accessing the protected posts

Tuesday, Sep 16th, 2008 | By Sinclair | Category: colophon

So the former password protection post is spilling over with requests. With the intention of me not missing requests for access to the password protected posts, this is the new post where you leave a comment.

It would be best if you left your website, too, even if it’s your myspace or facebook address, as I’d like to know you’re a real person. You can email that to me if you’d rather it not be published publically. It’s not a requirement, if you don’t have one, but I’d appreciate it, as these are very personal writings.

About the password protected posts:

They are primarily my personal journal entries: reflections on my relationships, and my real life sex stories. Sugarbutch started so that I could have a place to reflect on my relationship difficulties, which included the problems with my relationship with my ex where I wanted to be more butch (and wanted her to be more femme) but felt unsupported to explore that, and the problems we were having with sex, which was that we were having none. It evolved into a place where I processed my relationship with another girl that I immediately got involved with, and when that relationship ended spectacularly awfully, it has been chronicling my evolution back to myself, my committment to myself, my “aspiring stud”-ness in trying to get laid, and trying to get my shit together such that I can enter into a healthy, stable, positive, committed relationship again.

Meanwhile, though, it has been lots of gender theory. Lots. And some smut stories. Which are also fun.

And as I’ve gained a larger and larger readership, the personal stuff is entirely too exposed, so they have gone under password protection. I still want a place to write about my relationship evolutions, and I still love having writing and blogging as a medium to explore my own sense of self, so I tend to write a few of these a month.

So, if you’d like to read the personal posts, leave a comment at the beep and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

Beep.

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  1. Hey. I think my blog is linked to my name on this comment, but my myspace is myspace.com/revkc31.

    Hope everything is well with you. -lc

  2. I don’t know how the facebook link works, but if you want to friend me, that’s cool. I’m a total lurker who’s been reading Sugarbutch for a long-ass time and never commented.

    In case I never do again: you rock. I got all my friends hooked on you too.
    Keep on keepin’ on.

  3. Hey, I’d really love to read the password protected posts. If you need more info about my real personness, just ask.

    I’m a new reader but really enjoying your blog.

    :*

  4. i just started reading your blog a few weeks ago, and i’m hooked. your writing is so honest, it’s really helped me process through some confusing stuff lately. I’d love to be able to read the juicy bits as well! my name is mayzie, and i blog at mayzface.livejournal.com.

    thanks, and keep up te good work!

  5. I’d love to read your private entries, because I think it might help me process some of the same issues.

  6. i love your blog and would love to read more! thanks!

  7. i’d like to read! i’ve been reading for a couple months and your writing about gender has really helped me think about identity and naming.

  8. I feel a little awkward about doing this, like I’m asking something rude: “Hi, you don’t know me, but can I read your diary? Thanks!”.

    I will, however, bite the bullet, because I’ve really enjoyed your writing so far. *grin* I also heard your interview with Ellie, and you were wonderful. :)

    So here’s me requesting access to your protected posts, if that’s okay with you. The website listed is my (relatively new) blog, and the email listed is valid. :)

  9. I recently found your blog, and am really enjoying it. If you are in a generous mood, I’d like to be able to access the private posts as well.

  10. I stumbled upon your posts quite by accident, and must say, just the brief time I’ve been reading, I’ve so enjoyed them. And learned so much, mainly about myself. It’s been an exhilarating and eye-opening journey of revelation. So for that, I thank you, sweetie. And…I’m sorry I missed you when you visited Chicago!

  11. I found your blog through a blog roll on one sex-positive blog or another, probably Figleaf’s Real Adult Sex (http://realadultsex.com/). I’ve really enjoyed reading your public posts–you pack a lot of thought-provoking (and sexy) punch into each one. If it’s okay with you, I’d love to read your protected posts as well.

  12. just recently discovered your site - your posts helped me realize i have a pretty intense spanking fetish! thanks from me and my gf..

    definitely don’t want to miss out on any future musings.

  13. *raises hand*

    I started reading a few weeks ago (linked here from Feministing). I’ve gone through a lot of the archives and I’m hooked. Would love to read more. Thanks.

  14. I’m on Myspace and Facebook. Not sure how to link to Facebook, but my Myspace is above. I too am a lurker coming out with the personal post invitation request. I’m a femme in relationship with a woman who, while not self-identified as “butch” is definitely more androgynous. I’m also a grad student interested in gender theory among other things.

  15. I’d like to be able to read them, if you don’t mind :)

    D.

  16. Think I linked my facebook in the website bit.
    I’ve been reading for some months now - since I found Sugarbutch while researching an essay on pegging and strapping-on. I’m a queer, mostly-cis but just a little genderfucked girl, an Australian student doing Arts/Law, majoring in gender and loving gender theory. Makes my head buzz. Just out of a breakup that sent me a little crazy.
    And interested in password-protected posts because you write well and often your posts make me think of things I want to talk about with other genderfreaks. Unless you’re feeling nerved out by all the requests and you want to say no. Because that’s perfectly OK.
    Claire

  17. i’d love to read more too. your blog makes this femme feel a little less isolated!

    if that link doesn’t work, just search for mia bayes on facebook to find me.

  18. I had no idea that access to your protected posts was ‘on request’, if only I had known sooner (I’m a regular)… :-)

  19. i would also like to read more.

    with love from another butch queer…

  20. Would love to read more! Thanks!

  21. already have the password but here’s my site just for kicks.

  22. I love your writing. Right now I’m interested in the qualities of femaleness and malemness. And as always……emotional & sexual interaction. You are a delight to read about all of these.

  23. I’ve really enjoyed reading your blog and would like to continue being able to access the protected entries. I really enjoy how some entries make my mind go “hmm…” and others make my body go “mmmm….”

    Keep up the great work!

  24. Hi, lurker here, love your public blog and would love to see the rest of it as well.

  25. OK, tried to link to my facebook in the “website” space above, hope it worked, would love to read the protected posts, I adore your blog!

  26. I’ve been reading you for a while. Reading your perspectives on the butch/femme aspects of a person have been greatly influential in my finding a better appreciation for my currently-femme self. I struggled long as hard as I went from a slightly-butch mostly-lesbian reality into a very fluid bisexual reality in which both men and women were a part of my sexual and romantic awareness. I worried for a long time that I had lost something, and suffered a great deal over the loss of support of my local lgbt community (turns out, the B is just there to be polite), but reading your blog prompted a lot of searching in myself, and I like what I’ve found. So, I’d love to read more- your writing is delightful, perceptive and often quite hot.

  27. Ok, so maybe this is a little odd. I have read for a long time, long before I linked to you or followed you on Twitter. So I’m letting you know I’d love to know more, read more about you and your life.

    You are just that amazing.

  28. i commented on the other page, but decided to leave another one here with my facebook link in the ‘website’ space.

  29. Hi,
    I found you through tongue-tied blue’s blog. You are both inspiring writers. I have several sites online, but I’m realizing only my facebook is current. You can check out grosreis.blogspot.com, which is mine and the wife’s. If you’d still like to see my facebook, you can do a search for my name (in my email above).
    Thanks for offering this up. It can make for a raw experience when you open yourself up for all eyes.
    Andi

  30. So very, very curious.

  31. Hey, long-time lurker & definitely a real person. Definitely enjoy the public stuff, so would no doubt enjoy the protected stuff as well.

  32. Hey, I’m Caron, I’ve been lurking here for a while and really enjoy reading your entries. Your blog’s opened my eyes quite a bit, so thanks. :) I’d love to read more if that’s cool with you. I have profiles at myspace.com/doktorc and 43things.com/person/evasion (I figure you’re sharing your personal stuff with me so it’s only fair I reciprocate).

  33. Hi,

    I discovered Sugarbutch Chronicles via Feministing. Evidently, I can’t get enough. I don’t have a website, but please let me know if there’s any other way I can verify my identity.

    Thank you, Mr. Sexsmith.

  34. Hey,

    I’d love to read your password protected posts if I may.

    Hope you’re well

    Sx

  35. Hello Mr. Sexsmith! :) I’d quite enjoy to read your protected posts :)

  36. I would love to read your protected posts

  37. I would love to indulge your password-protected awesomeness. Please. With a cherry on top.

  38. If we posted on the previous post, do we post here as well? Because I’d love to stay on the list!

  39. would love to read more!

  40. I would love to read the more intimate posts. I haven’t updated the livejournal I linked to in ages, but as I also just exited a relationship and will be doing a lot of musing trying to pull myself back together, perhaps I’ll get back into it.

    Thank you for your writing. It has helped me a lot as I tried to make the big decision about staying or leaving.

  41. I’d love to view the password protected post.

  42. Pick me pick me!
    I wanna be on the list, too!

  43. Hey, love your writings and the honest way in which you pose them. I’d love to read more juicy details!
    Keep it up. (But we all know that’s no problem for you!)

  44. I’d enjoy reading your protected posts

  45. New reader here, but love the blog too. Would love to read more.

  46. Hey, I just found your blog, and it is absolutely blowing my mind. Thanks for writing it. I’m a genderqueer butch who rides freight trains and searches for meaning in this fucked-up world- you can read about it on my blog. And please add me to your list of readers for your protected posts!
    -Carrot

  47. Thank you for your fantastic blog. I would ABSOLUTELY love to have access to more of your writing. I’m a new reader, but already a big fan of your work!

    Thanks,
    a

  48. would love to read some of your posts!

    Am a real person, although it may be debated that someone not on Facebook or whatever else is a real person in this day and age.

  49. Hi Sinclair,

    I’d love to read your protected entries, if you don’t mind. I’m a new-ish reader, but am eating up your words. Can’t get enough.

  50. Hi Sinclair,

    I’m going to let you decide. If you’d like to share these posts with me and think I’d enjoy them, I’d certainly be interested in reading.
    xo Sf

  51. Holy replies batman! How e u ever going to keep up with sending out ur password?? lol

    Interesting blog though, makes ppl think which is obviously y its so popular. So here’s my request along with the many others..

  52. Hey, it’s Jesse. I’m pretty sure you know I’m a real person :) Share?

  53. I also would love to read your protected posts. Is there an application form? Do I have to take a drug test? Not that that would be a problem?

  54. I enjoy your journal. If you feel comfortable please add me!

  55. Hi!
    I’d really love to read your protected post

  56. I love reading your blog! I’ve included my blog address…I’m not really the best blogger ever but I guess it will give you more insight to who I am and why I read your blog.

    Thanks!!

  57. My blog site is so old it is really a cobweb-site, but I have been reading your fascinating blog for about 2 months now and would love to see the password protected sites if you are open to sharing them with so many people.

    BTW, love your recommendations on toys from both Babeland and Eden. Thanks for all you are doing. My girl seconds that.

  58. I love your blog! I’m a new reader, but I’m a more than a little smitten; may I have more access?

  59. Send password.
    Thanks

  60. I’ve become addicted to Sugarbutch - it’s one of my daily reads. Would love to have access to the password protected post if that’s alright by you. I included the link to my blog. :)

  61. Hey Sinclair!

    I don’t comment but I read regularly. It’s one of my top fave reads. I’d love to be included…

  62. I had requested to read your protected posts earlier, but I’m going to withdraw my request for now. Clearly you are swamped!

    I enjoy reading your blog and will continue to do so. I was especially interested to read the current password protected one because the title is so intriguing. I’d like some insight into that topic!

    Just fyi: I am a real person! I have a facebook account, a live journal blog and a blogspot blog. I also have a day job. And a girlfriend. And a grown up daughter. And pets. And a house.

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts with all of us. It is amazing to realize how vast this thing is…

  63. I’d love to have a password if that’s ok. Your choice. Thanks for offering yourself to the net and to us.

  64. Hi there, I’m a fairly new reader to your blog, but would like to continue!

    Nichole.

  65. Hope you can let me in!

  66. Hey, would love to read the passworded entries. Your writing has me hooked and these are the subjects I base a lot of my work around.

  67. Hi. I would like to add my voice to the chorus. I have a lot to figure out myself, and your writing helps me.

  68. most of my own stuff is friends-locked, but i would very much appreciate having the password to read yours. and of course, if you have an lj-account to read people’s blogs, i’ll add you there.
    your work is HOT. thanks.

  69. I’m a fairly new reader but absolutely adore the gender theory, exploration and conversation going on here! I would love to read more about your personal journey, if you deem so. Thanks! :)

  70. hello! i’ve been reading for just over a year now, but i’m generally too shy to comment. sorry. but i’d love to get the password if i could =)

  71. I love reading your page

  72. Great writing :)
    I know what you mean about NY - London is the same for me, as a north of England girl. Not so much to be myself as to figure out who I am at all.
    Password would be awesome if that’s alright with you. I hope you’re not overwhelmed with all the requests. Thank you *very* much for your writing.

  73. I would love to read more. It’s make me think and wonder some things about myself that I never have before.

  74. SS - found your site about a month ago, and i’m so glad i did! i’m more boi than butch, so i thought i was having gender issues whenever i fantasized about getting off as if i had a real cock. and then i read “intentionally alight” (sigh of relief).

    mad props for your openness and honesty. i don’t do facebook/myspace, but i’d appreciate it if i could have access to your password protected posts. thanks!

  75. I’d love to have a password. I have been reading on and off over the summer and am so happy I found your site. I share a lot of what I read here with my partner - it makes us both think and I love how I get it even more when I tell her something I read and she says, ‘Yep, that’s me’.

    Oh, and I love the smut!

  76. I’d love to read more. Please give me the password!

  77. Chicory at anaccidentofhope.com turned me on to your site a few days ago and I’m playing catch-up. Would appreciate your password as I am a real person with no ill motives.

  78. I love your blog. I ‘discovered’ it this summer and I’ve been coming back almost daily since. I’m a femme and for a long time felt like I was not ‘a real lesbian’ because of my girliness. Your blog actually helped me get over that and start to celebrate who I am. I really like the smut too so I’m hoping you’ll share the password with me as well.

  79. Hey,

    I love your blog, for so many reasons, but I think most of those reasons can be summed up in your ‘About Me’ section. It’s really refreshing to read a perspective on queer identities, and the hotness of the butch/femme dynamic in a way that actually reflects the life and people that I know.

  80. I love this blog and I’d like very much to read your more intimate selections.

  81. I would love to read anything you write!

  82. hello,

    i’m a new-ish reader. i love blogs on gender, sexuality, food, academia, and fat acceptance. i love them so much that i now study them. (an aside: don’t really have a blog of my own, unless you count LJ, but i don’t think they’re really in the same genre.)

    anyhow, i’d love to read your password protected entries.

  83. sorry to comment again; i forgot to leave myspace/facebook/LJ links.

    http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=29617604&ref=profile

    http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=22603828

    http://ohbettinadear.livejournal.com/

  84. Love your blog, you’ve helped me through some of my own issues with gender and sexuality. Would love to read the protected posts as well.

  85. Would love to read more. :}

  86. Would love to read the protected posts; I found your site through Holden’s (Packing Vocals) and am enjoying it tremendously.

  87. came for the maddow post, stayed for the rest.

  88. Your writing has piqued my interest. But you have left me wanting more.

    I am a queer femme who just moved to NYC and your blog has left me anxious to begin my exploration of the butches in this big city.

    Mr. Sexsmith, can I have your password? I’m rapidly becoming a Sugarbutch slut.

  89. Sinclair,

    We have two things in common: using theory and reviewing at Eden. You make the theory accessible and appealing, which is the highest form of sexiness in my book. I’d love to have the password for your more intimate posts.

    Besos
    SG

  90. It would be great if I could read your protected posts. I do love your writing and your thinking.
    And here is my (new) poetry blog to which I added your blog’s RSS Feed to my blog’s sidebar; http://birdielou.wordpress.com.

    I just got an odd confirmation email from you, so my fingers are crossed that my name is up in your line of folks to approve.

  91. I came here cause somebody linked to your rachel maddow post. your blog is the most interesting thing I’ve read in ages. and I would like to read all of it. I filled in my LJ address under website.

  92. Hey Slick!

    You sent me an email with a link to confirm access… but it doesn’t work!

    Can we try again?
    Thanks!

  93. If you might share your password with me, I would be ever grateful.

  94. Hello! I love your blog and would like to read the password protected posts.

    Thanks!

  95. Me please. :)

  96. love your writing and your site. it is rapidly becoming one of my favorites. password please? pretty please?

    i put in my xanga linked to my name, but i haven’t written there for a long while.
    here is my facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8813655&ref=name

  97. good evening sir,

    so very glad i stayed home with a fever and discovered your writings.
    may i please see more?

    much appreciated,
    luci

  98. I love your writing! Reading your thoughts on gender theory is helpful. I talk about it all the time and have pushed friends and family to check you out.

    And I would love to read the password protected stuff.

    Thanks.

  99. Hi! Stumbled upon your site… your recent post on “a girl: my future wife” really moved me. I’d appreciate it if I could read more of your work. Great stuff!

  100. Pretty please?

  101. password! i want password!

  102. I would love to have access to the protected posts. I only found your site a few months ago and fell in love your writings. I totally get it. (a real hello the the soul of me) It’s great to read something that I get and in some odd way…..gets me.

    Just in case… http://www.myspace.com/earthygrrl

  103. It would be awesome if i could get the password, please and thank you.

    if you need it - http://www.myspace.com/herbyrocks

  104. Hey Sinclair. Love reading your blog, and would love to have access to the protected posts. Found your site first through my friend Miriam at Feministing. No blog or website of my own to share, but if that changes I’ll let you know. Peace.

  105. who wouldn’t want to read the password protected stuff? it’s so exciting to have the chance to read something private. very sexy.

  106. Hey darling..would love to read your protected posts….here is my blog if you haven’t checked it out already, http://www.thevaginaadventures.com

    It’s really because I want to see that outtake of the calendar party you so prematurely posted on Twitter…giggles

  107. i love your blog… and your philosophies are quiet intresting to those of us that are younger. I would love to read more

  108. That’s my work site but I also have a facebook page as well which you can find by searching. Love the blog! Thanks for sharing.

  109. Hey, I just found you through Waking Vixen and would love to read more. (I hope I did the facebook thing right…)

  110. Well, I think you know I would like to read more….

  111. I would love to read more…pretty, pretty, please. I promise I’ll be good.

  112. Ok, I think I may have a little writer-crush on you! ;) Your words leave me wanting more…can I please have the password? Thanks for the stimulating entries.

  113. I would like to read the protected pieces.
    I have no website, but I’m happy to send a personal check.
    Teacher’s salary, so anything over $20 would be prohibitive.

    Gracias.

  114. Your blog gives me hope of a way to be one day. Love the blog, would love to read all the posts. Get back to me when you can. Thanks!

  115. I would love to read more of your work.

    Thanks,

    Taylor

  116. Sinclair–

    Enjoying your site and your posts. As of yet, I have no website of my own, but am eager to read more of your posts should you see fit to grant me the password. I’m a butch/FTM/GQ-lovin’ queer poly LeatherFemme Switch sex educator/writer, most recently published in the anthology, “Focus on the Fabulous: Colorado GLBT Voices,” under my birth name, Debra A. Myers.

    Merci Beaucoup,
    oxoRoxy

  117. I’m a total sugarbutch addict. I don’t have facebook anymore, cos I work at a University, and I’m a little wary about separating work-life from personal-life…

  118. I’ve been reading your blog for over a year and would love to get more insight ……. keep up the great work!! If you need more info from me just let me know…. I don’t have a blog or website …….. I look foward to getting the password………… Thanks Again Sharon

  119. Your writing is so remarkably intimate already. I am curious about your password protected posts, and I feel a little like a dirty trick in asking for it.

    I write about many similar things. I like your courage and your style and I would be happy to send links to my own published poems and stories to make this whole thing a little less one-sided.

    Sometimes I love it and sometimes it turns me on ferociously and sometimes I hate it. I think you’re really onto something here kid. :)

    Keep it up,

    Frances

  120. I would love to read more of you.

    thank you.

  121. I suppose it’s silly - how long I’ve spent trying to get this message to sound just right.

    You’re an inspiration. My favourite blogger. My best teacher.
    I would love to read more.

    x

  122. I would love to have access to the protected posts. As a femme bisexual woman, butch women are who I am mostly attracted to. I so enjoy reading about the butch/femme dynamic and learning about your perspective on gender and sexuality. I especially enjoyed the post about butch/femme vs. top/bottom and how one does not necessarily equal the other.

    Keep up the hot writing! And thank you so much for sharing it with us. (my website is included above, although the viewable posts are old, I have been “locking” my recent posts to keep some aspect of privacy.)

  123. i’m a fan of yours on your facebook. would love to read more of your stuff. i am a butch dyke who is very into femme women, and who couldn’t stand to learn more?? please send me your password
    nanc m

  124. An old lover pointed me in your direction. I like what I’ve seen, and with your permission, would like to see more.

    Kindest regards…

  125. I absolutely love this site, such a lovely mix, such thoughtful writing, filthy smut, butch eye candy - what more could a girl want - except for even more of it of course! Could I please have access to the password protected posts? (I realise you don’t know me at all and am happy to answer any questions about myself you may have, I’m going to email you my facebook and other personal pages right now as I prefer not to make them public)
    thank you so much for your writing, it is very much appreciated!
    xxx

  126. I have no idea how I got linked to your site by reading an article about relationship from msn. Anyway, I am so inspired by the stories you wrote and would definitely like to read more of your writings. I have also used some of the terms I learned from your writings while texting my girlfriend and that does cheer her up a lot on a busy working day(I didn’t quote the messages and i hope this does not count as plagiarism). BTW, I’m from Hong Kong. You do have fans from around the world.

  127. Hi there-Got to your site through a link on Lesbian Dad’s blog. Would love to be able to read the protected posts if you wouldn’t mind….Thanks so much!

  128. I can’t remember how I found your blog, but have been an infrequent reader for a while now. I’m always impressed with your thought processes and honesty. I would like to read some of the password-protected posts.

    Your writing is indeed appreciated, as are your contributions to my own internal reflections.

    Best.

  129. I don’t have a website, but I’ve been readign your blogs for a few months now and I’d really love to read the “protected” ones. =]

  130. hi sinclair,
    i’ve been reading your current writing for a few months and would love to be able to read more of your archived posts. as someone who has a major in feminist studies, it’s doubly sweet to see the theory undergirding the pleasure and vice versa. thanks for your writing,
    tessa

  131. would love to read more of your writing.

    thank you

  132. Hi, Learning a lot from what Ive read! Would really be great to be able to read all all you write about.
    Phew! Cant imagine it could get BETTER! Thanks!

  133. love love love the way you write and am itchin’ to read more. i’m a real person. search my email addy on facebook and add me why don’t ‘ya?

  134. Like all the others who have commented before me, I really like your writing. Please let me in on the magic word?

    Thanks.

  135. HI Sinclair,

    I’ve just started reading your blog and am fascinated with the way that you write - there is such an almost visceral feel to your observations which I am greatly enjoying. I’ve been writing for a long time but am still trying to find my real voice.

    I came across your blog in a similar fashion - trying to find the ‘real voice’ of my sexuality. As much as I try to rail against labels, they do give us something to start from when trying to understand ourselves and get to know others. I’m gay. I have a long held interest in BDSM and Dominance and submission. I used to be a Domme, but always topped men and had ‘vanilla but playful’ relationships with women. Over the last few years I have discovered a have much more of an interest in bottoming. I’m in a relationship (currently 7 years and still wonderfully delightful) with a bi woman who is also interested in Dominance and submission. We decided on having an open relationship within a certain set of rules and so far it has worked for us… although now we find ourselves in a new position as I am now bottoming for her (male) Dom.

    Do you need a flowchart yet?

    But even though it seems so convoluted and I’m sure that there are people reading this who are just sighing because they think that I’m falling into the trap of a somewhat socially ‘acceptable’ relationship (Male, at the head of the relationship with a female bottom… even if there is another female in there with it all) it is SO totally working for us.

    I’ve started to realise through reading your blog and really thinking about it all, that it is other people’s perceptions of the relationships I have that I’m trying to answer, and not my own questions. I’m happy to float along for the ride in a threesome that is surprisingly functional (in spite of the mess the flow chart might seem - lol) because I don’t think that adding more love to something can ever really be a mistake. No matter what flavour that love comes in.

    So, thank you for helping me understand more about the way my bizarre life is working out, and helping me to enjoy it more through that understanding.

    The next time my girlfriend (who comes from Brooklyn, but now lives with me in Australia) and I go to the US to visit family, I would love to buy you a beer. You’re brilliant!

    ~Jo-Anne.

  136. I’m femme, love your writing, and really *really* need more…

  137. I would like to request access to your protected posts. I understand why you chose to limit access, so appreciate your consideration of my request. Thank you.

  138. i’ve been reading your site for a couple of months. I’m a gender studies geek, a tomboy that never really grew into another role and an admirer of butch women. Every time I come here I seem to learn a little more about myself and the women I love, so I thank you for that.
    Oh, and My Father’s Son did things to me I haven’t begun to explain yet. It’s beautiful.
    But yes, I’m grateful to read anything you’ll let me look at.
    xx

  139. Hey… I’d really love to read your password-protected posts. I feel strange asking because I don’t know you, but I assume that most of these people don’t. Anyway. I am real. I also have a MySpace that I don’t really use:
    http://www.myspace.com/franklyshellfish

  140. I would love to be able to read more. Thanks

  141. i’ve enjoyed reading your posts and I would like to be able to read the protected ones if that’s ok. :)

  142. Password, please :D Your posts are phenomenal.

  143. Me, please.

    Thank you. :)

  144. Hello - been reading for a while and very much enjoy your writing, so would love to read more.

    Blog: http://bipoly.wordpress.com
    Twitter: http://twitter.com/wilhelminawang

    And I’m on FetLife under ‘wilhelmina’

    Thank you :)

  145. I’m femme and love your writing - would love to read your private, password protected thoughts also :-)

    Am on myspace as melb_femme

  146. Hi Sinclair,

    I have been reading your blog for a few months and really enjoy it. I am discovering all of the great femme blogs out there and was happy to add a butch blog to the my daily reading.

    I am also being published in teh Femmethology next year (in fact, I think we are in the same volume.) My personal myspace page is here: http://www.myspace.com/queersouthernfemme and my public one for burlesque is here: http://www.myspace.com/LydiaLibertine

    Let me know if you want any more info and thanks for the good reading!

    Caitlin

  147. Hey! Just started reading… I’m loving everything I’m reading! Please include me too!!!

  148. a past “Daddy” of mine turned me onto Your site….i love it…i no longer have Her, but would love to have access to read more. may i please have access to the rest of Your site?
    thank You.

  149. Hello,

    I’d love to be able to read the protected posts, too. I put a link to my journal in the ‘website’ box, but my myspace is here also: http://www.myspace.com/polysymbiosis

  150. Hi, I’m a real person. I’d like to read the protected posts. I’m a
    femme, and very interested in questions of gender identity.
    Thanks.

  151. hey there… this is the first comment i leave you but i certainly hope it’s not the last… i really like your blog, i’ve even been reading other blogs that keep sending me back to yours… and i have to admit that i’m pretty curious of those protected posts… here’s my myspace link: http://www.myspace.com/rock22chic

  152. my curiosity is piqued.

  153. Thank you for the captivating smut . . . and all the rest as well. A password would be well used, if you are so inclined.

  154. love your blog!

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