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1. Calico June 18th, 2008 4:50 pm :

   I love your “eye candy” posts. Keep them coming!

2. the femme top June 18th, 2008 7:47 pm :

   real butches wear pink :)

3. muse June 19th, 2008 12:48 pm :

   wow, great attitude. love the glasses-down-the-nose thing, it’s very… appraising. and my goodness, what a fantastic hat.

4. Dolce June 21st, 2008 5:25 pm :

   Hotness!

5. Sam October 2nd, 2008 2:26 am :

   That’s Right!!! Real Butches Wear Pink!

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