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eye candy: LP

1 minute read Posted on September 30, 2008by QEC

The Femme Show in Boston

1 minute read Posted on September 30, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Fancy Tie Trick

1 minute read Posted on September 29, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

when waitresses are kinky

2 minute read Posted on September 28, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Her Best Line

11 minute read Posted on September 25, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Carrying the torch: Obama ’08

4 minute read Posted on September 25, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

upon returning, a small complaint

3 minute read Posted on September 24, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Protected: universe to Sinclair: high five

4 minute read Posted on September 24, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

sex blogger calendar 2009

1 minute read Posted on September 23, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

accessing the protected posts

2 minute read Posted on September 16, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Protected: How do you survive falling in love with people who ravage you? (part two)

11 minute read Posted on September 16, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

On Pronouns, Mine

2 minute read Posted on September 16, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

the fate of Bitch Magazine is in your hands

2 minute read Posted on September 16, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Protected: How do you survive falling in love with people who ravage you? *

8 minute read Posted on September 15, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

brief celebreality moment

1 minute read Posted on September 10, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Define: Need a Word For Receiving Chivalry

1 minute read Posted on September 10, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Define: Cisgender

1 minute read Posted on September 10, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

BSB: the creation myth

2 minute read Posted on September 8, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Protected: blackberry

2 minute read Posted on September 8, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

What happened in August

3 minute read Posted on September 6, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

psst … did you?

1 minute read Posted on September 6, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

In Praise of Femmes: The Architecture of Identity

5 minute read Posted on September 5, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

top 100 sex bloggers

3 minute read Posted on September 5, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

femme conference roundup, & links

3 minute read Posted on September 5, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

Review: Goodfella

2 minute read Posted on September 5, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

queer bodies in psychotherapy conference

1 minute read Posted on September 4, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

you don’t have to take MY word for it

1 minute read Posted on September 3, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

why is leather so damn sexy?

2 minute read Posted on September 3, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

eye candy: the gay prom

1 minute read Posted on September 2, 2008by QEC

Masculinity Depictions in Disney Films

1 minute read Posted on September 2, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

September masthead: gender buddha

1 minute read Posted on September 1, 2008by Sinclair Sexsmith

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