too?

  178. Julia
    October 21st, 2009 @ 4:58 pm

    Hi

    I would love your password and I am a real person…I can personally email you my link or pics to prove it :) please?

  179. Sinclair
    October 22nd, 2009 @ 5:42 am

    You bet — the links are in the sidebar on the right-hand side, under the 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar button. One says "Sugarbutch on Carnal Nation" and then there are three images underneath with the three major articles I've written for them, Radical Masculinity column #1, Queer Books Saved My Life, & the Lambda Lit Awards roundup. The others in that long list of mine are all "Perv Panels," where I answer a question sent in by a reader, so those are the three that are important.

  180. Dak
    October 22nd, 2009 @ 4:15 pm

    Please send password! Gracias

  181. Pip
    October 23rd, 2009 @ 6:01 pm

    I'm a real person, incredibly touched and turned on by everything I've read. Password request.

  182. Celia
    October 24th, 2009 @ 6:56 pm

    Hola Sinclair,

    Password me please. Gracias!

  183. wandalove
    October 25th, 2009 @ 12:59 am

    password, please.

    merci.

  184. Jo Halstead
    October 26th, 2009 @ 8:51 am

    Hi Sinclair,

    I'd love the password, and I'm a real person, but not a very techie person…so I hope this is what you want… http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/jo.halstead1?r...

  185. kate
    October 26th, 2009 @ 2:32 pm

    would love to receive password et al.

    real person, with really not updated blog: http://www.kateokeson.com

  186. Carly
    November 1st, 2009 @ 6:58 pm

    hi. i would like the password, etc.

    creative writing blog, updated less & less.

    love your work–good quality, sexy writing.

  187. Simone
    November 2nd, 2009 @ 6:05 pm

    Hey,

    I'm a student getting into sex writing and your blog is so inspirational! In fact, you'll be coming to speak at my school soon (at Conversio Virium) and I'm familiarizing myself with your work. May I please have the password so that I can read your blog chronologically?

    Here's my facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1084470544...

  188. Juliet1012
    November 6th, 2009 @ 2:15 am

    I would really enjoy the password to you blogs. However I do not have time due to my busy schedule to keep up with a blog, fb page, or myspace. I barely have time to do anything but I seem to always find time to read your blog. I can assure that I am a real person though!!

  189. Melissa
    November 6th, 2009 @ 5:23 am

    Sinclair,

    I love your blog. You certainly know how to hold a woman's interest. I would love to read the password protected entries also. Thank you and keep up the great writing.

    XXXOOO

    Melissa

  190. N.
    November 14th, 2009 @ 5:09 am

    Hello.

    I would love a chance to read the password protected stuff. And please, newsletter me.

    Thank you,

    N.

  191. Karen
    November 14th, 2009 @ 12:38 pm

    You sent me a password for the protected posts a long time ago. Do I need to ask again?

  192. soph
    November 15th, 2009 @ 12:20 am
  193. S.Ree
    November 15th, 2009 @ 4:47 am

    I'm so glad to have found your blog!

  194. Kayla
    November 17th, 2009 @ 4:25 pm

    love your blog, could i get the password pls?

  195. Dawn
    November 23rd, 2009 @ 12:25 am

    Hello, Sinclair

    You write beautifully, and I would love to know the password to access your protected posts.

    Thanks so much,

    Dawn

  196. dara
    November 23rd, 2009 @ 3:32 pm

    i love your writing and i live for femmes! i would love to have the password also. thanks.

    http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?re...

  197. Jack M.
    November 28th, 2009 @ 4:49 pm

    Hi Sinclair, I love your work and would like to request the password/add to the mailing list. Hope a link to my livejournal counts. Thanks!

  198. Jo
    November 29th, 2009 @ 4:06 pm

    I'd love a password also. :)

  199. Jessica A
    December 1st, 2009 @ 12:43 pm

    Hey, your writing is awesome and I'd love to have the password so I can read more!

    Newslette me, too, please. :)

  200. Josette
    December 3rd, 2009 @ 9:55 pm

    Would love the password to your secret writings. Yum!

  201. SyrBoots
    December 8th, 2009 @ 5:25 am

    real butch.. lol.. I'd like the password please, if you don't mind giving it to an old and grey leatherdyke from the uk? Thanks….

  202. Caroline
    December 9th, 2009 @ 3:24 pm

    I'd like the password please!

  203. Lee
    December 11th, 2009 @ 5:34 am

    I just started following your blog a few weeks ago, and would love love love the password for your protected posts. I don't have a website or myspace, but I do have facebook? For years and years I have been thinking about radicalizing by butch/boi masculinity; and I have been thoroughly enjoying your writing thus far, which is why I'd love to read some of your more personal posts! Thanks.

  204. Scribe
    December 11th, 2009 @ 8:07 am

    I'd like to be added, please. Password, too : O)

  205. Benji
    December 14th, 2009 @ 3:15 am

    Hello. I would also like the password please.

  206. Tawny
    December 14th, 2009 @ 12:27 pm

    I would love to have the password. Your site is a phenomenal growth tool for learning about gender, and I'm addicted. =)

  207. Gill
    December 17th, 2009 @ 7:37 am

    Hey,

    I would love the password. I've really enjoyed reading this blog over the last few months, and it has opened my eyes to aspects of gender and sex that I had never thought about.

  208. Lauren
    December 17th, 2009 @ 2:44 pm

    Love the blog.. and I'd love to read password protected posts, as well! Thanks for writing…

  209. Carolyn
    December 21st, 2009 @ 2:10 am

    Could I please have the password? I am a real person.

  210. Chloe
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 1:32 pm

    Hey,

    I would also love the password. I quite enjoy your blog!

  211. Shelly
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 1:51 pm

    I had the password at one time & now I don't!

    May I have again, please?

    Thanks much,

    Shelly

  212. Adisson
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 1:54 pm

    Hey

    Would love to have the password to the protected posts. Love the blog, of course.

    -Adisson

  213. Fiona
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 2:21 pm

    I love your blog, and I would love to have the password. :)

  214. Sabrina
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 2:48 pm

    Password please :)

    http://www.facebook.com/#/Rina.Wren?ref=name <– proof of my realness

  215. Lauren
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 4:07 pm

    Password please. :)

  216. snowstar
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 4:41 pm

    I'm so glad I found this blog…it's wonderful. I would indeed like the password, please :)

  217. miriam beetle
    December 22nd, 2009 @ 11:02 pm

    i have really been enjoying your blog, & i'd love to be able to see the password protected entries. you have the hottest writing on the internet.

  218. F
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 3:28 am

    password, yes, password

  219. Amanda
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 6:09 am

    I would like the password please. I love your blog.

  220. Emily
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 6:34 am

    I'd like the password, please!

  221. Hollie
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 6:43 am

    i would love the password. your posts keep me thinking and entertained ;-)

  222. Kass
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 9:31 am

    I would thoroughly enjoy the password if you would be so obliged :]

  223. Tori
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 10:56 am

    Love the blog :), can I please have the password.

  224. Adina
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 11:20 am

    Hi, I love your blog and would like to read the password protected posts. Here is a link to my Facebook page:

    http://www.facebook.com/adinakatz

  225. quizzical pussy
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 12:06 pm

    I’d like the password, please. I love your blog!

  226. LilyRose
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 3:38 pm

    Hey! Fantastic blog. I’d love to have the password to delve deeper into it. Thanks!

  227. Kara
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 3:49 pm

    I'd love to have the password, when you get a chance.

  228. Amelia
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 7:49 pm

    I'd like to request the password as well… Love your blog, keep up the great work!

  229. Joanne
    December 23rd, 2009 @ 8:31 pm

    I enjoy reading your blog and would like the password please.

    Thank you

  230. Erika
    December 24th, 2009 @ 12:44 pm

    I would also love to have the password. Thanks!

  231. Emma
    December 24th, 2009 @ 9:15 pm

    I'd love to get a password, if that's alright. Thanks!

  232. songquake
    December 26th, 2009 @ 12:17 pm

    i'd like to receive the password, please!

  233. Zephyr
    December 27th, 2009 @ 12:40 am

    I'd love to be added to both the mailing list and to receive the password to the protected posts. Thank you for your words and thoughts – they're a delight when they cross my way.

  234. Donna
    December 28th, 2009 @ 11:53 am

    I'd love the password, if possible. :)

  235. Raynee
    December 28th, 2009 @ 2:44 pm

    might I have the password please…

  236. ianuk74
    December 29th, 2009 @ 2:13 pm

    I'd love the password pretty please.

    x

  237. B. Zedan
    December 29th, 2009 @ 6:58 pm

    Would love the password, please.

  238. Cara
    December 30th, 2009 @ 5:28 am

    Huge fan of your blog and your writing, Ive been reading here for the past couple of months now! It'd be great if I could have the password, pretty please? Thanks :)

  239. Laura
    December 30th, 2009 @ 10:21 am

    I’m already on your mailing list, but need the password. Thanks!

  240. Andrea
    December 30th, 2009 @ 2:38 pm

    I'd love the password.

    Please.

    and Thank you!

  241. Cheyborg Neckmonster
    December 31st, 2009 @ 2:39 pm

    I would love to read all of your blog posts, so a password would help with that! Much admiration from the Dirty South!

  242. EC
    December 31st, 2009 @ 5:15 pm

    I would like the password. happy new year.

  243. Karen
    December 31st, 2009 @ 8:08 pm

    Please send the password to my email address. Love your work.

    Thanks,

    Kh

  244. Shana
    January 1st, 2010 @ 2:42 am

    Password please. Happy New Year.

  245. j.
    January 1st, 2010 @ 11:01 pm

    password plz!, thank you!

  246. HouseWench
    January 2nd, 2010 @ 2:37 pm

    Getting a password would be one nice way to start 2010!

  247. Hayley
    January 3rd, 2010 @ 8:13 am

    I really enjoy reading your blog so I'd love the password too. Thanks :)

  248. marzipan
    January 3rd, 2010 @ 8:21 am

    I would just love the password..

    Thank you.

  249. Mollie
    January 3rd, 2010 @ 11:37 am

    I would enjoy learning more about butch/femme ~ among other things….

    password please?

    thanks!

  250. Styger
    January 3rd, 2010 @ 9:57 pm

    Hello! Long time reader, but I've always been too shy/lazy to ask for the password. So, I'm finally asking, pretty please! Also, feel free to add me on Facebook if you'd like. Thanks!

  251. c s i
    January 3rd, 2010 @ 10:13 pm

    password please ?

  252. Denise Taylor
    January 4th, 2010 @ 5:21 am
  253. k k miller
    January 4th, 2010 @ 6:42 am

    I have no website,facebook,etc. but would appreciate the password. Reading your site has helped me embrace and accept my butch genderqueer self. I now understand myself . P.S. My beautiful femme of 20 years is also greatful.

  254. carrie
    January 4th, 2010 @ 8:23 am

    I love your blog. Can I get the password for the password protected posts please?

  255. Elisabeth
    January 4th, 2010 @ 8:58 am
  256. bifemmefatale
    January 4th, 2010 @ 11:25 am

    Hi, we've exchanged emails once before. I'd love the password to your protected posts, as the relationship between bdsm, feminism and gender presentation is something I think about a lot from the femme sub side.

  257. Krys J
    January 4th, 2010 @ 1:05 pm

    May I have the password? Pretty please???

  258. earthquakepixie
    January 4th, 2010 @ 1:43 pm

    can has password?

  259. Anastasia
    January 4th, 2010 @ 1:55 pm

    Password please! Linking to facebook the only way I could figure out how….
    http://en-gb.facebook.com/people/Anastasia-Gunn-R...

  260. collagen
    January 4th, 2010 @ 10:20 pm

    hi, love reading your posts and would love the password. my tumblr is kind of weird, but i promise that i'm a human.

  261. Airish
    January 5th, 2010 @ 4:36 am

    I've been a reader/fan for a very long time. Can I please have the password? I don't have a blog of my own YET- but I think this will be my year.

    I am a real person. Thank you for all of your work on this blog.

  262. raspberryfluff
    January 5th, 2010 @ 4:46 am

    I'd like the password.:o)

  263. lisa
    January 5th, 2010 @ 11:00 am
  264. Katie
    January 5th, 2010 @ 12:03 pm

    Would LOVE the password. Can't wait to start reading. :)

  265. Arienne
    January 5th, 2010 @ 2:35 pm

    I've loved reading your stuff for a few years now & enjoyed a number of the stories, but never bothered with the more private posts.. but now I'm curious about a few! ;)

    I don't have facebook or anything, just email. I hope that's ok.

    Password please?

    xxo,

    Arienne

  266. Johanna
    January 5th, 2010 @ 6:11 pm

    Would love the password…thanks ;)

  267. Sully
    January 5th, 2010 @ 6:33 pm

    I am a real person, though I don't have a facebook account, or a myspace account.

    I do have a fetlife account. I'm sully69. Will that get me the password?

  268. Nicola
    January 6th, 2010 @ 12:25 am

    Am a real person, would love the password. x

    http://www.facebook.com/nicola.gleeson

  269. Jessy
    January 6th, 2010 @ 5:28 am

    I am a real person too. Thank you :)
    http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?ref=profile&a...

  270. Jenn
    January 6th, 2010 @ 12:25 pm

    I'm a real person too, just not much of a facebook one. Does this work for proof?
    http://www.digiromp.com/profile/JennSerano

  271. Gina
    January 6th, 2010 @ 1:57 pm

    love your blog…it inspires me. please send the passwords for the protected posts. thanks.

  272. hrafn
    January 6th, 2010 @ 3:53 pm

    I'd like to get the password, too, please!

  273. Sofy
    January 6th, 2010 @ 4:55 pm

    hey, cant stop reading you! Do want more hehe :)

  274. M
    January 7th, 2010 @ 8:42 am

    password please?

    have left website link as proof of real personhood.

  275. Jen
    January 7th, 2010 @ 11:55 am

    i'm real!! :) password please?

  276. Lain
    January 8th, 2010 @ 4:26 am

    been trying to comment, but it hasn't been working – apologies if this is a multiple post! am fascinated by your writing (though from the opposite point of view…) and would love to read more. may i have the password?

    link here: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6802701&am...

  277. Mel
    January 8th, 2010 @ 11:30 am

    Just started to read and love your writing style. Would be thrilled to read the newsletter & the password-protected posts.

    Real-person credentials above.

  278. Jen
    January 8th, 2010 @ 3:04 pm

    my comment on 1/7 was approved, but i have not received a email containing the password…did i do something incorrectly? :)

  279. Keelia
    January 8th, 2010 @ 9:36 pm

    I would love a password!! my facebook is http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/keelia.murphy?...

  280. KC
    January 9th, 2010 @ 8:40 pm

    Hi, a password would be lovely. Your writing, especially on d/s, is helpful as I'm going through the process of figuring some of this out in my own life.

    http://www.facebook.com/#/profile.php?ref=profile...

  281. Tree
    January 9th, 2010 @ 9:01 pm

    Password? I heard you speak a few weeks ago – it was wonderful. I'm real. I promise.

  282. RB Axtell
    January 10th, 2010 @ 4:48 pm

    Could I get the password please? Thanks.

  283. Andie
    January 10th, 2010 @ 6:49 pm

    Password please? I have read so many wonderful things that have really hit home with some of the issues I have been working through recently.

  284. meldyke
    January 10th, 2010 @ 8:43 pm

    may i have the password please? real email from my real personness above; you can also try http://tinyurl.com/ycwkugn. :) thanks!

  285. Madeleine
    January 11th, 2010 @ 8:09 am

    May I have the password for protected posts?

    Thank You!

  286. Danielle
    January 11th, 2010 @ 11:34 am

    Could I have the password? Thanks!
    http://www.facebook.com/danielle.sherman?ref=name

  287. Ariel Chance
    January 12th, 2010 @ 3:53 pm

    A friend just linked me to your site and said that you were her new blogger crush. Reading your posts, I can see why. I'd love the password and Newsletter, please!

  288. b
    January 12th, 2010 @ 5:25 pm

    Could i please have the password?

  289. Lauren
    January 13th, 2010 @ 8:59 am
  290. Emma Vaughn
    January 13th, 2010 @ 7:41 pm

    I love your blog and cant wait to read the password protected posts! Can I have the password please?

    http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#/profile.php?re...

  291. Katherine Mancuso
    January 14th, 2010 @ 7:52 am
  292. Meadhbh Hamrick
    January 14th, 2010 @ 8:34 am

    i too am a real person. well. okay. i'm a real enough person to read about freewill and wonder whether the absence of freewill makes me a real person. okay. that's my last comment about freewill and predetermination. honest. unless i'm predestined to say another one.

  293. Ciara
    January 15th, 2010 @ 3:34 am

    I've never had a myspace or facebook. I've been reading here for at least a year and am very curious about the protected posts, though. Email me if you're going to give me the password or not. I'll prove myself for it.

  294. xuuya
    January 17th, 2010 @ 2:11 am

    Your smut is thought-provoking and your gender theory musings are hot. Password, please.

    facebook: di couz

    Thanks for writing.

  295. Michael
    January 17th, 2010 @ 3:28 am

    Everything I read here is a heady mix of smart, dirty, compelling, and fascinating. I have been tempted to go through the archives and read from the beginning, and I'd love to see everything that's available to be read. Thanks!

  296. Jenny
    January 18th, 2010 @ 3:08 pm

    I've been lurking here for awhile now, and really enjoying everything you've written. I'd love to be able to read the password protected stuff, too. Also, I am a real person: http://www.facebook.com/chrematisai?ref=name

    Thanks!

  297. RM
    January 22nd, 2010 @ 6:50 pm

    I'd like the password, please. This never used twitter account is the best I can do.

  298. Monica
    January 24th, 2010 @ 12:51 pm

    Hi there! Very much a real femme lady. I've been enjoying reading your entries very much. It's given me a wonderful insight into the mind of a butch. I have a blog on Live Journal under the name cherishedfemme if you want to check it out. All I mostly do is ramble about how much love my own sweet butch. Here's a handy link. I always welcome new friends.

    http://cherishedfemme.livejournal.com/

  299. Annie
    January 24th, 2010 @ 1:47 pm

    Hey,
    I’ve got no website, myspace etc., but I really love your writing and would love even more to get the password – and I’m reallyreallyreally real!

    Femmy thanks from Germany!

    Annie

  300. Theresa
    January 25th, 2010 @ 4:56 pm

    Password, please?

    Thanks!

  301. Cait
    January 26th, 2010 @ 3:02 pm

    I'm a real person, promise! Passwork please?

  302. justine
    January 28th, 2010 @ 8:24 pm

    superrealinthefleshand1s&0s.

  303. Bekk
    February 1st, 2010 @ 4:34 pm

    password pleeeease?

  304. Elise
    February 6th, 2010 @ 4:57 pm

    I'm very much a real person who is interested in getting the password.

    http://www.facebook.com/MiiruFae

  305. sami bartier
    February 7th, 2010 @ 10:27 am

    hi. i do have facebook. wouid love to add you. please give me the pass word, i love reading everything you write about, especialy your erotic stories. x

  306. Hannah
    February 15th, 2010 @ 8:26 am

    Password for protected posts, please?

  307. Z
    February 15th, 2010 @ 7:27 pm

    Love what I’m reading. Password please.

  308. jk
    February 16th, 2010 @ 4:57 am

    curiosity has gotten the best of me. password please?

  309. Ms Felix
    February 16th, 2010 @ 3:43 pm

    hiya

    I love your writing, please password me?

    F

  310. Gabe
    February 17th, 2010 @ 11:02 am

    I like. Password please.

  311. Marty
    February 18th, 2010 @ 5:55 pm

    Please add me to your email and password protected list.

  312. gabe
    February 20th, 2010 @ 11:23 am

    i've been added to the email list. but no passwords info has come my way. i'm dying from suspense…

  313. Vinnie
    February 23rd, 2010 @ 7:51 pm

    "pass me the word thanks"

  314. Nicole
    March 3rd, 2010 @ 9:13 am

    http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/profile.php?i…

    Password please

  315. Vanessa Gomez
    March 5th, 2010 @ 5:51 am

    Password request :-)

  316. Jennifer
    March 6th, 2010 @ 7:23 pm

    Love your writing! May I have the password please?

    Facebook profile:
    http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?v=photos&...

  317. Sarah
    March 12th, 2010 @ 8:19 pm

    May I have the password, please, sir?

  318. Tracy Papachristodou
    March 13th, 2010 @ 7:49 am

    See…I'm really really real. This is my first visit to your site. Looking forward to spending some time amidst the Chronicles. http://www.facebook.com/people/Tracy-Papachristod...

  319. Tara
    March 13th, 2010 @ 9:23 am

    I don't have a Facebook or a Myspace but I have twitter. Can I still get the password? Thanks!

  320. Amber
    March 13th, 2010 @ 5:25 pm

    So, I'd love to get the password. A first time reader, I found this site via feministing.com. I have loved reading so many different entries that feel brutally honest. As a college freshman in the South . . . queer identity is something I have never before been exposed to, and continues to be an area of insatiable curiosity for me. I think I'm trying to say thank you for being here.

  321. K
    March 14th, 2010 @ 8:48 am

    Password Please?

  322. Toini Maki
    March 15th, 2010 @ 12:45 pm

    Would love to get a password, please.

  323. Laura
    March 15th, 2010 @ 9:43 pm

    I'd love to have access to the password protected posts. Your writing feels like home to me, and your honesty is breathtaking. Thank you for this website.

  324. Jamie
    March 18th, 2010 @ 10:16 pm

    The fourth commenter on this post introduced me to your blog a few days ago, and I have been reading obsessively since then. You and your writing are both amazing. Can I please have the password? :]

    My facebook is here! http://www.facebook.com/jamie.bartholomay

  325. Jamie
    March 18th, 2010 @ 10:19 pm

    …I meant 4th comment on this page of comments… yup it's definitely 4am. >.<

  326. DJ
    March 20th, 2010 @ 12:17 pm

    password?

  327. Mary
    March 21st, 2010 @ 4:13 am

    Anxious to read more. Nothing beats reading your words — your theories, your erotica, your poetry — while enjoying my morning coffee; a great way to start the day.

    http://www.facebook.com/#!/M.and.E.and.A?ref=prof…

  328. !spark!
    March 28th, 2010 @ 7:40 pm

    hey sinclair,

    i had your password once upon a time but then it changed?….

    also i quit much of my online reading for many months, while i was off in my head, wrassling my own angst…

    but i'm back now.

    and just as before, the honesty in your writing is inspiring me.

    i'd love to have the password now and learn more about your emotional processing…

    i made a blog almost a year ago but i'm not very prolific… and i've not shared it with many cuz, well, yeah, it's personal, and i feel vulnerable… but

    you can have the url if it proves i'm a real person
    http://sunshinefeedingdaisies.blogspot.com/

  329. lexy
    March 29th, 2010 @ 3:42 pm

    i'd love the password and the newsletter.. such a fan.

  330. Rebecca
    April 5th, 2010 @ 4:14 pm
  331. Alex
    April 9th, 2010 @ 11:21 am

    I'm amazed it took me so long to find your blog and related projects. You're doing great work for the community. Would love to have the password for your protected posts.

  332. Davis
    April 9th, 2010 @ 11:42 am

    Password please? Thanks! I'm on facebook under this email if you need to see that I'm real!

  333. EileenG
    April 9th, 2010 @ 12:13 pm

    may I pease have the passwork. I am Eileen Kwiecinski Gartland on Facebook. Thanks.

  334. Kate
    April 9th, 2010 @ 12:50 pm

    I'd love the password as well, please.

  335. RB
    April 9th, 2010 @ 3:31 pm

    Password please! Thanks!

  336. henefeld
    April 10th, 2010 @ 1:20 pm

    hey sinclair, after lurking here for a year or so I finally want the password please. why Iwve been waiting so long is a long story, which hopefully I'll share with you sometime.

  337. grrlchef
    April 11th, 2010 @ 12:00 am

    What's up Sinclair. May I have the password? K thx have a great weekend. (when do you come to C@L?!) Hurray!

  338. becky
    April 12th, 2010 @ 4:17 am

    hi, love the blog and stories and would like the password, thanks.

    b

  339. Liz
    April 12th, 2010 @ 5:19 am

    Hi, I've been reading for a while and would love the password to the protected posts. Thanks.

  340. katefate
    April 12th, 2010 @ 7:24 am

    May I have a password, please? I hope my email proves I'm real.

  341. Susie
    January 4th, 2012 @ 11:48 pm

    I’ve been really enjoying reading, would love to have a password if possible.

  342. Laurel
    January 5th, 2012 @ 9:26 pm

    I’d love to have the secret password! Email and facebook link above.

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